Originally posted by bigbutnottoo
I went through something similar. I was with this chick almost 4 years actually, and we brokeup (this was about 2 years ago). It seemed like all her friends and their family,etc were all against me ( some of them were because they had their own issues, which I wont get into),. I thought I would do what you are doing and plot my way to get back together, but I didn't. In fact, even though she brokeup we me and hated me at the time, any attempts at contact since then were on her part. Now I am glad we brokeup. I felt trapped in the situation.
My advice is though. Either way, wether you get back or not. The only way it will work is NO CONTACT. You probably wont want to do it and it may be difficult and sound weird, but breakoff all contact. If you ignore her, even though she dumped you; she will most likely eventually pursue you. And if she doesnt there is no point in trying anyway. But the point is to MOVE-ON, with or without her. Maybe eventually she will comeback, but plan on moving on without her.