My sexual life has finnished

hi all i am 23 y.o and i believe now that my sexual life has finnished , i feel ashamed for my self my penis and my duration when i am having sex with a girl

First of all i have a small d*ck , erected is 13-14 cm in length ( 5-5.5 inches ) and girth is near head 9 cm (3.5 inch ) near body is 8 cm (3.1 inch )
secondly i have e curve in my d*ck (naybe suffer from peyronie )
and third and most embarrassing is that i suffer from premature ejaculation ( the truth is that with my ex sometimes i lasted 2-3 minutes sometimes 30+ minutes and i dont know why ) ... with other girls i cant last more than 4 minutes
... i must note that i drink a lot and i smoke ...
and when i finish (cumm) i cant keep have sex i need at least 30 minute ... is there something worst ... i feel like i am with a ded penis ... when it is not erected sometime i dont even feel it


i have read about bathmate, phallosan , and EVO 3.0 Automatic Electric Penis


P.S i dont wonna use pills and i dont have money for surgery ...

Njet;749057 said:

hi all i am 23 y.o and i believe now that my sexual life has finnished , i feel ashamed for my self my penis and my duration when i am having sex with a girl

First of all i have a small d*ck , erected is 13-14 cm in length ( 5-5.5 inches ) and girth is near head 9 cm (3.5 inch ) near body is 8 cm (3.1 inch )
secondly i have e curve in my d*ck (naybe suffer from peyronie )
and third and most embarrassing is that i suffer from premature ejaculation ( the truth is that with my ex sometimes i lasted 2-3 minutes sometimes 30+ minutes and i dont know why ) ... with other girls i cant last more than 4 minutes
... i must note that i drink a lot and i smoke ...
and when i finish (cumm) i cant keep have sex i need at least 30 minute ... is there something worst ... i feel like i am with a ded penis ... when it is not erected sometime i dont even feel it


i have read about bathmate, phallosan , and EVO 3.0 Automatic Electric Penis


P.S i dont wonna use pills and i dont have money for surgery ...

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Welcome to the Brotherhood! What is your first language, we may be able to help more if I know your language. What I can tell you from what you posted is average intercourse lasts 3-4 minutes so you are right where you should be there, you can greatly improve this into 10, 20, 30 minutes or even longer practicing some of the many techniques we have here for pre-mature ejac. Also, you are of average length at 5.5 so I would not have too much embarrassment there. As far as curvature goes you can use the BahMate with the Phallosan to correct that curve. I would also advise you to add in erect jelqs against the curve to speed the process. All things you fear are quite average.

Njet;749057 said:

hi all i am 23 y.o and i believe now that my sexual life has finnished , i feel ashamed for my self my penis and my duration when i am having sex with a girl

First of all i have a small d*ck , erected is 13-14 cm in length ( 5-5.5 inches ) and girth is near head 9 cm (3.5 inch ) near body is 8 cm (3.1 inch )
secondly i have e curve in my d*ck (naybe suffer from peyronie )
and third and most embarrassing is that i suffer from premature ejaculation ( the truth is that with my ex sometimes i lasted 2-3 minutes sometimes 30+ minutes and i dont know why ) ... with other girls i cant last more than 4 minutes
... i must note that i drink a lot and i smoke ...
and when i finish (cumm) i cant keep have sex i need at least 30 minute ... is there something worst ... i feel like i am with a ded penis ... when it is not erected sometime i dont even feel it


i have read about bathmate, phallosan , and EVO 3.0 Automatic Electric Penis


P.S i dont wonna use pills and i dont have money for surgery ...

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First of all, Welcome to MOS. Second, your sex life is not finished. All of the things you mentioned can be corrected and you have come to the right place. All of the issues you mentioned are addressed in the many threads here on the site. You mentioned that pills and surgery was out of the question, the good news is that you don't need either if you follow the advice of many of the brothers here on the site. I would start by looking at the Newbie Routine and then take a look at the SRT. These 2 alone would be enough to get you some gains (big gains with the proper consistency, dedication and intensity)but you could also read the progress and routine forum to get an idea of what others are doing. Don't be afraid to ask questions because that is how we learn and we have all been there.

Yes, welcome aboard! Some of those things you listed like your size are normal. Most men are around your length and only slightly bigger in girth. Don't feel so down about your average size.

The times you listed as your average for lasting with women are actually normal especially for your age range. I'm 39 and I'm lucky if I last more than 2-5 minutes unless I am focused on lasting longer. That is as simple as learning self control.

You will find the help you need if you want it here.

stillwantmore2;749156 said:

Don't feel so down about your average size.

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Especially now that he has found the miracle! Size makes no difference now that he can make it as big as he desires.

...as long as you 'do the work'

Listen to every single word from DLD and take the advice very seriously. You came to the right place. Pick a penis size and start working your way towards it. That's it.

doublelongdaddy's how can i last more than 10 minutes ... u said i can manage that bot not the way ... (sorry fore late respons but i am soldier and i dont have time )

i come from Greece ..

Njet;749316 said:

doublelongdaddy's how can i last more than 10 minutes ... u said i can manage that bot not the way ... (sorry fore late respons but i am soldier and i dont have time )

i come from Greece ..

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Here are some of the best ways to increase your duration


Becoming in touch with your orgasm
There is a very fine line between cuming and about to cum. making this distinction is the first step in having more staying power.

Identify your brink of orgasm
You will want to identify the fine line that separates cuming from about to cum. During this period pay special attention to what brings you almost to orgasm. What are your thoughts? How long does it take to get there? Keep Track of this information for future reference. The goal here is to paint a mental picture of your orgasm and identify just what brings you to this brink and what you can do to stop it.

Breathing to Reduce Excitement
Simply taking a deep breath at the brink of orgasm is a very effective way to reduce your excitement level and reset your orgasm. It does not work for everyone but it is worth trying.

Breathing to Reset Orgasm
When you feel that you are getting too close to orgasm, just completely stop and take a deep breath. Give yourself a minute or two to reset your mental orgasm. Once you feel that you have reset this mental orgasm continue with the confidence that the physical orgasm is far off. You will find with practice this process will give you longer and longer periods of staying power. Eventually this mental reset will happen automatically with no pause.

The Squeeze Techniques
When you feel close to your orgasm completely stop, pull out, take a deep breath and apply one of these two squeezing methods. One method usually works better for men than the other so try them both.

BASE SQUEEZE: at the brink of orgasm stop, take a deep breath. Using the OK grip squeeze the base of your penis and squeeze until the urge has faded.

UP SQUEEZE: at the brink of orgasm stop, take a deep breath. Using the forefinger and thumb squeeze the top and bottom of your penis just below the glans until the urge to orgasm has faded.

DLD Push
The DLD Push is a technique to prolong orgasm and remain erect after orgasm. This method involved a hard reverse kegel right at the brink of orgasm. It takes some practice but once it is mastered 4-5 orgasms are possible.

Reverse Psychology
A great technique that seems to work very well for me is the Reverse Psychology method. Previously to having sex I convince myself that I am going to have problems ejaculation.

I know once I found this site, learned some of the things DLD mentioned and started PEing (especially jelqing and manual girth work) my endurance went from about 5 minutes to 20 very quickly!

RR04;749762 said:

I know once I found this site, learned some of the things DLD mentioned and started PEing (especially jelqing and manual girth work) my endurance went from about 5 minutes to 20 very quickly!

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What awesome news! I love to hear results, thanks for sharing and inspiring!

doublelongdaddy;749786 said:

What awesome news! I love to hear results, thanks for sharing and inspiring!

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Yes sir, it's never good enough for me though. I knew that would happen, that'd I'd see those improvements. However the improvement I really want to see is in cock size!

RR04;749804 said:

Yes sir, it's never good enough for me though. I knew that would happen, that'd I'd see those improvements. However the improvement I really want to see is in cock size!

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All good things come to those who wait!

One thing to add with the increased endurance you will see from PE... that in itself will amaze girls. I've had multiple times now where I make them orgasm and continue going to the point where they ask me to stop because it's getting too intense or sore, or both. I can only imagine with an 8X6 or more weapon!

with big cock comes big responsibility the more you're bringing to the table, the more you'll need to be 'in-tune' with your partner (but that's half the fun, anyway)

Big Schwanz Acht;750021 said:

with big cock comes big responsibility the more you're bringing to the table, the more you'll need to be 'in-tune' with your partner (but that's half the fun, anyway)

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You must be constantly retuning yourself!

Sounds to me your sex life is just about to start. I mean things can only get better from her on out right?

kak03;750440 said:

Sounds to me your sex life is just about to start. I mean things can only get better from her on out right?

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I would think so if that is what he desires. For me, privacy is king