NoFap no ���� Accountability Thread

[DLD]

This is a thread that I am creating for those who are struggling with either ����������� or masturbation issues (or both) and want to stop these behaviors. I have spent much time reading ways to stop masturbation and ����������� and I have to say, most of these things will never help. I have found some things that do help for me, but much of what I use to deter these issues is based in my deep belief and love for Jesus. But when I look at my methods I do see room for those who do not believe to still use the benefits of such. I will post these in my next post.

So every time you slip up you come to this thread and we will hold each other accountable. Having to admit to one another the struggles we are having will always lead to a quicker recovery. Now, do not get down on yourself, I do not expect anyone to be successful at first, you will fall but we will be there to help you up. So this thread is not so much a challenge than a support group. We have many Brothers who will support this cause and through our collective power this thread will serve to help so many in the future.

 

[DLD]

I will be the first to post my timeline of success. It has been 2 days since I have watched ���� and masturbated. I felt extremely ashamed after and the guilt was so great I ran to the first friend I saw and admitted my fall. The shame was so great that I started to search out ways to refrain from this continuous win/lose situation. My way to stop this is very simple and, in my case, extremely effective. Again, I base everything I do in the Lords eyes so if you are not a believer that is fine but my methods may still help. This is NOT a religious thread, this is a thread to help Brothers become disciplined and accountable to the Family and seek help in the times of failure.

 

[Big Schwanz Acht]

Guilt and Shame are two of the most Toxic emotions that can erode one's self-esteem quicker and with more damage than any other. I've always been a free and positive thinker/believer and do NOT adhere to societal claims that drinking/drugs/����/etc. are vices or activities that should be shunned. On the contrary, my tenets allow for any/all behaviors that do no harm to others and don't have a negative impact on your life as positive experiences. Now, once these behaviors begin to have unwanted repercussions, then it's time to evaluate/adjust/eliminate as needed.

Mike's friend made a statement about privilege and I'll take it many steps forward...everything you do is a privilege, once it becomes a problem you no longer get that privilege. This seems very simple on it's face, almost too simple, but extrapolated to encompass your life it becomes a much deeper statement...almost a 'life-map'.

So eliminate guilt and shame from the equation, live fully, make mistakes, apologize quickly and sincerely, learn every day and treat all that you encounter with respect (most importantly yourself)!

BTW, I jerked-off on a girls boobs yesterday...felt great no guilt

 

[orgasmic19]

Just what I needed. Since having two weeks off from PE I reverted back to my old habits of ���� and masturbation. I been trying to beat ���� addiction for sometime now.

 

[LONGERDICK7+]

Guilt and Shame are two of the most Toxic emotions that can erode one's self-esteem quicker and with more damage than any other. I've always been a free and positive thinker/believer and do NOT adhere to societal claims that drinking/drugs/����/etc. are vices or activities that should be shunned. On the contrary, my tenets allow for any/all behaviors that do no harm to others and don't have a negative impact on your life as positive experiences. Now, once these behaviors begin to have unwanted repercussions, then it's time to evaluate/adjust/eliminate as needed.

Mike's friend made a statement about privilege and I'll take it many steps forward...everything you do is a privilege, once it becomes a problem you no longer get that privilege. This seems very simple on it's face, almost too simple, but extrapolated to encompass your life it becomes a much deeper statement...almost a 'life-map'.

So eliminate guilt and shame from the equation, live fully, make mistakes, apologize quickly and sincerely, learn every day and treat all that you encounter with respect (most importantly yourself)!

BTW, I jerked-off on a girls boobs yesterday...felt great no guilt

interestin views and they can be a perfect way to let us know when that ""privilege"" is not a privilege anymore, and turns into a harmful situation or habit.

The hard part is being aware and realize when things can get wrong.

 

[Big Schwanz Acht]

The hard part is being aware and realize when things can get wrong.

And that's the trick! Perhaps this thread can be a touching-point for Brothers that feel 'out-of-control' whereby we can reign-in dangerous behavior before it becomes untenable

 

[LONGERDICK7+]

i dont think id be able to stop masturbation completely,i dont have someone to have intimacy whit, and the lack of privacy i have is terrible..

But yeah i have try to decrease the number of days i jerk off..lol

 

[kyomoto]

Just what I needed. Since having two weeks off from PE I reverted back to my old habits of ���� and masturbation. I been trying to beat ���� addiction for sometime now.

A lot of us are. Sometimes when you even do it rarely you get hooked in one session. It's happened to me when I've done monthly masturbation and one time i was really addicted and did it for 4 days straight. I felt really bad but now I'm back to monthly.

 

[Big Schwanz Acht]

i dont think id be able to stop masturbation completely,i dont have someone to have intimacy whit, and the lack of privacy i have is terrible..

But yeah i have try to decrease the number of days i jerk off..lol

Why do you think you need to either stop or slow-down? Is your life negatively impacted by it? Any friends or loved ones harmed because of it? Is it inhibiting you from doing/getting the things you want? Those would be some of the questions I'd ask before walking down the road of shame/guilt.

Sometimes self-acceptance is the hardest part

 

[the boss!]

Why do you think you need to either stop or slow-down? Is your life negatively impacted by it? Any friends or loved ones harmed because of it? Is it inhibiting you from doing/getting the things you want? Those would be some of the questions I'd ask before walking down the road of shame/guilt.

Sometimes self-acceptance is the hardest part

Right ! there's no guilt or shame in it
But let's see it as what it is, addiction/self destructive habbit.

PE definitely helped me with these habbit, my motto of gains is bigger than my addiction.

So that's something I learned! Find your "motivation" your "WHY"
And if your "why" is a stronger motivation than your habbit,you are not gonna fall back again.

So if I stop PE'ing (which is not happening) i know my "why" is hair loss (that's another factor most of us are not aware of)

 

[Commodore]

one very good reason for not masturbate to much is bc you are doing girth exercise all the time. Then its not good to ejaculate every day... unless you are 19 years old.

 

[LONGERDICK7+]

Why do you think you need to either stop or slow-down? Is your life negatively impacted by it? Any friends or loved ones harmed because of it? Is it inhibiting you from doing/getting the things you want? Those would be some of the questions I'd ask before walking down the road of shame/guilt.

Sometimes self-acceptance is the hardest part

mmm yeah good question lol but i dont think id quit completely lol i dont think im having a negative impact maybe the physical part getting tired after a session haha.

no lovd ones either friends have been harmed because of masturbation at all..

The strange thing is that i have never felt guilty because of masturbation..

 

[seven_wants_ten]

Your Brain On ����

Probably some pseudo-science there, but the principals are sound. Essentially, your brain has not evolved to handle virtually unlimited quantity and variety of sexual stimulation.

 

[huge-girth]

one very good reason for not masturbate to much is bc you are doing girth exercise all the time. Then its not good to ejaculate every day... unless you are 19 years old.

In about two occasions I have read on here on the forum when someone said there are days when you get big temporary expansion from doing girth work and there are other days when you don't get big expansion. It happened to me too but I think it is because we masturbate daily while doing girth work. I will try to do girth work for one week without masturbating and see if my expansions will be the same at all time.

 

[huge-girth]

mmm yeah good question lol but i dont think id quit completely lol i dont think im having a negative impact maybe the physical part getting tired after a session haha.

no lovd ones either friends have been harmed because of masturbation at all..

The strange thing is that i have never felt guilty because of masturbation..

You are guilty. You have not slayed any pussy for more than a year. That's one bad thing with masturbation.

 

[templnite]

Your Brain On ����

Probably some pseudo-science there, but the principals are sound. Essentially, your brain has not evolved to handle virtually unlimited quantity and variety of sexual stimulation.

Ninety percent ���� consumers are male and even king David sinned because he saw key word a naked bitch. Its the main downfall of males visual stimulation, chiks get turned on in other way that suck because ���� so easy to watch.

 

[LONGERDICK7+]

You are guilty. You have not slayed any pussy for more than a year. That's one bad thing with masturbation.


haha if that was a crime wonder how many men would be in jail...lol but yeah the funny part is that we exercise and we want to get bigger but pussy is away and doesnt give a fuck hahahaha

 

[huge-girth]

You are guilty. You have not slayed any pussy for more than a year. That's one bad thing with masturbation.


haha if that was a crime wonder how many men would be in jail...lol but yeah the funny part is that we exercise and we want to get bigger but pussy is away and doesnt give a fuck hahahaha

I'm guilty too

 

[k80589]

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[k80589]

This is a thread that I am creating for those who are struggling with either ����������� or masturbation issues (or both) and want to stop these behaviors. I have spent much time reading ways to stop masturbation and ����������� and I have to say, most of these things will never help. I have found some things that do help for me, but much of what I use to deter these issues is based in my deep belief and love for Jesus. But when I look at my methods I do see room for those who do not believe to still use the benefits of such. I will post these in my next post.

So every time you slip up you come to this thread and we will hold each other accountable. Having to admit to one another the struggles we are having will always lead to a quicker recovery. Now, do not get down on yourself, I do not expect anyone to be successful at first, you will fall but we will be there to help you up. So this thread is not so much a challenge than a support group. We have many Brothers who will support this cause and through our collective power this thread will serve to help so many in the future.

Hi DLD, I am a Christian, too, and have been thinking about this for quite some time. Is masturbation wrong? I grew up Catholic, so I'm engrained to feel guilt and shame for many things that aren't even biblical. Not a knock on the Catholic faith, but a truth that I've found exists in the Catholic religion- shame and guilt result from the religion's approach to sin and man's relationship with God.

I have since come to learn more bible-based truths found in the Gospel: Christ's blood covers all sin, nothing can separate us from the love of God, and shame and guilt are never from God but rather are attempts from the devil to cause man to condemn ourselves and never feel worthy of God's love. And this is just a downright lie.

With that, I know that God loves each of us and nothing can ever change that, but I still want to please God and never offend Him. So I struggle with the issue of masturbation. The only biblical reference doesn't really speak to masturbation, but rather a brother's broken covenant with his deceased brother.

Where do you stand on this? Is it possible to do PE without masturbating? Should we try?

Thanks in advance for broaching this subject!