It's also more difficult for some due to the intense sexualized music, and entertainment we're exposed to now.

Temptation always starts with an almost unnoticed emotion. The seed is planted and if not uprooted it will become something you do not want to do. Staying self-aware in the moment allows us to be aware of these Temptations and give us the ability to nip it in the bud before it gets too big we can’t stop it. Always l keep in mind the regret you would feel if you consummate this action.
 
I observed something and I need help for this.....

First of all, I am not addicted to ����. I was addicted to ���� before but now I only watch ���� to edge and ejaculate so that I my penis become flaccid and tired and I could stretch.

My main concern is that even though I am not addicted to ����, It might have left some effect on my brain. Today I went out with my friends and the place we were, it was full of college students(mostly girls). During that entire time, I didn't get a single feeling of arousal which is strange as the place was filled with beautiful girls. I have heard that ���� can leave an affect on brain that you might not like regular girls and will only be erect for "smokin hot" girls like they show you in ����. I think I might have that problem.

Now I want to leave ���� for good. From this point onward, I want to absolutely quit ���� and I am going to need any help I can get. I want to know is that the damage ���� has done to my brain, is it reversible? Can I rewire my brain to function normally so that I might find normal girls attractive?
 
90 Days no ���� & no Masturbation is the purpose of NoFAP. Sex is fine (but best if no imagination is used)
Ofcourse people can do 90 Days of no ���� only / No P (before embarking on No FAP)
which is considered Easy Mode compared to No FAP

I believe initially No FAP was created by older men who had been watching ���� since they where teens or simple a very long time and it ended up curing their ED & Fetishes which seemed to be all programmed into them. They where basically reset to pre-���� Life - after giving up ���� Forever.

Women can also do No FAP not really sure how it works for them (its been awhile since i watched this vid) but that is interesting as well. She also has a playlist for her No FAP experience


Hmm, it seems to be a thing with women who do nofap deleting their videos well heres whats left of her playlist

Well i Just Rewatched the first Vid and she brings up Veganism which fails her sometime after that vid. Probably watch those vids aswell if your considering Veganism.
 
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@Avglen61 I have done it no fap for a month or so and you can have a different body feeling, not watching ���� seems to be easy,but is not that easy one day at the time, invest your free time doing something else.
 
Yea its probably the most difficult thing to do for many men (nofap)
so set reachable goals - 90 days may be a bit much.
30 Days or less for starters seems about right, that is if you are serious about it.

Maybe see what 7 days to 14 days on NoFap is like for you
 
Awesome additions my brothers this thread is shaping up to be exactly what I wanted to be. I’ve been good for a while now. I’m using a new technique that really works for me but I’ll share it with you to see if it works for you. I picture myself masturbating and looking at filthy dirty movies and how I must look doing this. I think to myself what if Jesus is going to walk through the door while I’m in the middle of this mess. That really helps me to stay clear for much of the time. And as I said none of us should be doing this but if we do, we have an advocate in Jesus Christ. Keep up the good work my brothers, the goal is to better ourselves not perfect ourselves.
 
I don't think it should be expected to get turned on when around girls or women, just because they are around.

It tells me that you have made progress by not sexualizing the females around you, which predators do, and a fair few of those around that see the world as sexual playground.

I'm like you, in that I can be around women, stunning women and not be turned on, yet still see them as attractive at the time.

Men that always think about sex, and see women as essentially meat really have serious mental health issues, it's not manly being like that, just fucking sick.

Your doing really well.
 
I don't think it should be expected to get turned on when around girls or women, just because they are around.

It tells me that you have made progress by not sexualizing the females around you, which predators do, and a fair few of those around that see the world as sexual playground.

I'm like you, in that I can be around women, stunning women and not be turned on, yet still see them as attractive at the time.

Men that always think about sex, and see women as essentially meat really have serious mental health issues, it's not manly being like that, just fucking sick.

Your doing really well.

❤️
 
Is there a way to find a middle ground between ���� and addiction?

I am just saying this because I think I have found one. Lately I had an erection out of the blue and I wasn't doing anything. So I retraced my steps and did some experiment. I watched some ���� and didn't get any arousal which is ironic because I used to get one every time I used to watch ����. I used to think about ���� and sex a lot but now, it is nothing. Sex and ���� does not affect me anymore.

Is this okay or something is wrong with me?
 
If you're not getting a sensation of excitement from ���� it could mean your mind is dulled by it, requiring more stimulus. I've watched adult material without getting too excited but I feel I am at "control", regarding any addiction. (I do view adult material on a regular basis but hardly ever seem to go for very HC stuff. A good South Park episode regarding this whole ���� thing is Over logging, at least partially. ;) )

It's about moderation, from my point of view. The problem often is that the mind starts to yearn for more and more, more hardcore etc..
You should / could feel some excitement from even milder material but not necessarily.
Overall things are a bit over-sexualized as it is, from my point of view anyway.
Anyway, if you feel there's a spark going away, do consider blood tests relating to testosterone and so on.

Probably nothing wrong with you. :) Relax and take it easy.
 
Well the effect from ���� is shock value, and likely why many tabs open at the same time is for.
To Look for Shock value constantly. Sooner than later it will take more "Shock" Depravity or whatever for the same effect. Down the Rabbit Hole.

This is especially true for people who watch it all the time or have in the past.
 
In my case my libido is very low and this is because I avoid anything that will tempt me to fall off the wagon. Sex does not interest me and it’s rare that I even think about it. But you may be much different than me. My reasons for this are spiritual your reasons may be different.
 
I am starting to agree with the fact that this is something I will never master but it is something I will continue to strive for. After 2 weeks I fell again. This time it was my fault on every level as I went to a place I should have not gone and in going this place I knew I would be driven to even worse places but I did not resist and ended up falling. Oddly enough it is never guilt I feel any longer, it is always conviction and the knowledge that I am doing the best I can. I do not think God looks on me so much for the sin itself but more how quickly I come back to Him for forgiveness. I know in my heart I am doing all I can do and there is always going to be the occasion that this will happen. We become too hungry we have no choice but to eat. The same applies to sexuality, it is a hunger that left unfed can and will bring us to a worse place. I am going to try a new technique that I think will work. I am going to masturbate every two weeks with no stimuli whatsoever, just my mind, unoccupied going through the motions to allow this release without having to go to ����. I always hope for night time emissions but they simply do not happen with me. I went 30 days with nothing and this can't be healthy for the prostate.

I know that I love God more than I love anything else and that is what is important to me, that nothing masters me but my master who is Jesus. Allowing myself to struggle so much with avoidance is not decreasing the temptations but adding fuel to them. In order for me to become successful will be learning to sit with the temptations and let them go. I think in avoidance of the temptation causes a greater desire for the temptation itself. There is much to think on here and I never allow anything bad to happen that I do not make beautiful, even in this I will find the beauty.

Keep up the fight my Brothers and know we are fallible and what matters most is not so much complete success but the fact that we are trying our best and when things are difficult we have one another to look to for help and guidance.

Much Love My Brothers!
Brothers I think my response was flagged!
I stop believing in religion because it was simply interfering was my moral compass!
If you read the 7 deadly sins and 10 deadly sins and 10 commands
Earth will go to hell!
However, despite that I really believe in GOD! I Believe GOD is Loving, Patient and understanding and by all, forgiving.
If ... masturbation was, bad for everyone! Even animals and nature would be in hell too.
There is way, too much Human and women kind acting like judges and jury's. While acting like they are a GOD or GODS!
Let GOD be GOD and, Let Human and women kind learn from our are mistakes! Ask GOD for some forgiveness!
Stop punishing yourselves!
If, You! Feel guilty about ����, stop using it, stop watching , stop reading it!

We are human Kind! Not perfect! and all knowing!
Love you all.
 
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Brothers I think my response was flagged!
I stop believing in religion because it was simply interfering was my moral compass!
If you read the 7 deadly sins and 10 deadly sins and 10 commands
Earth will go to hell!
However, despite that I really believe in GOD! I Believe GOD is Loving, Patient and understanding and by all, forgiving.
If ... masturbation was, bad for everyone! Even animals and nature would be in hell too.
There is way, too much Human and women kind acting like judges and jury's. While acting like they are a GOD or GODS!
Let GOD be GOD and, Let Human and women kind learn from our are mistakes! Ask GOD for some forgiveness!
Stop punishing yourselves!
If, You! Feel guilty about ����, stop using it, stop watching , stop reading it!

We are human Kind! Not perfect! and all knowing!
Love you all.


Religion is bullshit! My religion is the Bible and my priest is Jesus Christ. So I know exactly how you’re feeling. I’ve been a pastor for the past 12 years teaching this message. So if you want to discuss this further or need any help around this please just ask it seems like we believe similar things. Thank you for coming out and letting us know and I wish you the best my brother.
 
Well made it 3 weeks and dropped the ball tonight. 5 minutes of instant gratification now followed by hours of regret. Regretting not masturbation so much as what I viewed, pure filth. I am ashamed and disappointed. Oh how I wish I could forgive myself as God has forgiven me! Well back at it, maybe I can make a month!

Reasons. As I stated a few posts back the main act does not happen all at once. It starts in little unchecked moments of weakness that become more intense unless they are stopped. Once I pass the event horizon it’s too late. I was loose today with my eyes and thoughts. Praying that I can gain even more strength from the disappointment of this fall. Pray for me too as I do for you.
 
Well made it 3 weeks and dropped the ball tonight. 5 minutes of instant gratification now followed by hours of regret. Regretting not masturbation so much as what I viewed, pure filth. I am ashamed and disappointed. Oh how I wish I could forgive myself as God has forgiven me! Well back at it, maybe I can make a month!

Reasons. As I stated a few posts back the main act does not happen all at once. It starts in little unchecked moments of weakness that become more intense unless they are stopped. Once I pass the event horizon it’s too late. I was loose today with my eyes and thoughts. Praying that I can gain even more strength from the disappointment of this fall. Pray for me too as I do for you.
 
Bro.
stop beating yourself up!
even angles make mistake.
best thing is, that us humans can do.... Learn try not do it again!
we forgive you and understand. It s nature. or normal!
Peace Bro.
 
Bro.
stop beating yourself up!
even angles make mistake.
best thing is, that us humans can do.... Learn try not do it again!
we forgive you and understand. It s nature. or normal!
Peace Bro.


I love that! Even Angels make mistakes! That was the blessing in this! There is nothing that happens in my life that does not contain a blessing! Thank you for showing me it! God bless you!
 
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