My size depresses me

Yeah to be honest I am right now struggling with masturbation and ����. I heard that if you masturbate and actually chm within 2 to 3 hrs of pe before or after you can't make as quick gains. So hopefully that helps the OP. I just hate how ���� can actually fill up my whole day and I am still a lonesome person. I have gone half a year without masturbating when I was 20 and I miss the health that I was in. I wasn't depressed and I spent more time exercising.
 
Kull69nirvana;725147 said:
Yeah to be honest I am right now struggling with masturbation and ����. I heard that if you masturbate and actually chm within 2 to 3 hrs of pe before or after you can't make as quick gains. So hopefully that helps the OP. I just hate how ���� can actually fill up my whole day and I am still a lonesome person. I have gone half a year without masturbating when I was 20 and I miss the health that I was in. I wasn't depressed and I spent more time exercising.
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Masturbation and ���� are a easy place to go when we are not feeling good about ourselves. In this condition we are looking for anyway to avoid ourselves and the problems we face by short lived gratification. After we are caught in this trap we come to a sad realization that ���� is not going to solve the problems, it will make them far worse. Eliminate ���� and refrain from masturbation, you have already proven to yourself how good this is. I want to see you out there enjoying life, exercising, socializing and most importantly, happy. Make a new commitment, keep yourself accountable, avoid people, places and things that cause temptation, use the Brotherhood to help you realize your goals. The ���� and Masturbation Accountability thread has been a huge help for me, maybe it will also help you. Here is a link: http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/...sional-booth-keep-each-other-accountable.html
 
I still don't get how PE should work without ���� or masturbation.
I can understand it with length, but even then there are erect stretches - a morning wood could help with that.

But with girth, unless someone is taking Viagra I don't really see a way there.
Then there's the whole point of "use it or lose it" - we're meant to use our penis and if one isn't having sex regulary it would be a good idea once in a while
 
I resort to audio erotica for my girth sessions when im having trouble. Still makes me use my imagination
 
GottaGetAGrip;725336 said:
I resort to audio erotica for my girth sessions when im having trouble. Still makes me use my imagination
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Interesting! Very intriguing. I am against ���� in every way but I never considered this. What a great alternative to ����!
 
doublelongdaddy;725233 said:
Masturbation and ���� are a easy place to go when we are not feeling good about ourselves. In this condition we are looking for anyway to avoid ourselves and the problems we face by short lived gratification. After we are caught in this trap we come to a sad realization that ���� is not going to solve the problems, it will make them far worse. Eliminate ���� and refrain from masturbation, you have already proven to yourself how good this is. I want to see you out there enjoying life, exercising, socializing and most importantly, happy. Make a new commitment, keep yourself accountable, avoid people, places and things that cause temptation, use the Brotherhood to help you realize your goals. The ���� and Masturbation Accountability thread has been a huge help for me, maybe it will also help you. Here is a link: http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/...sional-booth-keep-each-other-accountable.html
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The funny thing here is that some of the bros here id even include my self here,is that we all could work in ���� because of our size....PE is not about getting bigger only,there are some other things we can learn from our PE experience..
 
doublelongdaddy;725388 said:
Interesting! Very intriguing. I am against ���� in every way but I never considered this. What a great alternative to ����!
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Mind, imagination, i think about sex i fantasize that can be helpful...Besides women should be more interested in PE thats for their own good !!lol:cool: They can help us out to achieve the goal together;)
 
GottaGetAGrip;725336 said:
I resort to audio erotica for my girth sessions when im having trouble. Still makes me use my imagination
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any good links? (disclaimer...I tend to like huge penetration ����, so if there are any along those lines...narrated by a sexy woman, of course)
 
LONGERDICK7+;725426 said:
Mind, imagination, i think about sex i fantasize that can be helpful...Besides women should be more interested in PE thats for their own good !!lol:cool: They can help us out to achieve the goal together;)
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This is definitely a more respectful version of erotica and if done creatively it could be pretty innocent.
 
Believe it or not but I really think that ���� is able to develop your emotional/sexual faculties. Doesn't have to be blamed at all times. It is not so important what you watch, the capability to interpret without too much judgement aswell as the right way to bring fantasies in what you see (some people think that while watching pictures there are no fantasies involved anymore) is very important.

Talking about depression: Some people have a strong tendency to the melancholic temper. Those people have to deal with depression more often than others. It is a bias in your personality. But please don't think that you know the root of your depression so easily. Sure, it is easy to believe the mind that it comes from size but I am pretty sure there is another reason (like DLD already explained). Your perception of the penis is superficial right now.

Anyway your sexuality evolves. It is not done once you had your first cumshot. Something changes in the brain afterwards. I am in my late 20s and I know that the peak of my sexual development is yet to come. So don't talk about getting laid at an early age. It is actually not that important.
 
Chaoskampf;725807 said:
Believe it or not but I really think that ���� is able to develop your emotional/sexual faculties. Doesn't have to be blamed at all times. It is not so important what you watch, the capability to interpret without too much judgement aswell as the right way to bring fantasies in what you see (some people think that while watching pictures there are no fantasies involved anymore) is very important.

Talking about depression: Some people have a strong tendency to the melancholic temper. Those people have to deal with depression more often than others. It is a bias in your personality. But please don't think that you know the root of your depression so easily. Sure, it is easy to believe the mind that it comes from size but I am pretty sure there is another reason (like DLD already explained). Your perception of the penis is superficial right now.

Anyway your sexuality evolves. It is not done once you had your first cumshot. Something changes in the brain afterwards. I am in my late 20s and I know that the peak of my sexual development is yet to come. So don't talk about getting laid at an early age. It is actually not that important.
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Well thought out reply.
 
For me, the most profound realisation that came with PE was that once I enlarged my penis and gotten used to it I came to find that my penis was not my problem at all ( not that I intend to stop PE anytime soon ).
My problem was, of course, myself and all the pain and negative emotions / thoughts that piled up inside of me over the years. I “became” those thoughts. The thing with PE was that once I realised this, I also realised that the reason PE works is because it requires WILL and FAITH. The will to change your dick so strong that you can perform the exercises day in and day out, and the faith that it works. This made me realise that PE was also the only thing I ever did in my life with true will and faith, and so I started working on myself, my TRUE self in a way that I never thought possible. My “old world” vanished to be replaced with something I can’t quite formulate with words yet, but it’s got everything to do with LOVE. There is, I believe, a far greater reason why we all call each other Brothers here. For me, PE is not about PE at all :)
 
Getting a bigger penis is always a man's first priority here and in most cases they believe that is where the problems in their life lay. Unfortunately this is not how PE works. I gained 2" in length and still could not see the gain mentally because of deeper issues, things that had nothing to do with my penis. I have always said getting a bigger penis is easy, it is getting a bigger perspective on ourselves that is more difficult. As you gain size in PE, gain size in confidence and discipline. Every man must search himself for the reasons he is here and address the root problem.
 
doublelongdaddy;726015 said:
Getting a bigger penis is always a man's first priority here and in most cases they believe that is where the problems in their life lay. Unfortunately this is not how PE works. I gained 2" in length and still could not see the gain mentally because of deeper issues, things that had nothing to do with my penis. I have always said getting a bigger penis is easy, it is getting a bigger perspective on ourselves that is more difficult. As you gain size in PE, gain size in confidence and discipline. Every man must search himself for the reasons he is here and address the root problem.
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Why we ended up here? great question,I feel the same way, deep issues are the ones that keep me away from believing im not a short guy anymore,I still got to get bigger,But i feel ok whit my gains for now.:)
 
LONGERDICK7+;726038 said:
Why we ended up here? great question,I feel the same way, deep issues are the ones that keep me away from believing im not a short guy anymore,I still got to get bigger,But i feel ok whit my gains for now.:)
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Success!
 
LONGERDICK7+;726110 said:
yep succesful bros we are! no matter what:cool:
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No Matter What!
 
Work on your deep issues while working on your deep tissues.
 
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