Morals and Values vs Lust and Enjoyment

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How easy is for the bros whit larger units to enjoy a great, healthy, lusty,delicious,enjoyable, sex life? whitout feeling the remorse of guilt or committing a sin,i have noticed that most girls enjoy the sex life and they have fun whit their partners no matter if they are bisexual or even gay,they look happy and apparently they do enjoy it.How can we get rid of the guilt and have a healthy,enjoyable,happy,and amazing sex life whit the girls that could want something whit us? Getting the doubts and fears off our heads any suggestions that could be useful?Thanks;)
 
shortdick;617718 said:
How easy is for the bros whit larger units to enjoy a great, healthy, lusty,delicious,enjoyable, sex life? whitout feeling the remorse of guilt or committing a sin,i have noticed that most girls enjoy the sex life and they have fun whit their partners no matter if they are bisexual or even gay,they look happy and apparently they do enjoy it.How can we get rid of the guilt and have a healthy,enjoyable,happy,and amazing sex life whit the girls that could want something whit us? Getting the doubts and fears off our heads any suggestions that could be useful?Thanks;)
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Lust, as a sin, goes mainly to having an unhealthy desire for your neighbors wife. This was expanded in the book of Mathew to being even if you lust after a woman you have committed adultery. So, for myself, I interrupt these things to mean that I should not have an entertained desire for someone else's woman. Lust is one of those things that is not so much a sin but a means to a sin, so what you do with the misdirected desire is more important than the actual desire itself. If you are interested in a women who is single and you have a desire to be with her, there is nothing but love there and this is not a sin. Attraction, in love, is driven by lust and desire, without this we would have little reason to procreate.
 
Ok saint Michael ahaha i really dont know what to think about your words haha
 
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shortdick;617967 said:
Ok saint Michael ahaha i really dont know what to think about your words haha
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He basically gave you a definition of the word "lust" since you mentioned it in your 1st comment. He is a very wise man and he deserves to be respected for not only that, but for the reason he made this whole community to make us ALL better versions of ourselves! :)
 
Probably need to do some self assessment & identify why you associate those feelings with something that can give so much pleasure & connection between two people. Also maybe some clearer definition as to what you are referring to? Are you meaning pre - marital sex with a committed partner? Or do you mean one night stand situations where people hook up with multiple randoms every other weekend?
 
These are the 7 deadly sins and not because they are sins in themselves but because spending too much time in these states will eventually lead to sin.
Lust
Gluttony
Greed
Sloth
Wrath
Envy
Pride
 
You see a girl you get the dirty toughts but if i keep on thinking im sinning then
 
i lust after many mens wives and gfs unless the dude is my friend. then i have no interest. i'm a happy sinner by those whose standards would make me a sinner.
 
would be sick if i had a friend whit a hot girl n he asks me to fuck her heheLMAO
 
that happened to me but it was his ex and they were still talking and fucking around we switched off between his girl and his girls cousin lol but i just got head and was super high smoking and the edible hit me while getting head amazing lol
 
youknowme123321;618420 said:
i lust after many mens wives and gfs unless the dude is my friend. then i have no interest. i'm a happy sinner by those whose standards would make me a sinner.
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Not at all, as I said LUST in itself is not a sin, it is the acting on lust that creates the sin.
 
doublelongdaddy;618586 said:
Not at all, as I said LUST in itself is not a sin, it is the acting on lust that creates the sin.
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so only when i acted on that lust i was sinning...gotchya
 
i think if you have lust and mess with the girls emotions to fuck her is a sin if not its a present sex feels good on both ends and even better on the womens end:)
 
samuriajack;618676 said:
i think if you have lust and mess with the girls emotions to fuck her is a sin if not its a present sex feels good on both ends and even better on the womens end:)
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i'd agree. fucking with a girls emotions purposely is always an ass hole sinner move
 
youknowme123321;618658 said:
so only when i acted on that lust i was sinning...gotchya
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Exactly. Just like if you acted on pride or greed in a negative way. The 7 deadly sins are not sins in themselves they are places we should be careful not to sin. For instance thinking about your friends wife is not sinful, it is natural if she is attractive to you, but going and trying to have sex with here would be where it would become a sin.
 
samuriajack;618676 said:
i think if you have lust and mess with the girls emotions to fuck her is a sin if not its a present sex feels good on both ends and even better on the womens end:)
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Exactly again, this would be acting on your lust.
 
Personally, what I believe is that a SIN is everything that makes someone suffer or showing disrescpect to GOD.
 
Zambrodom3;618952 said:
Personally, what I believe is that a SIN is everything that makes someone suffer or showing disrescpect to GOD.
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The word SIN means "Missing the Mark" it was an original term used in archery. In the same way we can see that sinning against ourselves or others is missing the mark in what is right and good. We know in ourselves when we have sinned and there is no hiding it from GOD. But sinning should not be seen as an end all, it is very far from that, it is an opportunity for us to go to the Lord and ask for forgiveness and direction. We were born into this world to be the best we can for ourselves and others and having the guidance of Jesus is a beautiful thing. As a Brotherhood we certainly do GOD's work in helping one another and making ourselves better in every way. The Holy Spirit certainly flows through all of the Brothers here and in all ways directs us to what is right and good.
 
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