Low sex drive after orgasm

orgasmic19 · Jul 29, 2017

Hey guys, I am only 23 years old and I feel like have a low sex drive compared to others. Right after sex I mean orgasm I feel sort of down and out. I still get night and morning woods, but after I ejaculate I feel sort of low including energy and mood wise.

Basically I lose interest in sex after I orgasm.

Another way to put it if I don't orgasm I am ready to go and fired up, but after I orgasm I am sort of depressed. Do you guys think I have a low sex drive?

Moonshinekiller · Jul 30, 2017

You are normal.

arkailija · Jul 31, 2017

Yup, that is quite the basic reaction honestly! Orgasm together with ejaculation is a signal for your body that possible reproduction has happened and it's time to rest. And of course it releases dopamine among other good-feel hormones so if there's a defiency of dopamine (too much masturbation can cause this) in the body the not so great feelings can feel elevated.

Eat healthy and exercise, remembering good rest. Of course there are supplements like Mucuna Dopa that can possibly elevate your mood, it has worked for me quite well at least. But it's still normal to feel uninterested in sex after orgasm / ejaculation as the refractory period kicks in. For some it's longer, for some shorter.

seven_wants_ten · Jul 31, 2017

What sort of reaction are you expecting after orgasm? If men didn't lose interest afterwards, we would just fuck until our dicks were raw and we passed out from dehydration.

DLD · Jul 31, 2017

After an orgasm libido is lessened greatly and it can take anywhere from 30 minutes to 12 hours to return to a strong sex drive. Once those endorphins are gone, so is the libido.

Big Schwanz Acht · Jul 31, 2017

It's Mother Nature's way of saying 'eat a sandwich and get some sleep'

DLD · Aug 1, 2017

Big Schwanz Acht;736397 said:
It's Mother Nature's way of saying 'eat a sandwich and get some sleep'

As long as it is not a tuna sandwich!

Pete8152 · Aug 1, 2017

its natural but most will be in the mood soon again (or at least if your younge rlike me). I think i have noticed that now that im in my mid 30's it takes longer to feel horny again then it did at 30.

cladre60 · Aug 1, 2017

Totally normal or we'd never get anything else done in life.

I do wish my refractory period would get shorter as I get older instead of longer. In my late teens I would cum after 1-2 minutes, drop to about 75% erection while pounding away as hard as I could to get fully hard again, and after about a minute or so of that I was at 100% and my gf knew she was on her way to multiple orgasm city and I was driving. I miss being able to do that. I'd get to cum twice in an hour. Made some tremendous messes but we didn't care cause it felt so good.

kyomoto · Aug 1, 2017

Best thing you can do is to have your woman give you a bj to get it back up.

cladre60 · Aug 2, 2017

kyomoto;736511 said:
Best thing you can do is to have your woman give you a bj to get it back up.

I wish. When you both finish with a mega orgasm and collapse on each other in pile of sweat and cum no one is in the mood to give a BJ.

huge-girth · Jan 21, 2023

orgasmic19 said:
Hey guys, I am only 23 years old and I feel like have a low sex drive compared to others. Right after sex I mean orgasm I feel sort of down and out. I still get night and morning woods, but after I ejaculate I feel sort of low including energy and mood wise.

Basically I lose interest in sex after I orgasm.

Another way to put it if I don't orgasm I am ready to go and fired up, but after I orgasm I am sort of depressed. Do you guys think I have a low sex drive?

100% normal. You don't have a problem at all.

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