Low EQ. Can't maintain erection for long.

Hey DLD and other MOS Members,

I really need your help and advice on this. Lately I have been having low EQ and when I do get an erection while having sex with a girl or during foreplay, my penis only stays hard for a while and then it goes away.

Recently I was about to have sex with this girl and as soon as I went for the condom and tore it open to put it on, I looked out and my erection was already going down.

I need to fix this asap. This is embarrassing. I don't know if its from watching too much ���� or poor blood circulation. Maybe I need to start exercising on a regular.

I've been going at my Penis Enlargement rountines non stop lately and probably only missing a day or two in the week. My routine is edging on some days or jelquing for 1/2 hour to 1 hour and then going into the bathmate to do bathmate stretches for a bout 20 -30 mins.

For this entire routine I always use ����, which means I watch ���� nearly everyday. Is that bad? Could that be the reason my erection quality is low when having sex? What can I do to fix that? Because, I do need the ���� to do my PE routine right?

Have a kegel routine, stop masturbating, and stop watching ����, thats what i do when my erection starts going weak. Also make sure your doing your exercises right. For example when I extend when Im numb i notice my erections become weak and when im resting anytime i see any type of numbness i actually get a harder erection than when i started.

I appreciate your advice DanTheMan8910, but how can I stop watching ���� if I need it to stay hard for my PE exercises routine such as jelquing and bathmate routines?

And when I jelq or edge I don't ejaculate. My penis seems like it has grown a bit bigger or thicker. Could that be why I am experiencing eq? Or could I be using too much for the bathmate sessions?

Anyone else? Your advice will be greatly appreciated.

Cut back on the ���� and masterbating. Exercise is a good idea anyways regardless of your sex life. PE usually increases erections, so make sure you aren't doing too many exercises or blowing your load too often. And lastly I would make sure you are not just having anxiety about sex. Maybe try fucking a different girl or make her suck it really good.

Ok acromegaly. Thank you also for your advice.

But how would you go about cutting back on ���� if you needed it to Jelq and perform your bathmate stretches routines?

Can you give me some advice on how to jelq at good percentage in erection and to do bathmate stretches with a good enough eq without the use of ����?

JostMan;641716 said:

Ok acromegaly. Thank you also for your advice.

But how would you go about cutting back on ���� if you needed it to Jelq and perform your bathmate stretches routines?

Can you give me some advice on how to jelq at good percentage in erection and to do bathmate stretches with a good enough eq without the use of ����?

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Start looking at bath mate and jelqs as something sexual that feels good instead of a chore. I get excited about bath mate because it feels good and I am doing something for myself. Jelqs are fun and you get to see nice expansion it's good for your ego. Also try doing a girth session without cumming

Double Long Daddy AKA DLD? Any Advice on this?

Thanks once again acromegaly, but thats what I'm trying to tell you. I try to do all my girth work which edging and jelqing and bathmate stretches without coming. But there is still some pre cum though.

I would say massage your penis into an erection, that works for ne sometimes.

JostMan;641719 said:

Double Long Daddy AKA DLD? Any Advice on this?

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Relax and get your mind into her and what she wants. Spend time servicing her and before you know it you will be rock hard. Thinking too much on the issue will make it worse so you need to get your mind off the erection and into the foreplay. Once you have relaxed you will be good to go. You can also use Viagra, this works for me every time.

I know this might be shocking advice but have you considered stopping PE for a few days? It sounds like you're working yourself pretty hard with your routine and so it could be simply fatigue that's causing issues.

Shenlong;641838 said:

I know this might be shocking advice but have you considered stopping PE for a few days? It sounds like you're working yourself pretty hard with your routine and so it could be simply fatigue that's causing issues.

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Fatigue can play a role in poor erections. 24 hours without PE would be smart if you know when you are going to have sex...unfortunately this does not allow for spontaneity.

If your using the bathmate everyday. Then cut it down to every second day. I fine if I use the bathmate every day it really fatigues my penis. Maybe this is the problem to.

Hey Guys, DLD,

I totally get what you are saying that I should take some time off from P.E or 24 hours, but didn't you once say that it is better to have no off days for P.E in order to make your gains faster.

I don't want to slow down the progress in gaining girth, that is what I am working on right now. I am 8. something inches erect and 5.5 inches erect girth. I am trying to reach to at least 6.5 inches in erect girth.

But I guess I will have to try something because not being able to maintain an erection during sex with a girl is embarrassing.

So what's the best advice, should I take a week off and see what happens or take 24 hours off? The thing is I don't have sex on a regular either, its kinda on random days. So I wouldn't be able to test and check if my erection is back to normal so easy.

JostMan;641905 said:

Hey Guys, DLD,

I totally get what you are saying that I should take some time off from P.E or 24 hours, but didn't you once say that it is better to have no off days for P.E in order to make your gains faster.

I don't want to slow down the progress in gaining girth, that is what I am working on right now. I am 8. something inches erect and 5.5 inches erect girth. I am trying to reach to at least 6.5 inches in erect girth.

But I guess I will have to try something because not being able to maintain an erection during sex with a girl is embarrassing.

So what's the best advice, should I take a week off and see what happens or take 24 hours off? The thing is I don't have sex on a regular either, its kinda on random days. So I wouldn't be able to test and check if my erection is back to normal so easy.

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If that is the case just order some Viagra and you'll be able to get erection any time.

Do kegels

Take Viagra

Eat healthy

Take a week off of any activity that involves ����, sex, and masturbation

it looks more of a fatigue thing.....if not then as they say kegels first and then go for viagra of you really need sex

Even if it is fatigue, work in more kegels when you recover and take days off from time to time. Yes, PE every day IS better for gains but losing EQ is not, until you can go 7 days a week, every week without trouble, you're going to need rest days. Don't push yourself too far to fast.

You will eventually find a pattern in fatigue cycles to where you will know when it will be an issue with eq. Until then or in the case you want to have sex on a day there is fatigue, definitely get yourself some Viagra as a backup plan.

Sit down here young Bucky. Your ol uncle BIF is gonna learn ya a thing or two about tangling with your one eyed willy.

1. ���� doesn't kill your eq if you don't let it. Don't let your mind get warpped by nofap and the internet. The idea and theory sounds good right? Stop spankin your monkey and the erections will fall from the sky like some big breasted angel dripped them from her hoohah. Right? Well the psychological data isn't there. No psychologist or sex therapist can agree or disagree on the subject of internet ���� addiction in conjunction with sex addiction to the point it's not considered a disorder. It's just this strange grey pseudo science as of now. Personally, I think no one man can tell you what you gotta so with ���� or self pleasure. It's like going to the bar. If you can go to your favorite saloon once or twice a week to see your pals and have some of that good sarsaparilla, well ain't no harm in that now is there? On the other hand, if your going to the bar, getting pissed on everything in the house and getting your lights punched in; perhaps it's time to reevaluate your self control. You ultimatly decide your consumption dear brother. As an aside if you do have ���� related PE, maybe throttle back on the hardcore gangbang hoedowns. Dld's voice comes into my head when I'm tempted to dive in the deep end of the pool with that stuff and I'm reminded of his words: "be kind to yourself." It means many things to many men far and wide, but for me it means backing away from some of that shit for a min and firing up some of that good old stuff we stole from our older brothers or dads. Simple and wholesome �����������. If that can't get you through a workout- nothing will. Yeeehah!

2. I 2nd, no pun intended, the give it a rest 24-36 hrs pre coitus. 9/10 times I know I'm getting laid, or at least serving up some mouth meat, so I dial it back a day before my tally whacker is gonna need to bring it. Your milage may vary, but if your like most men- you know when you're not gonna get some of that pie, so make the most of them nights. Or, if you do give her the old in and out and she goes home, goes to get take out or just goes the fuck to sleep, there's your chance to get your work in no questions asked. Plan your sex life around your PE or your PE around your sex life. It's up you nephew.

3. I'm going out on about an 8" limb here, and I got no bussiness telling another man when enough is enough, but you ever thought that maybe you are pretty set already? I mean to say with all due respect, you are pushing the upper service ceiling of most vaginas with that thing lengthwise and not too shabby with your girth. Maybe bust your ass for like a year get your 6"-6.5 mark and give it a rest? Either that or you might find your pool of accommodating partners might wane with each half inch.

Just thought I'd drop over in a highly medicated state, recovering from surgery/ completely legal, and offer up some expanded thoughts where I saw some holes that needed your dear ol uncle BIF to get to filling. 😉