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I wanted to post something for the newbies, as I have gone through this and I am sure others have as well. I have heard a few comments here and there, and have received some PMs and I want to put this out there.

There is a brief period when you first start Penis Enlargement in which you might question your sexuality a little. Dedication to Penis Enlargement means that you are going to be reading a lot of information about penises and sex, looking at a lot of guy's pictures...pretty much get obsessed with penises.

To be honest, if you're going to stick with this and see it through and make real gains, you have to get a little obsessed with it. You're going to look at pictures for inspiration, check out other guys to see what they're packing, and you're going to read posts like "Hey, dude, you have a really great looking penis!"

After a few weeks or months, you're going to ask yourself, "What the shit am I doing? Am I turning gay or bi?"

Relax, it happens and it will pass. I dub this "MOS Confused Sexuality Syndrome". After you get into a routine and make Penis Enlargement a habit and get some actual gains you can be proud of, this will kind of go away.

I just wanted to post this so any of you newbies who are feeling a little uncomfortable with all this can relax. Don't worry about it to the point where it might interfere with your Penis Enlargement. We all have the same basic plumbing, we're all here to make em bigger, and taking part in our community isn't going to change your basic nature.
 
LOL YUP! I can remember going through this phase. Now I just stare away at guys cocks, and even in ���� its like I'm studying the cocks more than the chicks! But back then i had to almost force myself to look at DLDs (etc) pics.

No-one needs to worry, Penis Enlargement'ing doesnt make you gay, you just start to look at cocks the way a bodybuilder looks at other guys physiques for comparison, or a car fanatic looks at cars etc etc :)
 
levista said:
No-one needs to worry, Penis Enlargement'ing doesnt make you gay, you just start to look at cocks the way a bodybuilder looks at other guys physiques for comparison, or a car fanatic looks at cars etc etc :)

This is a pretty healthy way to look at the subject
 
levista said:
No-one needs to worry, Penis Enlargement'ing doesnt make you gay, you just start to look at cocks the way a bodybuilder looks at other guys physiques for comparison, or a car fanatic looks at cars etc etc :)

Bingo, it's precisely the same priniciple. I myself have looked at members photos and use them as a reference to judge my own progress and recalibrate my own personal goals. I'm not the least bit homosexual or bisexual, however somehow through Penis Enlargement'ing I've become more tolerant of persons leading "alternate lifestyles."

Doing Penis Enlargement does not make you gay in any way, shape, or form. Anyone who thinks that is either extremely ignorant or is in denial of their own sexuality.
 
I get kinda queasy at the picture proof section, but Ican just imagine what someone would say if i told them about the site, and they went through the posts... everyone is so comfortbale here, no jackasses making fun of anyone or nothing, I just wish I can get over the thing i have about other guys pictures of their wang no offense but :barf: is ther ea cure for me?
 
oopapercutoo said:
Doing Penis Enlargement does not make you gay in any way, shape, or form.

Nothing can 'make you' gay or straight. I used to ask, why the hell would anyone choose to be a member of a group that is vilified, bashed, discriminated against, even murdered?

Being gay is not a lifestyle choice. It's a matter of sexuality and you're either predisposed or not.

As for looking at posts of members, Levista said it well:

>>>you just start to look at cocks the way a bodybuilder looks at other guys physiques for comparison, or a car fanatic looks at cars<<<
 
pimpinlilchris said:
is there a cure for me?

Only time and desensitization to what offends you! That is, the more you look the quicker the shock appeal will wear off and it will seem normal.
 
I'm sure what Davidwh says is true about being predisposed. I would think that being gay is in the genes, like "Downs Syndrome", etc. Genetically deficient. The human race would have trouble surviving if too many were predisposed to something other than heterosexual behavior.
 
As opposed to just continuing to reproduce itself into extinction? I mean, in some species, the male impregnates as many females as possible whenever he can. I would rather sterilize every last one of us than have that happen.

And homosexuality is neither a disease nor a syndrome. That's not what I meant. I'm not clear what it is, to tell the truth. But I don't think anyone needs to fear it.

:)
 
Davidwh, nobody said it was a disease or that it should be, or is feared, just that it was a gene that dosen't follow normal pattern for natural human reproduction. Let's face it, this whole Penis Enlargement thing is about enlarging the penis, for the major purpose, of satisfying women more. Not to exclude the pride, and bragging rights of the above average phallus. Personally, I'll be happy when I have reached a size where I can press against my partners cervix and shoot my load right into her uterus.
 
Heh, you homos :p


Seriously, I have the "body-building" take as well.
 
LevitraKid said:
I'll be happy when I have reached a size where I can press against my partners cervix and shoot my load right into her uterus.
You might want to reconsider that. It's generally painful for a woman when her cervix is brushed or impacted against.
 
Kid, I think you have issues. Most human beings are a little bit bisexual. In past cultures, homosexual behavior was normal and accepted. It is only in our culture, which is based upon Judeo-Christian values, that homosexuality is considered sinful and abnormal. It is not the result of a bad gene or genetically deficient.

What I was aiming for with this thread was to let newbie's know that Penis Enlargement and viewing this forum with its explicit pictures and discussions might make them feel a little confused and that they shouldn't let it interfere with their goals. There are a lot of guys, especially younger guys, who are insecure about their sexuality and might be put off by the material here. I know how much Penis Enlargement has helped me and my sex life, and would like to see all men benefit from it as well. I have even encouraged all my guy friends to Penis Enlargement. My woman loves my new improved penis, and I have reaped quite a few benefits from her enjoyment. We make love more often, are closer and she fusses over me more now. It's great!

I just wanted to encourage some of the younger and less secure men here not to worry about their mixed feelings and keep on tugging. Like Levista said, it's just comparing, not lusting after, and there is an adjustment period when you first start doing this, when you're looking at penises and maybe feeling ashamed of it and wondering if there is something wrong with you.
 
I have heard of a few women who say that they enjoy the cervix being hit by the penis, but the general consensus is that its painful.
 
Kong is right about past cultures having different views of what does and doesn't constitute homosexuality. For instance in the Roman empire and Greek empire men thought so lowly of women, that many times they would prefer to have sexual relations with their fellow man rather than indulge in intercourse with a women. In our culture that is homosexuality, no questions asked, but to them it was normal and they didn't look down on it in the least bit.
 
This is stupid... I can't believe that there are people with self esteem low enough to start worrying about being gay/bi just from looking at someone's dick. The most pathetic comment I know of (and it's being used quite often here) is:
"Well, not to sound gay or anything but you look really good!".
People who are comfortable and secure with theirselves and their sexuality would never feel the need to make such a comment. I'm gay and I stare at women's boobs quite often, so what? I've never ever felt the need to say "Hey Karen, you look really good today, I don't mean that in a sexual way or anything though".

I wish people would just stop trying to proove themselves, I notice this a lot when I hang out with straight guys and a women joins us, then everything turns into a competition on who has the biggest wang (metaphorically speaking of course). I've discussed this with my female friends a number of times and we've agreed that there's no bigger turn off. Maybe that's why women adore us gay guys, because we have no need to prove ourselves to them?
 
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You're quite right, swedeguy. It is kind of stupid. But the fact is, there are men who are insecure enough about themselves that just looking at a picture or commenting on one would make them feel the need to assert their heterosexual preference as a qualifier. "I'm not gay, pal, but you are looking ripped today!" We are so conditioned here in the US that the majority of straight men are downright hostile toward any man exhibiting perceived female traits.

It is this whole repressed sexual culture and grinding conformity that leads to violence, intolerance and (my own personal buggaboo) the wholesale mutilation of our genitals. So many men, even friends of mine, are content to be herded around like cows. Our penises are butchered, we slave away all our lives to pad the pockets of the rich and pay our taxes, we are marched off to war at the whim of crooked and greedy politicians, and if anyone dares to step out of line, all the other cows turn on them and trample them down.

Wow! Don't mean to rant on like that!
 
LevitraKid said:
Let's face it, this whole Penis Enlargement thing is about enlarging the penis, for the major purpose, of satisfying women more.

My reasons are my own, but primarily I work with Penis Enlargement to please myself.

:)

As someone who has posted a fair share of pics, by the way, I don't care to what purpose the pics are used by men or women, gay or straight, but I hope they serve as inspiration or guides to newbies, and they work as a progress record for my own use.
 
I think this *gay* thing isnt a bad thing.
Its not a syndrome or illness, nor fucked up hormone or gene.
I've known male freinds to date females all there lives than later in life turn gay, thats not genes or anything like that, its SEXUALITY and thing in peoples lives can change there sexuality, infact who knows for sure why some people are gay.
Who cares, why are we straight?? why Am I straight??
Whats normal??
As-long you are happy, thats all matters IMHO.

Finally, someone said about males commenting on other men and saying ''Well not to sound gay'' this is just NORMAL male behaviour that I have seen and DONE myself, yet I know I aint gay.
Being gay doesnt interest me in the slightest, I LOVE the females plain and simple and no one will tel me otherwise.
I recon men say ''not too sound gay'' cos they dont want others to THINK they are gay or sound LESS of a man, sounds DAFT but thats the way we are, or should I say some of us.
You are who you are.
 
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