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You know how most PE-ers have difficulty getting pictures of their erections when they measure? That's because they are performing for a camera, and the erection is tied inextricably with mood. Pressure to perform is NOT sexy, and your penis doesn't lie.
I know exactly how you feel because I struggled with this problem in my late teens and early 20's, couldn't keep an erection when it mattered. I found that there was no quick fix because the problem was fundamental underlying attitudes towards sex, and from what I've read I think you share some of those same attitudes. A LOT of men do!
In short... this isn't a "test" or a "performance" for her. The more you think of it that way, the less interested your penis is. Remember... sex is supposed to be FUN.
If you really want to banish this problem forever, check out the book Coping With Premature Ejaculation. This thing revolutionized my entire approach (for the better) and, as much fun as a bigger dick is, changing these underlying attitudes will do WAY more to make you a better lover than PE alone.
I know exactly how you feel because I struggled with this problem in my late teens and early 20's, couldn't keep an erection when it mattered. I found that there was no quick fix because the problem was fundamental underlying attitudes towards sex, and from what I've read I think you share some of those same attitudes. A LOT of men do!
In short... this isn't a "test" or a "performance" for her. The more you think of it that way, the less interested your penis is. Remember... sex is supposed to be FUN.
If you really want to banish this problem forever, check out the book Coping With Premature Ejaculation. This thing revolutionized my entire approach (for the better) and, as much fun as a bigger dick is, changing these underlying attitudes will do WAY more to make you a better lover than PE alone.
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