Need some Help Please!

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let me descirvbe my situation
I was dating this chick for a month and a half that i really liked and was exactly my type and she felt the same for me. Well the whole time she was having probs with her mom because im 2 years younger. She finally ended it with me regretfully (she left crying) and we didnt talk for about a month. Finally the other day i went to her house because her sister who im friends with (and also how i met her) had my cell phone. She opens the door and i talk to her for a few minutes, get my cell phone and leave. Turns out later on her sister tells me that she siad i was looking extremely hot and blah blah blah. She tells her to have me call her and i do and we talk for 1.5 hours and she says she wants to talk to me more. So i call her again yesterday (talked to her on friday the first time) and she doenst pick up her cell so i just leave a message telling her ill call her later on the week. So guys what should i do to get this girl back and get her over the age diff? I dont understand what the deal is we are both adults but i think its the mom deal but since then ive talked to her mom and she is really nice to me. Plus her friends do raz her some on it. SO what should i do?
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BIGPimpin said:
let me descirvbe my situation
I was dating this chick for a month and a half that i really liked and was exactly my type and she felt the same for me. Well the whole time she was having probs with her mom because im 2 years younger. She finally ended it with me regretfully (she left crying) and we didnt talk for about a month. Finally the other day i went to her house because her sister who im friends with (and also how i met her) had my cell phone. She opens the door and i talk to her for a few minutes, get my cell phone and leave. Turns out later on her sister tells me that she siad i was looking extremely hot and blah blah blah. She tells her to have me call her and i do and we talk for 1.5 hours and she says she wants to talk to me more. So i call her again yesterday (talked to her on friday the first time) and she doenst pick up her cell so i just leave a message telling her ill call her later on the week. So guys what should i do to get this girl back and get her over the age diff? I dont understand what the deal is we are both adults but i think its the mom deal but since then ive talked to her mom and she is really nice to me. Plus her friends do raz her some on it. SO what should i do?
Thanks
I say as Long as your in the Door with her Moms thats the first Big Step. Moms can fuck allot of shit up for a Dude. So try to get cool with Moms. Send some Flowers to her for Mothers Day.
 
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Her mum could definitely mess her head up, as she is with her daughter far more hours every day than you. Anyone who hears the same message over and over cannot help but take it onboard.

I would bypass the issue by trying to start something with your girl on the quiet. Keep things cool, dont chase too hard, but let her know how good things could be with you and what she is missing out on. Drop hints that decent guys are hard to find and do the time distortion thing, give her thoughts along the lines of "if i was 28 and you were 30 would it matter?", if not, why not....then whats the difference between then and now?
 
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