I have read just about every book on the subject. I love the psychology behind it all. It’s so fascinating learning how and why people think. Men and women are so different and similar. Living in Europe helped me view the world differently too. In Germany sex isn’t as taboo as America. I never saw any slut shaming etc. Women over there weren’t afraid of the social backlash of one night stands in front of their friends like they are here. Women want sex just as much as men do.
My suggestion is
“How to be a 3% man” By Corey Wayne.
Succeed more. Learn More. Grow more. Life is… relationships. — Enlightened Self-Help
Here’s also a link to his website.
it is the absolute best book you will ever read. I guarantee it. I’ve always been very good with women. Most of the books in this genre, I feel like are written by creeps and con artists. Corey teaches you not only how to attract the women you want, but how to keep them happy and interested in you. He’s a good respectable guy who won’t have you “negging” women or other stupid things
There’s a plethora of good points in the book.
I looked back on my life and think man I was doing pretty much everything correctly without even knowing it. For example when I was in the army which is like 90% dudes btw. Every time a new chick In-processed every swinging dick in my unit was all over her. I would just sit back laugh and ignore her. Eventually the women would approach me every single time. They see you’re different and start to wonder why are all these other guys flaunting all over me, but he doesn’t seem to want me.
Another great point is just relating to women in general. Talk to them like they’re your little sister. A lot of guys are terrified to talk to women. If you have women friends you joke around with and have playful banter. Do the exact same thing to that really hot chick you want. When you think of it that way, it also takes the stress off of the approach.
I have passed this book along to many guy friends I knew were kinda lost. They were amazed by it every time. Everything just started clicking for them.