koooky

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Hello all.
I wanted to share a few things about being honest with your mate about Penis Enlargement.

Of course, I don't know all of you all's situation but I can tell you this, if you are married or in a very commited, serious relationship, TELL THEM ABOUT Penis Enlargement!!!
This is not something just to blurt out over dinner, but plan it out. Explain why you are doing it and even get some input. "What would YOU like? (length vs. girth, etc) While your at it, if you use any aids like hangers or pumps, be prepared to show them and how you use them. I know it sounds crazy but about a year ago I "came out" to my wife and guess what, she now gives me the privacy I ask for. She know if I am in the office and the door is shut, to knock. She doesn't think I am have 'puter sex or anything. She knows therefore she feels better. It has really stregthen our relationship because if I can be so honest and vulnerable about something like this, she knows I can be trusted and that I trust in what we have. Another big plus---I have shown her how to clamp the base with her "OK" grip for Ulis while she is going down on me. Talk about great head!

Anyway, something for you guys to think about.


koooky
 
Koooky you are right with the honesty,i have never tried to hide that i pe.Now i dont have a serious relationship but with my ex girlfriend i have remained very close friends and i have told her about penis enlarging,i can talk with her about anything.Even my father knows that i enlarge,he is a very open mind man with who i can talk everything and hes helping me much,he is doing the exercises too.
 
Yeah I told my girlfriend about it before I even started and she was cool with it as long as there weren't any health risks. I think she'll be very happy once I reach my goal.
 
well, i am a closet Penis Enlargement'er. I am not sure how to go about telling the wifey, although I know I should. I feel embarresed about doing it and keeping it so secret but talking about it is even harder.
i hope i can come out soon.
 
Good luck to you fubar. I wish you the best. If there is anything I can do to help you out
let me know. Maybe your wife is self-conscience about a certain part of her body and you can use that as an intro to what you are doing. It would depend on the type of relationship you have and how you two communicate.
 
Thanks. I think we have a good relationship. In fact, i think I will be more embarressed by the talk than she will, however, that doesn't make it any easier.
 
im a closet Penis Enlargement'er as well fubar.
im not with anyone at the moment but its something i keep secret from other people.
i guess sometimes i think p.e is just something that should be kept between men as guy type of thing.

although if youre married i can see reason to share instead of hiding as why would you need to hide.
girlfriends come and go sometimes though,so id keep it in the closet in that type of context.
 
I agree with telling your partner as well. Thumbs up guys.
 
For the first few years that I was Penis Enlargementing (pre MOS) I was a closet Penis Enlargement guy. As a result, I had to sneak in the exercises when i could guarantee the privacy and the secrecy. This past January when I decided to get back into it and found MOS I decided to take a leap of faith and tell my wife. Man it set me free. I can do Penis Enlargement work in the morning and she knows about it. She also knows about my ROP. Last week I was getting dressed and she said "hey, don't forget your battery!!" and handed it to me. I say tell them, it worked for me.
 
I think it is a good idea to tell your partner...even if you aren't married...honesty is a big part of any relationship...i told my child's mother(we are really good friends) that i was pe'ing....& she doesn't have a problem with it..she actually wants to watch me while i do my exercises...i'm not that comfortable yet though..but knowing that she understands and accepts it makes it that much easier...now my current girl would probably would think what i am doing is ridicoulous...but i still plan on telling her when i get home...regardless how she reacts to it...i am going to continue until i reach my goal.
 
I agree man. I have shown my wife my ROP, hanger, and pump. Even shown her how they work. Think of how sili you'd look if you got caught with 10 pounds hanging from your unit or a big plastic cyclander stuck to it with a tire pump on the end. I told her out of fear that she would think it was some sexual desire she wasn't fullfilling AND to give me the privacy I need to do my work.

koooky
 
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