Name the best dating Guru's, books, sites and other stuff

I've briefly been involved (1 year) with "dating education" and I can honestly tell you that its not worth the effort/financial resources. I've even paid for a "bootcamp" and to this day I regret it. To the best of my knowledge, most of the guys (including myself) I was with still struggle with women. Only 1 guy I know got a girlfriend months later and I hate to say this but his girlfriend is below average looking.

You'd think the penis enlargement industry is as bad (maybe it is) but the Sizegenetics is a medical device that doctors actually recommend. My point is, paying people to learn how to get good with women cannot be scientifically proven. Based on my experience and the lack of scientific evidence that a dating coach can make you better with women I highly recommend that you should avoid the dating industry and nothing can change my mind about this topic.
 
I've been a part of the pick up community for over four years now.
I'll start by saying that boot camps are a scam to get your money and reading an endless supply of books will not help much at all.
Honestly it comes down to growing a pair and learning to interact with women.
However, if I had to recommend a book I would say 60 years of the challenge.
 
Being British I like AFC Adam and PUA Beckster, My reasons well as a Aimingforthetop mentiones its good to get the basics off MM and others such as Ross Jeffries and Style but the banter here in the UK is very different to the US. If I used similar openers as used by US speaking PUA's Id be looked at rather strange as we simply don't talk like that, these guys have adapted their game for UK girls who IMO 'can' be harder to pull because societies different. Although saying that I have on a few occasions whilst being out seen a girl, pointed at her, called her over with my fingers, kissed and taken her back to mine. We've probably on started talking once outside the club or in the Taxi.

Im my opinion is comes down to being 'cheeky', confident, and using a mixture of routines and natural chat.
 
I recently invested into vin dicarlo's pandora's box system,I'm not completely done with the program yet but from what I've watched/read from it I can say I realize the mistakes I made in the past with certain women. I'm almost half way through it and have been taking notes and most of it is pretty easy to understand,but their are some points that I have to 're read or re watch.I'm not completely through it but once I'm able to fully grasp and retain all of the information in my head without having to really think about it I plan on using it. I can't tell you 100% right now if it works because I'm still learning,but i can say it will make you look back and go "so that's why it didn't work". Once I start using it I'll let you know just how legit it is,but so far it's very convincing
 
I have read just about every book on the subject. I love the psychology behind it all. It’s so fascinating learning how and why people think. Men and women are so different and similar. Living in Europe helped me view the world differently too. In Germany sex isn’t as taboo as America. I never saw any slut shaming etc. Women over there weren’t afraid of the social backlash of one night stands in front of their friends like they are here. Women want sex just as much as men do.

My suggestion is
“How to be a 3% man” By Corey Wayne. Succeed more. Learn More. Grow more. Life is… relationships. — Enlightened Self-Help
Here’s also a link to his website.
it is the absolute best book you will ever read. I guarantee it. I’ve always been very good with women. Most of the books in this genre, I feel like are written by creeps and con artists. Corey teaches you not only how to attract the women you want, but how to keep them happy and interested in you. He’s a good respectable guy who won’t have you “negging” women or other stupid things
There’s a plethora of good points in the book.

I looked back on my life and think man I was doing pretty much everything correctly without even knowing it. For example when I was in the army which is like 90% dudes btw. Every time a new chick In-processed every swinging dick in my unit was all over her. I would just sit back laugh and ignore her. Eventually the women would approach me every single time. They see you’re different and start to wonder why are all these other guys flaunting all over me, but he doesn’t seem to want me.

Another great point is just relating to women in general. Talk to them like they’re your little sister. A lot of guys are terrified to talk to women. If you have women friends you joke around with and have playful banter. Do the exact same thing to that really hot chick you want. When you think of it that way, it also takes the stress off of the approach.

I have passed this book along to many guy friends I knew were kinda lost. They were amazed by it every time. Everything just started clicking for them.
 
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Thank's for this informations. There are many dating sites on the Internet at the moment, but you still need to be very careful about them. Before signing up for a particular adult dating site, I read the reviews. I do this in order to protect my personal data on the Internet. For example on this site hookupmasters.com/adult-dating-sites/onenightfriend-review/ you can read one night friend reviews. Here you can find useful information on prices for using this website. This dating platform has features that make meetings fun. For example, you have access to images of other users that are checked by the site administration and are really real, not fake.
 
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Dating is a skill and sometimes you need someone to show you the way. The only issue is it’s just like seeing a therapist. Talking to someone about your issues is only as good as your ability to apply their information. If you don’t try to apply it or give up, you’re back to square one.
 
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