Hello, boys. I've been lurking for some time now gobbling up as much info as I can. I started out decently long (7.25" bpel) but at only 5.25" girth, I was always aware that I could use more there. I started with ADS and weight hanging but quickly realized after reading the forums that my method of choice would be pumping 5x5x3. I've seen about 0.25" in girth and possibly 0.25" in length so far. My minimum goal is 8x6 (cliché, I know,) but I wouldn't hate 8.5x6.5. Not looking for a monster. I want to give pleasure, not pain! I'm happily married, have always had pretty good sex life, but I've had to make up orally for my lack of girth. My wife has already "responded positively," so I couldn't be happier. I have had pubic bone tenderness as well as lymph duct inflammation/hardness. Basically, I rest when I need to but aim for 5 on, 2 off. Mostly introducing myself but also open to feedback!