Ok so heres the deal, about 6 weeks my GF told me she didnt want us to go out anymore because we hardly see each other and she she it feels like we're not even boyfriend and girlfriend. I told her i didn't want us to break up cause i really like her and she said well we hardly see each other (live about 15mile apart) and that there was no point in us continuing to go out. So we talked and she said she'd text me later. About an hour later she phoned me and said she didn;t want us to break up earlier and that she really liked me to and she was just confused.. so we got back together. Before the 'break up' we seen each other once, maybe twice a week. But we talked everyday. And after it we only had a week or maybe 2 i think before she was away on an irish speaking trip.
Now this past 2 1/2 weeks she's been away on an irish speaking trip with the school and her mobile phone has hardly got signal there so i couldnt phone her but sometimes she could send text messages, so we texted each other when we could. Before went we seen each other a lot and she was up in my house the saturday before she went, everything seemed brilliant between us. I phoned the on sunday night (she left on monday) and she was saying she'd miss me and try to phone and text if she could. And she also said im goin to tell my daddy about you but not yet cuase id be afraid of what he'd say. Her mum and sisters all know about me but she's afraid to tell her dad cause he is overprotective and all that.
So i thought everything was good between us and we texted a few messages each day.
About a week into her course i turn on my phone one morning and i get a message and she says she's been thinking and she's not happy. She said she wants us to go on a break because we dont see each other enough. She really cares about me and thatmaybe we can meet when she gets back. So i agree, what else could i do. I told her a really liked her and still wanted us to go out and all as well.
So we didnt text for about a week and then i texted her after the weekend to see how she was and if there family called up to visit that weekend because she sadi they might and i said i couldnt wait to see her.
She wrote back saying she couldnt wait to see me either but she doesnt thin kwe should get back together because she doesnt see us working out.
I near shit my pants, I really rally like her and i thought things were just starting to go well with us and now she says this.
So i said i was confused and didnt know how she could just say this out of nowhere.
And she said she felt like this before but thought it would work out but she just ended up feeling like this again and she said she's sorry she help how she feels. And she says again i dont think we should get back together casue she doesnt see it working out.
She's home next tuesday and she said she'd phone when she's home so we can talk about it.
I really really like her and want us to get back together. Everything was good with us before she went away and had 'time to think about things' as she said. I just feel like shit at the minute and dont know what to do.
My friends said we'd work it out and get back but she kept saying see doesnt see her changing her mind about this and all...
Suggestions?
Sorry about the long post i didnt realise.
Now this past 2 1/2 weeks she's been away on an irish speaking trip with the school and her mobile phone has hardly got signal there so i couldnt phone her but sometimes she could send text messages, so we texted each other when we could. Before went we seen each other a lot and she was up in my house the saturday before she went, everything seemed brilliant between us. I phoned the on sunday night (she left on monday) and she was saying she'd miss me and try to phone and text if she could. And she also said im goin to tell my daddy about you but not yet cuase id be afraid of what he'd say. Her mum and sisters all know about me but she's afraid to tell her dad cause he is overprotective and all that.
So i thought everything was good between us and we texted a few messages each day.
About a week into her course i turn on my phone one morning and i get a message and she says she's been thinking and she's not happy. She said she wants us to go on a break because we dont see each other enough. She really cares about me and thatmaybe we can meet when she gets back. So i agree, what else could i do. I told her a really liked her and still wanted us to go out and all as well.
So we didnt text for about a week and then i texted her after the weekend to see how she was and if there family called up to visit that weekend because she sadi they might and i said i couldnt wait to see her.
She wrote back saying she couldnt wait to see me either but she doesnt thin kwe should get back together because she doesnt see us working out.
I near shit my pants, I really rally like her and i thought things were just starting to go well with us and now she says this.
So i said i was confused and didnt know how she could just say this out of nowhere.
And she said she felt like this before but thought it would work out but she just ended up feeling like this again and she said she's sorry she help how she feels. And she says again i dont think we should get back together casue she doesnt see it working out.
She's home next tuesday and she said she'd phone when she's home so we can talk about it.
I really really like her and want us to get back together. Everything was good with us before she went away and had 'time to think about things' as she said. I just feel like shit at the minute and dont know what to do.
My friends said we'd work it out and get back but she kept saying see doesnt see her changing her mind about this and all...
Suggestions?
Sorry about the long post i didnt realise.