God's intention for sex whether it just be for "fun" or as an expression of love, was for it to be within the commtiment of marriage. That's where the correlation lies. The problem with people and sex is that "it's not a big deal", and it is a big deal. It involves emotion and feelings, and whether as an individual you will admit that it is significant is on you, you have a conscience and there are those who ignore theirs. I'm warning georginho that it's not all it's cracked up to be. Not to mention the girl he's going to be with has already been around, I mean it is significant that she doesn't see sex as a big thing. If he's going to get into a relationship with her, what can he be sure of, she can go out and have sex with whomever she wants, if it's no big deal. Personally I know I wouldn't want a relationship who viewed the act of sex as something to do, or it wasn't a big deal. If you can see yourself with this girl then by all means, but what happens in these kinds of relationships when the chips are down, they fall apart. And to tell the truth divorce rates are high, but divorce rates among Christian people are even higher. The reason I point this out is there are very few individuals who understand what it takes to be in a relationship, and it's not feelings or emotion. It's a choice and a comittment. Love is hard, and honestly I thought I had it all. I was mistaken, and I really wouldn't want anyone on this forum to go through what I went through. Cause it is really hard, and in the end it's not really worth all the pain and frustration that comes from it. So you can say I may be jaded, but I see things clearly, and it does matter if you have sex or not. So make a wise choice, and don't just think with your man hood. I did and it messed things up in ways you could never imagine.