my gurl friend bleeds

kbs

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hey just a question,me and my gurl friend were sittin around one day and she told me that she's a vergin..soo i asked if she wanted too have sex..we ended up havin sex and she loved it alot soo 2day i went over too her place we started again and she sed it hurt just as i put it in and she started too bleed.

now my question she bled the first time and said that it felt really good but the second time she sed ti hurt alot and she started bleeding again ????? Is thiz normal or should she go too her doctor. Im just worried let me know what u guys think
 

dopefish

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hey there!

the first time i had sex with my current girl, she was a virgin. she actually bled the first few times and it also hurt the first few times.. (for her, not me LOL)

So i'd say this is a normal thing. But of course if you are both worried, it can't hurt to head over to the doctors!

take care

dopefish
 

ctmwm

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sounds like a visit couldnt hurt,you can never be to sure!
 

kbs

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thanks guys!!! i agree i think she's going to make a doctor's apointment for next week. if its somthing different i'll let you all know. thanks again
 

GETTINTHERE

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it probably didn't hurt so much the first time because she had alot more adrenalin then the second time she had less so felt it more, so it's probably nothing but better safe than sorry
 

kbs

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thank you guys !!! we tried it again today and she said that it dint hurt as bad but still a little bit of blood. but its better than before. she cancelled her doctors apointment because she doesnt like getting her pussy cheked out. again thanks fer the replys they helped me out alot
 

ctmwm

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Ah no problem anytime, it will hurt a little but as time goes by she wont have any problems with pain it will just go away.
 

kbs

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thanks man but shes now thinking its a rip in her vagina because she was playing with her self and started too bleed. she said that it hurt alot one she hit a certain spot. do any of you know how they fix a rip or tare.?????
 

wan2Bbig

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Not an MD - but there is a direct correlation between the amount of foreplay done and the amount od discomfort/pain felt.

It is not unusual for a woman to be sensitive, and even have some tearing after her first few sexual experiences. Like any injury, it takes time to heal. She might not need to see a doctor, unless there seems to be NO recovery, or if the bleeding does not stop after a fair amount of time (or times).

A doctor will assess "damage" and can cauterize (use heat) to stop or control any remaining bleeding spots. If you have a teaching hospital (Medical school) nearby, she can find a doctor there who will not be judgemental, and the cost will be minimal.

However, you might "lay off" for a while, in order to allow some healing to take place. Then, when you resume, use lots of time for foreplay and it never hurts to use lube .

Just remember, bro - she is the one in pain - not you. So you must be sensitive to her, and not your dick.
SHALOM
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kbs

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thanks alot man. yea i told her she should go see her doctor she's got her period right now soo she's going to wait till next week. u guys are pretty quick here and offer alot of help thank all of you for the reply's
 
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