My girlfriend says I'm perfect size but I don't believe her

JohnBobbitsUnit

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This will probably sound pathetic, but I'm actually having a hard time with this.

My girlfriend has been with a guy in the past who is much larger than me (I'm pretty average). Perhaps this came from watching too much porn, but I'd assumed she really liked it. So, I started Penis Enlargementing a couple months ago. I guess this was largely driven by insecurity on my part.

I decided to telll her I'm Penis Enlargementing, and she was quite strongly against it. She told me it hurt to have sex with her ex, and it actually caused bleeding. I asked her if she'd prefer any changes at all in length or girth, and she insisted I'm perfect in size. I told her I could change length , girth, or both, and that the change would be very gradual so I could stop at any time if I started getting too big. The only change she'd go along with would be expanding my glans a bit.

I know this sounds dumb, but I'm having a hard time completely believing my girlfriend. I believe her on an intellectual level, but I had myself so convinced that women prefer larger penises that there's part of me that's having a hard time accepting it as true. I find myself concocting unrealistic reasons she'd lie to me about it (e.g. she's afraid a lot of other women would want me if I was bigger, and she'd end up losing me)

I had also imagined that once I got bigger, she'd just go nuts during sex because she'd love my huge unit so much. In a way, it's a bit of a let down to realize that my fantasies ain't going to happen, that she's not going to get super turned on by my huge "new" unit.

I suppose another factor is that I was starting to like the idea of being "big". I guess it's competitiveness or a wierd ego thing, but I'm having a hard time with the idea that I'm "perfect", when this is about the size of 80% of the men out there. I had this idea that I'd get big, and it would be an ego boost of sorts, that I'd have special powers or something. Who wants to be average?

I'm just rambling here. I'd just gotten so psyched about the whole Penis Enlargementing thing that I'm having a hard time just letting it go.
 

REDZULU2003

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Welcome to MOS :) Women dont prefer larger dicks at all, its in our heads ... we prefer bigger dicks. Checkout our sexual and Female influence sections in particular the following threads.

Truth about dick size
Is bigger better to women
3 things to wonder and stop worrying about dick size and girls
Friends claiming their size
Women and penis size
Study on women's answers to penis size

I'll also quote the following;

1. Not all girls look out for size. To your surprise, half the girls are not even aware about the required penis size. The chances of any girl making out your size are quite slim unless she has been enjoying this activity with various sizes and shapes.

2. Girls usually do not prefer men with big size. Most girls fear hurting themselves with large size. Regular sex can widen or loosen their space and thus large size is generally not on the minds of girls. Lovemaking as a process requires a lot more things than just a large sized penis.

3. Last but not the least; girls are more interested in how their man uses his penis to satisfy them. A penis standing tall like an Eiffel tower is of no use if it can't please the lady. If you are able to effectively use your penis, no matter the size, to give pleasures to your girl, she would never think about its size.
Famous singer Sarah Harding and pretty hot to boot :) also says size does not matter SOURCE

"No, size doesn't matter to me. It's all about what you do with it"
Rihanna size matters but she's a dumb slut who got hurt by a guy not long ago and is on the war path :) plus she's immature young from the Ghetto so dont use her as the normal, not saying you do but she has gone on record several times about her yearn for large cocks.

Other threads that will help you

Penis size sexuality and confidence
Size complex
Short and sweet what I have noticed with penis size and what women want
Simple exercise to view penis sizes from paper

Let us know how you get along.
 

REDZULU2003

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Also dont let the Penis Enlargement-thing go. If you want it, than DO IT ... doesn't have to have her backing! Its for YOU not her, dont do this for anyone but you otherwise it wont work. Tell her that its for you and its good for the health of the penis, which it is. Tell her that it decreases chances of impotency, penis cancer and prostate problems .. that should shut her up and if it doesn't do it anyway.
 
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The only thing in life we truly own are our decisions.

You've decided NOT to believe the truth when she tells it to you. (You asked, she answered; have any REAL reson to believe she lied to you?)
You decided to create a scenario where you are inferior to someone in her past.
You decided this false environment is somehow superior to to the real environment you left behind.

How's all of this workin' out for ya so far?


So what do you think you really need to decide to do now?

Pain & pleasure: Each just a decision away.
 

DLD

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MAXAMEYES;419600 said:
The only thing in life we truly own are our decisions.

You've decided NOT to believe the truth when she tells it to you. (You asked, she answered; have any REAL reson to believe she lied to you?)
You decided to create a scenario where you are inferior to someone in her past.
You decided this false environment is somehow superior to to the real environment you left behind.

How's all of this workin' out for ya so far?


So what do you think you really need to decide to do now?

Pain & pleasure: Each just a decision away.
The Master of Advice!
 

Churchill

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MAXAMEYES;419600 said:
The only thing in life we truly own are our decisions.

You've decided NOT to believe the truth when she tells it to you. (You asked, she answered; have any REAL reson to believe she lied to you?)
You decided to create a scenario where you are inferior to someone in her past.
You decided this false environment is somehow superior to to the real environment you left behind.

How's all of this workin' out for ya so far?


So what do you think you really need to decide to do now?

Pain & pleasure: Each just a decision away.
Fucking excellent post
 

Churchill

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BTW, mine was apprehensive at first but is LOVING the extra girth.I love the look on her face when its all the way in and I kegel real hard and it "plumps up" that last bit. Her eyes pop open and she is eaten up with pure animal lust.
 

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Hi, I have some thoughts on this.
1. If you want it, do it.
2. She has been (multiple times I guess) with someone that's larger, so she can take more now.
3. You won't grow too large from one session. She will tell you when it becomes too big for her! That way you just shaped the perfect penis for your lover! If she wants more girth from that point, do girth only exercises :)
 

Hi_I_AM_neW19

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Make it bigger,why do u ask her?i mean...do u want bigger? make it!make it! become bigger ! for her it's same,for u it's not the same...start Dld newbie routine...!!!!!!!!!bigger.
 

REDZULU2003

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Dont allow this to break you down, ever. If anyone needs support about such matter PLEASE ASK US, we are a support network.
 

Big Schwanz Acht

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this will eat you up inside, but there's hope. read/educate yourself, and then if you deem that a larger member is something YOU desire, make the commitment and dedicate yourself to PE. It's a life-changer!
 

DLD

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this will eat you up inside, but there's hope. read/educate yourself, and then if you deem that a larger member is something YOU desire, make the commitment and dedicate yourself to PE. It's a life-changer!
What a perfect way to say it because it’s true, you will eat yourself alive on this. Leave it alone and get on with life. If you feel that you’re not as big as you like to be do what you need to do to get there. But allowing her words to rent space in your head is only going to destroy your confidence and make this even more difficult. Never dig up the past you’ll only get dirty.
 

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