Libido, Erection Quality and Ejaculation

Hello everyone! So, this thread has experimental purposes. Inspired by this thread ( http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-forum/85315-no-ejaculation.html#post624187 ), I decided to start a thread where I and other volunteers would abstain ourselves from any form of masturbation and ejaculation and would monitor our EQ and libido levels during and after the experiment. We all want better EQ so we can have better girth sessions (as the better the EQ- the greater the engorgement and expansion would be).

I will start off first by sharing the results of my experiments over the past few years.


-1- I abstained myself from ANY type of masturbation, ejaculation, ���� and even nude picture watching for a period of 25 days. The results were:

After the experiment -EQ- Decrased
After the experiment-Libido- Dramatically decreased

3-4 weeks after the experiment- EQ- Good
3-4 weeks after the experiment- Libido- Very good


-2- Last summer I decided to do another experiment and ejaculated 5-6 times in a period of 3 months. The results were:

After the experiment- EQ- Dramatically decreased
After the experiment- Libido- Dramatically decreased

3-4 weeks after the experiment- EQ- Good
3-4 weeks after the experiment- Libido- Good


-3- 7-10 days of abstination resulted in:

After the experiment- EQ- Good
After the experiment- Libido- Very good


-4- And the last experiment I did was to abstain myself for 4-7 days. The results were:

After the experiment- EQ- Very good
After the experiment- Libido- Very good

3-4 weeks after the experiment- EQ- Good
3-4 weeks after the experiment- EQ- Good


The results from these experiments ON MY BODY prove that the longer I abstain from msaturbation/ejaculation/����/nude picture watching the worse my EQ and Libido are. And vice versa- the shorter the abstination periods- the better my EQ and Libido levels are.

This is how MY body reacts to abstination. Are there any volunteers to try abstaining themselves (me included) from masturbation/ejaculation/����/nude picture watching for a period of 2-3 weeks. The results will be reported in this thread and would probably help the PE community in some way? So, anyone with me?

woul be great no masturbation for the next three weeks no ����,no erotic material,PE only .... ok

shortdick;624216 said:

woul be great no masturbation for the next three weeks no ����,no erotic material,PE only .... ok

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Hmm, we need more people for this...

wonder how many will hop on board. i' ve never done it to pay attention to what happens to my libido or my EQ. when i was 18 i joined adultfriendfinder and was meeting up with a woman but it was going to be just under a month till we would get to meet b/c she said she couldnt meet for that long. i wanted to have a huge cumshot so i stopped jerking off until we met which ended up being about 25 days probably. during that time i was horny as hell though and my EQ was amazing when i fucked her and the multiple times i fucked her over the course of a couple weeks. so i had no negative impacts to my EQ or libido but i was also super horny b/c i was going to be fucking an extremely hot 40 year old woman in a few weeks

Zambrodom3;624189 said:

Hello everyone! So, this thread has experimental purposes. Inspired by this thread ( http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-forum/85315-no-ejaculation.html#post624187 ), I decided to start a thread where I and other volunteers would abstain ourselves from any form of masturbation and ejaculation and would monitor our EQ and libido levels during and after the experiment. We all want better EQ so we can have better girth sessions (as the better the EQ- the greater the engorgement and expansion would be).

I will start off first by sharing the results of my experiments over the past few years.


-1- I abstained myself from ANY type of masturbation, ejaculation, ���� and even nude picture watching for a period of 25 days. The results were:

After the experiment -EQ- Decrased
After the experiment-Libido- Dramatically decreased

3-4 weeks after the experiment- EQ- Good
3-4 weeks after the experiment- Libido- Very good


-2- Last summer I decided to do another experiment and ejaculated 5-6 times in a period of 3 months. The results were:

After the experiment- EQ- Dramatically decreased
After the experiment- Libido- Dramatically decreased

3-4 weeks after the experiment- EQ- Good
3-4 weeks after the experiment- Libido- Good


-3- 7-10 days of abstination resulted in:

After the experiment- EQ- Good
After the experiment- Libido- Very good


-4- And the last experiment I did was to abstain myself for 4-7 days. The results were:

After the experiment- EQ- Very good
After the experiment- Libido- Very good

3-4 weeks after the experiment- EQ- Good
3-4 weeks after the experiment- EQ- Good


The results from these experiments ON MY BODY prove that the longer I abstain from msaturbation/ejaculation/����/nude picture watching the worse my EQ and Libido are. And vice versa- the shorter the abstination periods- the better my EQ and Libido levels are.

This is how MY body reacts to abstination. Are there any volunteers to try abstaining themselves (me included) from masturbation/ejaculation/����/nude picture watching for a period of 2-3 weeks. The results will be reported in this thread and would probably help the PE community in some way? So, anyone with me?

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Go get a GF and don't watch ���� your EQ will be through the roof

8incyclops;624367 said:

Go get a GF and don't watch ���� your EQ will be through the roof

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Hahah! That killed me! !

youknowme123321;624254 said:

wonder how many will hop on board. i' ve never done it to pay attention to what happens to my libido or my EQ. when i was 18 i joined adultfriendfinder and was meeting up with a woman but it was going to be just under a month till we would get to meet b/c she said she couldnt meet for that long. i wanted to have a huge cumshot so i stopped jerking off until we met which ended up being about 25 days probably. during that time i was horny as hell though and my EQ was amazing when i fucked her and the multiple times i fucked her over the course of a couple weeks. so i had no negative impacts to my EQ or libido but i was also super horny b/c i was going to be fucking an extremely hot 40 year old woman in a few weeks

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yes sr the pussy of a mature woman

It is not the results one would expect, it seems that masturbation is actually beneficial to you eq and libido if kept in a light moderation. I have not kept track of these things in a strict sense but I know that when I abstain I end up with so much more stress in my life, quick to anger, I get frustrated easily and I generally feel down. For me keeping it to once a day maximum and 3 times a week minimum is what works best for me. Perhaps abstinence causes a decrease of eq due to lack of use and libido just becomes less because it is not in practice. I would like to hear other peoples experience with this and I think it will shed more light on the theories that float about in this area.

doublelongdaddy;624441 said:

It is not the results one would expect, it seems that masturbation is actually beneficial to you eq and libido if kept in a light moderation. I have not kept track of these things in a strict sense but I know that when I abstain I end up with so much more stress in my life, quick to anger, I get frustrated easily and I generally feel down. For me keeping it to once a day maximum and 3 times a week minimum is what works best for me. Perhaps abstinence causes a decrease of eq due to lack of use and libido just becomes less because it is not in practice. I would like to hear other peoples experience with this and I think it will shed more light on the theories that float about in this area.

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I see what you mean, but I was trying to get in as many people as possible and see how and when erection levels improve and test our Testosterone levels to see how the production goes. That would be really helpful to not only PE, but bodybuilding and health as well!

Zambrodom3;624646 said:

I see what you mean, but I was trying to get in as many people as possible and see how and when erection levels improve and test our Testosterone levels to see how to production goes. That would be really helpful to not only PE, but bodybuilding and health as well!

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It just was not what I expected even though it completely applies to me. It was good reading your experiment because it allowed me to know that others have the same results as me. With some good feedback from others we may finally get some solid answers on masturbation and how much is the right amount.

doublelongdaddy;624729 said:

It just was not what I expected even though it completely applies to me. It was good reading your experiment because it allowed me to know that others have the same results as me. With some good feedback from others we may finally get some solid answers on masturbation and how much is the right amount.

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Yep, all we do is trying to help the community move further and help more men.

I'm interested to try.

Zambrodom3;624880 said:

Yep, all we do is trying to help the community move further and help more men.

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And it will help clear up much confusion on if masturbation hurts PE, which I complete disagree with.

When I first signed up here, I've been experiencing some EQ issues and even ventured into the pill route (which I absolutely hated due to the headaches it gave me). I've actually trashed the remaining pills I had and decided to go on a ���� free experiment around the month of October/November. Well, at the end of November, I decided to give it a shot and see my progress. I looked at some pictures (thechive) and got hard as a rock and kept that erection for the entire session. I decided to do it again for the month of December and got the same results. So for me, the longer I abstain from it, the better it is for me.

Having said that, I think a big part of my EQ issues in the past have been caused by my mental state and whether or not I had a lot on my mind. Abstaining myself from masturbating has helped me but, being at peace with myself and having a clear mind seems to have helped me a lot.

pedud;631661 said:

When I first signed up here, I've been experiencing some EQ issues and even ventured into the pill route (which I absolutely hated due to the headaches it gave me). I've actually trashed the remaining pills I had and decided to go on a ���� free experiment around the month of October/November. Well, at the end of November, I decided to give it a shot and see my progress. I looked at some pictures (thechive) and got hard as a rock and kept that erection for the entire session. I decided to do it again for the month of December and got the same results. So for me, the longer I abstain from it, the better it is for me.

Having said that, I think a big part of my EQ issues in the past have been caused by my mental state and whether or not I had a lot on my mind. Abstaining myself from masturbating has helped me but, being at peace with myself and having a clear mind seems to have helped me a lot.

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Abstaining myself from masturbating and quiting ����, helped me so much that I can't describe it, I used to watch a lot of porns long time ago and my entire masturbation session lasted for couple of minutes, to wank it off ASAP and go to bed, what an idiot I was before, during that period I had soft erections plus my penis was 5 inches long, total disaster

I don't believe that abstaining from ����������� would me - therefore I don't want to do that right now.

If I stay away from masturbation my libido will decrease - I get afraid that I will turn into asexual being. Since my identity is bound to be a sexual expression I always continued masturbating.

According to my understanding there is a huge misunderstanding in the context of masturbation. A lot of people blame ���� and they really believe that staying away from it will help.

Good for believers, but in my case it just doesn't work like that. Right now I lost almost all of my libido. I want to engage in the feelings but they won't come when I masturbate. Not sure where it comes from. It appeared over the years but It became severe last Xmas. The reason is either the Bathmate or lack of stress. If I am not stressed I don't seem to urge sexuality. It is very difficult to find out where certain things come from.

Personally I tried so many things and none of the theories about libido apply. When I don't masturbate for a few days, libido rose from day 2 to 4. Then it went away. I don't believe in NoFap, also I don't believe in YourBrainOnPorn.com

All I can say is that ejaculations are not helpful for my sexual satisfaction. Sometimes a very high sex drive arises out of nowhere, it is impossible to relate it to a certain strategy because it can appear with ����, without ����, after staying abstinent for 1 day or 5 days and so on. There is no common denominator. I am trying to find the common denominator for months now. I just fail everytime.

Next things I will try is probably stay away form the Bathmate. I have to find out whether it comes from the bathmate. My theory is that through the expansion it becomes difficult to trigger the nerves inside the penis. Of course, this would be contrary to what people say about the Bathmate - they will say it is good against impotence and so on.

I introduced the kegels 2 weeks ago but nothing has changed with about 1500 kegels per day. It should have been apparent that kegels work after a few days. It really didn't help but I understand that I should continue with this nonetheless.

Also I am trying the Taoism way of channeling "sexual energy" from the penis up the spine towards your head.

I will make a post about a masturbation experience that I call Thor Sessions. During these sessions I had extreme sensory overload from applying a jelqing, ballooning technique. During these sessions I experienced that ���� is not evil but just another expression of love. Since Xmas I could never connect again using the technique. I guess I am trying a lot to get back to my libido. Only option would be to surrender to all of this. If it won't come then it is gone.

Hello there Chaoskampf, welcome.

I'm picking certain things from your message; yes, abstinence isn't for everyone, but control can be acquired in my opinion.
I am not a fan of NoFap that much, to each to their own, if someone finds power from it, good for them.

Interesting that ejaculations don't do it so much for your sexual satisfaction. Although, I can partially "understand" in a way, ejaculating by myself or with someone special; huge difference in the satisfaction.

Libido is such a complicated thing. I've personally used some supplements to aid in that department, not pushing anything here, but it's worth keeping in mind. Several supplements can help on many other departments than just libido.

If you feel the Bathmate isn't rocking your boat correctly, then by all means have a break from it! I hope you've read about 5x5x3 method regarding Bathmate usage.

And now, very interesting point in your post; "I introduced the kegels 2 weeks ago but nothing has changed with about 1500 kegels per day." I think you're pushing yourself a bit too hard!
In some sense you might have caused an imbalance in the muscles. Just a thought, I would consider a lot less than 1500 kegels per day to be good. You have to give rest to those muscles as well!

The Taoism way and your Thor sessions sound very interesting, I hope to see a post about them soon!

Don't surrender; keep on fighting, but seriously, 1500 kegels a day is pushing it; remember to give rest to your body and muscles.
Stay strong, you can find that libido!

Perestroyka;631667 said:

Abstaining myself from masturbating and quiting ����, helped me so much that I can't describe it, I used to watch a lot of porns long time ago and my entire masturbation session lasted for couple of minutes, to wank it off ASAP and go to bed, what an idiot I was before, during that period I had soft erections plus my penis was 5 inches long, total disaster

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So glad you have seen the light and found the infinite grace in abstinence!

David133;734122 said:

I've made some obervations if I go a week or more without masturbating my erections are weak and my sex drive is incredibly low if I wank daily my erections are harder but the biggest difference I've noticed is If I ejaculate regularly my erections are quite hard I can usually get hard again in only a minute where as often I find it hard to get it up at all. So what does this mean? Could ejaculating opposed to just masturbating (or edging) increase more blood flow? I've noticed too often after I cum my voice sounds a lot deeper my voice sounds louder there's a lot of guys who believe in this "no fap" idea that not masturbating or having sex raises Testosterone levels but in my experience it's the opposite after weeks of not cumming I have zero libido whatsoever and my voice sounds high pitched. I remember a few years back I went on a cruise with my family for 2 week I had no access to ���� I was eating tons of different vegetables, meats etc which I normally wouldn't at home and eat hardly any sugar or deserts I felt like masturbating often during this time and ejaculated twice in one week I swear my voice got way deeper I also noticed morning erections are harder the day/night I ejaculated.

I want to try Prolargent 5x5 extreme is often result in better erections and higher libido

Does anyone else have opinions on this?

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Abstinence from masturbation does NOT increase testosterone. Testosterone is increased in males who have a regular sex life slightly more than those who do not have sex. Libido will be the most difficult thing to deal with as we go on without masturbation but eventually temptations to masturbate become less and less. ����, although closely attached to masturbation, is something the part that is a habit that will eventually destroy sex drive and will cause the user to search out more and more devious ���� until you reach the point of desensitization. This is a state where even the most extreme ���� does little for the user and the orgasm becomes a quick relief that turn into a sting that makes the process even worse.

Everyone has different reasons for this. My personal reasons are complete abstinence for Jesus, something that is very difficult to attain, especially after a life filled with instant gratification and instant ����. I stopped ���� and masturbation because they were destroying my life and my relationships, especially with Jesus. Today, although I continue to fail every now and again, I feel victorious, even in my failures as each time this happens I learn more about myself and the triggers that cause my falls.