I think I created a monster

Was taking a bath last night and DH comes in with this round weight looking thing. He has decided he will fashion some sort of hanging device so that he can walk around all day with this little weight hanging from his dick. IS THIS A GOOD IDEA at this point???

Another thing. He was showing me how he does the stretches. The one where he pulls it behind his ass is hard for him.... 1. Because he has a big ball sack, and 2. because he has really big thighs and butt. He says it hurts when he does it because it's so much pressure on his balls. Is that good or bad, or should he stop doing it, or will he get used to it?

He has been doing the jelqs and stretching for about 2 weeks now...is it to soon to start experimenting w/ hanging?

We were fucking last night and I paid a LOT of attention to his cock the whole time. You could tell he was in heaven. I told him that he really was the perfect size when he was hard (and he is). He said "well, it can't hurt to make it bigger....you might like it even more". I told him I just wanted his flacid a little longer (it already is hanging nicer when soft). He agreed....

He is also keeping a semi through the day. That might be because we are having a LOT of sex lately, and the fact that he has his hands on his cock anytime he has a chance

So anyway.....things are going really great. He doesn't seem to be put off by my wanting him bigger. I think it actually turns him on. Plus, I can't seemt to keep my hands and eyes off of him......it's been great for our sex life.

Dont do them, I dont because my nuts get in the way and it is painfull. Not to mention a little queer,. No big deal, those are just lazy streches anyway. just strech with your hands.

thewife said:

Was taking a bath last night and DH comes in with this round weight looking thing. He has decided he will fashion some sort of hanging device so that he can walk around all day with this little weight hanging from his dick. IS THIS A GOOD IDEA at this point???

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I think an autoADS from http://autextender.com is much better. It works when when you sit down, whereas the weights only work when standing.

thewife said:

Another thing. He was showing me how he does the stretches. The one where he pulls it behind his ass is hard for him.... 1. Because he has a big ball sack, and 2. because he has really big thighs and butt. He says it hurts when he does it because it's so much pressure on his balls. Is that good or bad, or should he stop doing it, or will he get used to it?

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Just pull the nut sac to the side and do them. No need to "split" the balls when doing this stretch. This stretch is really good for giving quick gains in the beginning stages of Penis Enlargement because it stretches the weak ligaments better than any stretch. I would not neglect this stretch.

thewife said:

He has been doing the jelqs and stretching for about 2 weeks now...is it to soon to start experimenting w/ hanging?

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I noticed gains from the newbie routine for about two-three months before hitting a plateau. That doesn't mean he should start hanging, but that it isn't the only way to gain. When you say hanging, do you mean light-weight hanging all day, or heavy hanging with a Bib-style hanger ( www.bibhanger.com )?

thewife said:

We were fucking last night and I paid a LOT of attention to his cock the whole time. You could tell he was in heaven. I told him that he really was the perfect size when he was hard (and he is). He said "well, it can't hurt to make it bigger....you might like it even more". I told him I just wanted his flacid a little longer (it already is hanging nicer when soft). He agreed....

He is also keeping a semi through the day. That might be because we are having a LOT of sex lately, and the fact that he has his hands on his cock anytime he has a chance

So anyway.....things are going really great. He doesn't seem to be put off by my wanting him bigger. I think it actually turns him on. Plus, I can't seemt to keep my hands and eyes off of him......it's been great for our sex life.

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Yes, a bigger flaccid hang is an almost overnight result from Penis Enlargement, whether having sex or not. Even when I was away from my girlfriend for a month at a time, I kept hanging longer. The jelqs especially do this by increasing blood flow. Enjoy your new man!

What do you mean "stretch with your hands"??

desiel_dick said:

Dont do them, I dont because my nuts get in the way and it is painfull. Not to mention a little queer,. No big deal, those are just lazy streches anyway. just strech with your hands.

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When you say hanging, do you mean light-weight hanging all day, or heavy hanging with a Bib-style hanger ( www.bibhanger.com )?

To be honest, I'm not sure. He just had a small round fitting type thing that might weigh 1lb....if that.

I couldn't get that website to pull up, but will try to do a google search (for the autoADS). I just think he needs to keep on with the stretches and jelqs before he starts any of that.

Another thing came up last night. He hasn't been using any lube...is that absolutly necessary? AND he squeezes really, really tight when he's doing the jelqs...he says it doesn't hurt....but it CAN'T be good....are you supposed to do it that hard?? I think he could tell I was a little concerned because he asked me what was wrong. I said this is all well and good, but PULEASE don't hurt him....okay

goldmember said:

I think an autoADS from http://autextender.com is much better. It works when when you sit down, whereas the weights only work when standing.


Just pull the nut sac to the side and do them. No need to "split" the balls when doing this stretch. This stretch is really good for giving quick gains in the beginning stages of Penis Enlargement because it stretches the weak ligaments better than any stretch. I would not neglect this stretch.


I noticed gains from the newbie routine for about two-three months before hitting a plateau. That doesn't mean he should start hanging, but that it isn't the only way to gain. When you say hanging, do you mean light-weight hanging all day, or heavy hanging with a Bib-style hanger ( www.bibhanger.com )?

Yes, a bigger flaccid hang is an almost overnight result from Penis Enlargement, whether having sex or not. Even when I was away from my girlfriend for a month at a time, I kept hanging longer. The jelqs especially do this by increasing blood flow. Enjoy your new man!

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thewife,

Goldmember gave some good advice, but I think it is time for your husband to join here. He is obviously already into this and maybe now he will make an effort and learn how to use the internet and these forums. It's quite easy anyway, just show him how.

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What do you mean "stretch with your hands"??

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When i say strech with your hands, i mean use your hands , not your butt-cheeks. BTC streching is when your holding your penis in a streched state between your cheeks. Vaseline when he does his Jelq. the whole thing with jelq is the milking motion of the penis. Even farmers use Bag Balm on cows utters when they are milking them. To me, its kind of a must do. By the way, My little Penis Enlargement secret is Bag Balm. It softens tissue and is excellent for blood engorgment. I could give you a solid routine that you could print out and give to him. this way he could keep it with him when he is doing his exercises, and he will know exacally what to do, and not to do.

Well, first off...we don't have our home PC up yet. Second, he's not going to get on here and type. Everything I said is straight from his mouth....so....I don't see the difference, but I will and have been encouraging him to come here himself.

Thanks....

Chi said:

thewife,

Goldmember gave some good advice, but I think it is time for your husband to join here. He is obviously already into this and maybe now he will make an effort and learn how to use the internet and these forums. It's quite easy anyway, just show him how.

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Okay...gottcha.

I will suggest the bag balm (my dad used to use that on his hands....or at least that's what he SAID he used it on - ).

No one commented on how hard he does the jelqs. Is that the proper way to do it? He said the harder the better because it gets the blood into the head?? Is that right?

His main reason for not using the lube was becuase he's mainly doing this when he uses the bathroom at work.....can't keep lube there. I told him to start doing them at night at home...or in the AM before his shower.

Thanks!

desiel_dick said:

When i say strech with your hands, i mean use your hands , not your butt-cheeks. BTC streching is when your holding your penis in a streched state between your cheeks. Vaseline when he does his Jelq. the whole thing with jelq is the milking motion of the penis. Even farmers use Bag Balm on cows utters when they are milking them. To me, its kind of a must do. By the way, My little Penis Enlargement secret is Bag Balm. It softens tissue and is excellent for blood engorgment. I could give you a solid routine that you could print out and give to him. this way he could keep it with him when he is doing his exercises, and he will know exacally what to do, and not to do.

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well considering he has only been into this a couple of weeks, he should NOT be using full strength when jelq. you supposed to slowly work you way up to full strength.

A full strength squeeze probably doesn't hurt much because he's mostly sliding skin if doing them without lube. Tell him to use the lube, and yes, do it at home! Do the stretches at home as well. More privacy will give more focus and thus more intensity. I wouldn't worry about how hard he squeezes though because if it hurts, he will back off.

As for the hanger, what you were referring to is a light-weight all day hanger. The Bib Hanger is a device used to hang 5, 10, 15...or more pounds for a short period of time (20 minutes usually). Currently, I hang 12.5 pounds, and some guys have reported hanging 35-45 pounds

The light-weight all day hangers have merit, but won't give results by themselves. You must be following a solid stretching/jelqing program and/or heavy weight hanging program too.
Good luck

The bathroom is good for a couple 30 second stretches when your done, but i dont think i would be doing a jelq routine there (for 1 it would be too difficult to sustain an erection there).

For most guys, jelquing is at its best at around 80% erection becouse the tissues are more pliable and not too hard, so there is better expansion. Others, like DLD, preffer 100% erect, and you can also jelq at lower erection levels and focus more on the move forward (similar to stretching with each stroke) to get more lenght than girth.

Tell him to try jelquing jelquing at different erection levels and see where he gets the best workout or engorgement.

Warning sigs are too much bruising, excessive fluid buildup, any sort of pain (as oppposed to soreness which is good), and reduced erection strenght. Some guys go all out for gains and sacrifice their sex lives. I wouldn't do that and neither should he.

Also tell him to remember to kegel, which is commonly forgotten.

HEy jelquing without lube is called dry jelq. I'm exclusively using those, and it works perfectly... It's just that it's not done the exact same way than wet jelq.
I find it does a perfect job though ?

But then , theWife, the goal is not necessarily to bring blood in the HEAD, but everywhere... (I bet you knew that allready) So he should not focus on the head only when jelquing. He should make sure not to hurt himself...

hi

Wow first rule of the Penis Enlargement club is?
lol

desiel_dick;213348 said:

Dont do them, I dont because my nuts get in the way and it is painfull. Not to mention a little queer,. No big deal, those are just lazy streches anyway. just strech with your hands.

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laaaaame. An action cannot be queer unless you make it so, just saying.
Not cool.

I tried weights, but gave up on them Damn they hurt like hell.

is thewife really a female super concerned about the details of Penis Enlargement or a man posting as thewife because it is easier for some reason? I am just asking because these posts regarding Penis Enlargement look unlike any I could imagine any woman i know. But, I do not know many people ))

Kokobo;336989 said:

I tried weights, but gave up on them Damn they hurt like hell.

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If you do not get the wrapping technique down weights can be extremely painful. I only hung for a short time but when I first started 5 pounds was painful. WHen I looked at Stillwantmore's wrapping tutorial I was good. Once I learned to wrap correctly I was able to hang more than 60 pounds with no pain at all.