- Jun 3, 2003
So true but you are right, we can never understand the emotional factors in a relationship like this until we are in it. Love is able to see through some of the most dramatic issues, love can blind someone to the point that they only can see what they want.Coffee Black;397763 said:That girl was abused and sounded fucked up in the head. If this kind of mental damage can be fixed, it would take a very long time. The threadstarter would be playing catch up to the abuser for years. It's just not worth the effort. But I'm an outsider and cannot consider the emotional factor in the relationship.