UpgradingUnit

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Ok, recently my gf complains that every time we get down and dirty, I take too long to cum.

She says that its great for her at the evenings (1-2hrs/episode), but in between classes and when schedules are tight, she wants a quickie.

Because of my Penis Enlargement ventures the past 2 years i have been desensitized (not loss of sensitivity) to penile stimulation somewhat.

How can I re-induce pre-ejac or something like it (10 to 20 minute episodes is what I want).

I think its gotta be mental, but may be physical.....i can get off in like 1 or 2 minutes if I masturbate, but with sex.....im in for the long haul.

Help!
 

cyinisis

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Masturbate, a lot, and focus on cumming as quickly as possible.

And while you have sex, focus on your own pleasure, and focus on cumming in an instant.

:)

CYiNiSiS
 

penguinsfan

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Yeah, the best thing I can tell you is to focus on cumming. Most guys try to think of anything else, in order to avoid pre-mat-ejac, so take the opposite approach. As soon as you're in her shift all thoughts to spunking ASAP.
 
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9cyclops9

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Bah! I forgot to put the disclaimer! Crap! (pun intended)

Nah nah nah. Not reverse kegel. Kegel kegel.
 
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AncientChina said:
Thanks a lot 9! >:( I just tried that sitting here in my nice leather computer chair with my mesh workout shorts on and I just fucking shit all over the place! I guess I used the wrong muscle, now I have to throw this fucking chair out as it smells like fucking shit and have to stand while I type. I hope you are happy buddy, real happy!
dude im sitting in my nice leather computer chair with mesh workout shorts on too. what a coincidence
 

dopefish

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UpgradingUnit said:
Ok, recently my gf complains that every time we get down and dirty, I take too long to cum.

She says that its great for her at the evenings (1-2hrs/episode), but in between classes and when schedules are tight, she wants a quickie.

Because of my Penis Enlargement ventures the past 2 years i have been desensitized (not loss of sensitivity) to penile stimulation somewhat.

How can I re-induce pre-ejac or something like it (10 to 20 minute episodes is what I want).

I think its gotta be mental, but may be physical.....i can get off in like 1 or 2 minutes if I masturbate, but with sex.....im in for the long haul.

Help!
LOL i used to have the same problem! (Although it wasn't between classes, sometimes the GF just wanted a quickie).

Anyway, generally i would just do my best to get her off and then finish the job myself later on if i felt the urge... Wish i'd known about kegals earlier LOL
 

penguinsfan

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Kegels are supposed to help you last longer, not finish quicker, correct? You have to excuse my ignorance here. I really don't kegel like I should in my routines and have not been sexually active since beginning my Penis Enlargement a few months ago.
 

fallen_one23

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I've also always had the "problem" of lasting too long in bed, I just don't know why, I think I might've masturbated too much when i was growing up and lost some sensitivity, but I'll try cumming as quick as i can when masturbating now.
 

Royce

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Actually i was never able to cum iside a vagina, i last forever there.
 

arkie

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I am glad to see some other guys are having the same "problem". My girl compains sometimes about the same thing. Sometimes she wants a quicky, and sometimes I do too... but, quickie doesnt seem to be in the little guy's vocabulary. I have always wanted to be able to grab her in a room, go at it, and get back to the party or Thanksgiving dinner LOL or whatever... just doesnt happen...
 

Royce

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I´ve fucked the other day with water based lub, no condom (she´s on pills ) and thrusted as fast as i could, so this day i cummed real fast , less then 5 minutes.

So now i know i can cum fast in with these ideal conditions!
 

German Stallion

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So, think of her, not yourself. She wants a quickie, give her one. As long as she is happy, you don't have to cum. Just be conscious of her needs and wants and you will be happy. GS
 

erusnu

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well i think that ur not being able to cum early is great. i don't think there is a need to bust at all. it also keeps your energy levels up. my advice when she says she had enough, u pull out and thats it.
....my lil 2 cents
 

pepepe

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must be real nice to have that problem. hey did you ever think most girls like it to last long. something doesn't seem right to me about your situation.
 
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