Jeff010

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I remember the first time ever ejaculating. I was asleep, knee deep in some pussy, then all of a sudden I was wide woke. I had this weird feeling in my dick. I rush to the bathroom then squeeze my dick and long and behold semen comes out. It was my first wet dream and first time ever cumming. After that moment I realize I could cum and I followed up by jerking off 5 more times that day (at 13 years old). Now fast forward to a young man in his late mid to late teens and sex is my number one priority. I'm now having sex on a regular basis, but the ruiner of the party is my "dysfunctional" ass dick. I can truly only last about 1-3 minutes tops (with foreplay) with the first nut. Granted I'm young so my dick can bounce back faster, but on the second nut I could now last between 3-10 minutes with terrible erection equality (even til this day). Now fast forward to a man in his mid 20's. I can afford viagra, cialis, and other pills to make me lasting longer, but it truly sucks. I have to ejaculate 2 times, then wait for the medicine to kick in, in order to make me last, then still have to wait for the side effects of the drugs to wear off because they interfere sometimes with my body. I need some advice, techniques, or anything to make me last. I've tried kegels, but it just makes me have more erection quality, but doesn't combat my ability to last. At this rate I'm willing to just go to a doctor and see what he tells me. I'm just ready for a regular fuck that last 7 minutes without it being nut number 3.
 
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Jeff010;743536 said:
I remember the first time ever ejaculating. I was asleep, knee deep in some pussy, then all of a sudden I was wide woke. I had this weird feeling in my dick. I rush to the bathroom then squeeze my dick and long and behold semen comes out. It was my first wet dream and first time ever cumming. After that moment I realize I could cum and I followed up by jerking off 5 more times that day (at 13 years old). Now fast forward to a young man in his late mid to late teens and sex is my number one priority. I'm now having sex on a regular basis, but the ruiner of the party is my "dysfunctional" ass dick. I can truly only last about 1-3 minutes tops (with foreplay) with the first nut. Granted I'm young so my dick can bounce back faster, but on the second nut I could now last between 3-10 minutes with terrible erection equality (even til this day). Now fast forward to a man in his mid 20's. I can afford viagra, cialis, and other pills to make me lasting longer, but it truly sucks. I have to ejaculate 2 times, then wait for the medicine to kick in, in order to make me last, then still have to wait for the side effects of the drugs to wear off because they interfere sometimes with my body. I need some advice, techniques, or anything to make me last. I've tried kegels, but it just makes me have more erection quality, but doesn't combat my ability to last. At this rate I'm willing to just go to a doctor and see what he tells me. I'm just ready for a regular fuck that last 7 minutes without it being nut number 3.
You're in luck because I have a solution to your problem and any other guy experiencing premature ejaculation. Go to the Dr and have him put you on an antidepressant called Paxil. One of the side effects is delayed ejaculation. I guarantee you will last for as long as you like. My Dr put me on it in 2014 because I was diagnosed with depression. Believe me it works 100%
 

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Going the chemical route is one way.

The more laborous (perhaps) way would be to rewire your thinking. That is, think of how you have stimulated yourself. When it comes to sex, how do you feel about your partner and so on.
The problem can lie in the self-pleasuring act, where you might be stroking too hard and going quite fast. And when having sex, the feeling is very different, well, you know that.

Don't know if those sentences made any sense; my advice would be to take upon some edging training. By yourself or with a partner, with a partner you must ask for patience. But patience is key by yourself as well.
Kegeling is great, you can do those; remember to do reverse kegels as well. It's a possibility that the muscles might be a bit too strong in a way and therefore ejaculating can happen fast.
Breathing exercises are essential as well. Learn to touch yourself or to have sex with a very slow-minded feeling. Don't rush it.
To keep from ejaculating you can also squeeze just behind your glans to slow down the climax.

One thing also is to learn your PONR, point of no return. Stimulate yourself, then think by numbers how excited you are. This can go on 1-10 scale , 1 being flaccid for example. Usually by 8 you'd be very near to climaxing but still able to do the squeeze, by 9 too late and 10 is climax.
Breathing, staying focused, two key elements. Of course in the heat of some lovemaking that focus might be harder to attain but it can be learned!
Some people might tell to think of not so sexual thought to try to combat the ejaculation happening too fast, but I think that isn't necessarily so healthy.

We're not meant to pound the flesh for hours anyway! ;) Ejaculation happening fast is more so a primitive trait, nothing wrong with it. In the old times you didn't have a lot of time to have sex and you wanted the pregnation to happen fast.
But as world is somewhat safer now for many of us, we can take our time making love.

I advice you to not stress about the issue; that'll make it worse. Just learn the PONR, what it takes to meet that limit, breath deeply and foremost; enjoy! Sex isn't all just about the penetration. It's one of the things, many think of it as a key-element, but there are many ways to have a good time.
 

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arkailija;743588 said:
Going the chemical route is one way.

The more laborous (perhaps) way would be to rewire your thinking. That is, think of how you have stimulated yourself. When it comes to sex, how do you feel about your partner and so on.
The problem can lie in the self-pleasuring act, where you might be stroking too hard and going quite fast. And when having sex, the feeling is very different, well, you know that.

Don't know if those sentences made any sense; my advice would be to take upon some edging training. By yourself or with a partner, with a partner you must ask for patience. But patience is key by yourself as well.
Kegeling is great, you can do those; remember to do reverse kegels as well. It's a possibility that the muscles might be a bit too strong in a way and therefore ejaculating can happen fast.
Breathing exercises are essential as well. Learn to touch yourself or to have sex with a very slow-minded feeling. Don't rush it.
To keep from ejaculating you can also squeeze just behind your glans to slow down the climax.

One thing also is to learn your PONR, point of no return. Stimulate yourself, then think by numbers how excited you are. This can go on 1-10 scale , 1 being flaccid for example. Usually by 8 you'd be very near to climaxing but still able to do the squeeze, by 9 too late and 10 is climax.
Breathing, staying focused, two key elements. Of course in the heat of some lovemaking that focus might be harder to attain but it can be learned!
Some people might tell to think of not so sexual thought to try to combat the ejaculation happening too fast, but I think that isn't necessarily so healthy.

We're not meant to pound the flesh for hours anyway! ;) Ejaculation happening fast is more so a primitive trait, nothing wrong with it. In the old times you didn't have a lot of time to have sex and you wanted the pregnation to happen fast.
But as world is somewhat safer now for many of us, we can take our time making love.

I advice you to not stress about the issue; that'll make it worse. Just learn the PONR, what it takes to meet that limit, breath deeply and foremost; enjoy! Sex isn't all just about the penetration. It's one of the things, many think of it as a key-element, but there are many ways to have a good time.
Excellent advice! I also want to put forward these exercises that will help with this issue.




Pre-Mature Ejaculation

Pre-Mature Ejaculation is something many men suffer with. I have found many different ideas in helping with this that I have included below. I do want to say that this problem will fade from simply doing my program. When most men, myself included, got familiar with manual penis enlargement exercise the problem just seems to fade. The reason this problem does go away is the constant stimulation of the exercises. This constant stimulus trains the penis to last longer and longer. In the mean time here are some great techniques. Some are my own techniques, others I found around the web.

Becoming in touch with your orgasm
There is a very fine line between cuming and about to cum. making this distinction is the first step in having more staying power.

Identify your brink of orgasm
You will want to identify the fine line that separates cuming from about to cum. During this period pay special attention to what brings you almost to orgasm. What are your thoughts? How long does it take to get there? Keep Track of this information for future reference. The goal here is to paint a mental picture of your orgasm and identify just what brings you to this brink and what you can do to stop it.

Breathing to Reduce Excitement
Simply taking a deep breath at the brink of orgasm is a very effective way to reduce your excitement level and reset your orgasm. It does not work for everyone but it is worth trying.

Breathing to Reset Orgasm
When you feel that you are getting too close to orgasm, just completely stop and take a deep breath. Give yourself a minute or two to reset your mental orgasm. Once you feel that you have reset this mental orgasm continue with the confidence that the physical orgasm is far off. You will find with practice this process will give you longer and longer periods of staying power. Eventually this mental reset will happen automatically with no pause.

The Squeeze Techniques
When you feel close to your orgasm completely stop, pull out, take a deep breath and apply one of these two squeezing methods. One method usually works better for men than the other so try them both.

BASE SQUEEZE: at the brink of orgasm stop, take a deep breath. Using the OK grip squeeze the base of your penis and squeeze until the urge has faded.

UP SQUEEZE: at the brink of orgasm stop, take a deep breath. Using the forefinger and thumb squeeze the top and bottom of your penis just below the glans until the urge to orgasm has faded.

DLD Push
The DLD Push is a technique to prolong orgasm and remain erect after orgasm. This method involved a hard reverse kegel right at the brink of orgasm. It takes some practice but once it is mastered 4-5 orgasms are possible.

Reverse Psychology
A great technique that seems to work very well for me is the Reverse Psychology method. Previously to having sex I convince myself that I am going to have problems ejaculation.
 

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Just recently realized that I purchased dapoxetine 60 mg. I don't know if it really works though. I'm hearing that with medicine like that it requires to be taken on an empty stomach to actually work correctly/have full effect.
 

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Jeff010;743980 said:
Just recently realized that I purchased dapoxetine 60 mg. I don't know if it really works though. I'm hearing that with medicine like that it requires to be taken on an empty stomach to actually work correctly/have full effect.
Please let us know if this is helpful as if so I may start to stock it here at a discount.
 

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