My dick is 7.75 inches and she thinks I’m small

TopGainer

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So I’ve been seeing an asian girl and we finally had sex.

I measure at 7.75 inches erect and 5.75-6 inches in girth

She has mainly had sex with black guys (I’m not black).

I asked her if my dick is big and she said it’s small.

A couple days later I asked her again and she said it’s borderline small and average.

Do you guys think she’s being honest? Or is she just trying to bring my confidence down? The day we had sex for the first time, we had a fight because another girl was getting really touchy with me, maybe she’s mad and just continuing on the lie, idk, what do you all think she could be doing?
 

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Is she the only girl you’ve had sex with? 7.75 is definitely not small brother I’m 99% sure she’s feeling some type of way bc of that girl you said got touchy the reason why I asked if she’s the only girl you’ve had sex with is bc if she is you should maybe have sex with another girl & I bet her opinion on your size would be different! Don’t let this girl bring your confidence down I think the average size in America if that’s where you’re from is like 5.5 so you’re well above “average” keep working brother don’t let no negative vibes ruin your spirit.
 

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Is she the only girl you’ve had sex with? 7.75 is definitely not small brother I’m 99% sure she’s feeling some type of way bc of that girl you said got touchy the reason why I asked if she’s the only girl you’ve had sex with is bc if she is you should maybe have sex with another girl & I bet her opinion on your size would be different! Don’t let this girl bring your confidence down I think the average size in America if that’s where you’re from is like 5.5 so you’re well above “average” keep working brother don’t let no negative vibes ruin your spirit.
Thanks man, and no she’s not the only girl I’ve had sex with, Ive had sex with other girls and they said I’m pretty big, but she got me second guessing whether they were just saying that to boost my ego, or if all the other guys she been with really are just bigger than me...
 

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Your size certainly is not small or average, and maybe she has had allot of large men, in this case they happen to be black, and its not good being around someone like that.

I learned you should never ask a female do they think your dick is big, let them bring it up first ... she may simply think your big, and asking such is just being overconfident, hence maybe says its small.

But honestly, looking at it from the outside I would say she is a tad jealous about that other girl with you, so my advice is kick her into the long grass, you dont need parasites like this ... too many arseholes, negative leeches in this life, and you sound like a kind sensitive soul, who she would try to ruin.

Hope this helps you bro, please keep posting if you need more help ... I will do.
 

Mike03016

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TG,
The whole issue here is not that you are small or that someone said you are small, the issue is why in the feck would you even ask the question?
(and you have been on this site long enough to know that based on average, you are very large - like top 1-2%).

If this is someone you really like, then I don’t understand why you would even think to ask.
What good would ever come from asking? If she answers wrong do you break-up?

Females are attracted to confidence/cocky. Directly asking for her response-assurance to build your ego is neither confident or cocky.

I don’t mean to be abrasive but you are going down a road that is very self destructive, be careful TG.
 

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...it takes a village :) /\ Mike's 100% correct. These are just little 'shit-tests' that women/girls do to determine if you're 'high-value' or not. DO NOT FALL FOR IT!!! Never bring-up size (let her raise the issue, as others have mentioned). Never answer specifically any questions regarding your past relationships or other women...flip the script and respond with humor and cockiness. ex.: Her: 'soooooo, how many girls have you been with?' You (jokingly) 'you mean this week?'
That's the kind of banter, (I see what you're trying to do here and I'm going to toy/play with you), but it's not something that you can explicitly state...you just have to 'get it'
 

Mike03016

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Her: 'soooooo, how many girls have you been with?' You (jokingly) 'you mean this week?'
I take it even further with this standard question, I refuse to give ANY other answer except “you are my first.”
(obviously with a big ass grin but no other answer will ever come outta my mouth).
Basically, why would I answer that? The answer is not going to bring us closer together... so don’t go there.

I promise you, this response keeps you in control and masculine.
Don’t fall for the beta PC BS.
 

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This seems you ask the question expecting a different answer than what was given...both times. Fishing for compliments is never good, it gives the appearance of either insecurity or arrogance. She didnt play your into your game and tested you.
Now, its messing with your psyche. I wouldnt take it personally, you know what you got. That is what really counts...be confident in what and who you are and continue to work on being the best version of yourself. There are plenty of asian fish in world to have sex with...
 

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So glad I dont have this shit to deal with :) all this testing BS.

Personally I dont think women go out to test a man to see if he is worth it, I dont buy into it ... we do things subconsciously mostly, and at the end of the day my friend, if women all wanted cocky confident men the world would have ended by now .. everyone is an individual, and the princess cannot always get her own feckin way.

Learn from this .. NEVER EVER EVER ask another woman so long as you live EVER if they think your cock is big!!!!! its FATAL, I have also done that in my past for ego boost at the time, loved them to say how lovely and large it was blah blah and some didn't play, and others just plain nasty.

Your at fault [sorry] for asking, and she sounds immature anyway.
 

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Some great advice here, Tops. Big ideas in particular I'll bring up or reinforce:

1) There is no size you can achieve that someone else can't talk shit about. You're already pretty big, so if you feel otherwise then your issue is with body image and you'll want to take a look at the mental PE forum.

2) I share Red's concern about this lady. It's hard for me to believe that she really thinks you're small, and I don't know what option that leaves us with except 'she is weaponizing your body image against you.' If that's the case, it doesn't speak well for this relationship.

3) Yeah don't even ask from now on. Once you ask a question like that, you've already lost. You know you're big, who cares what she thinks? :)
 

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