I kinda need help with the relationship stuff !!!

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Yeah I definitely have to have a rest day between my girth days so I do girth every other day. After a girth workout I usually can't get erect for a couple of hours.

RED, I may have to try that clamped wet jelqing. I used to love jelqing and now I miss it. Sounds like fun!
 
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Relationship first, then sex.

If you don't want a relationship with her, don't screw her. You're a virgin and it would be a waste to throw it away on some party girl. Save it for a girl who you want to be with.

I was in a similar situation at 19. I met my younger girlfriend who had been with 7 guys and I was still a virgin. She was quite the party girl and I was more reserved. Ended up losing my virginity to her, but I was also in a relationship with her. No regrets over here.
 
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I want to have sex with her though, maybe it'll make me more relaxed with girls in future.
Plus what if i don't get the chance to again............
I would really kick myself.
It will maybe give me more confidence.
 
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Ok, I will suggest you just take your chances and fuck her. Do not think it twice. Just go and do it. If that is what she wants and you also want to do it then go ahead. Then you will see if it is a relationship material or not. Not just cause you fuck you have to be in a relationship. You can have a good friend and a good fuck at the same time! Just be good to her !

Just do it!
 
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Cheers mate, we've been talking about it on msn.
 

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Man, honestly I'm 19yo as well. I lost my virginity to my last girlfriend. That's over now, and I have my regrets, because I was not faithful to the Lord, and what he has planned. I was doing my own thing, thinking I knew better. I don't know of your faith or beliefs, but if you have doubts or concerns outside of your insecurities then I would examine the situation and rethink my position. Don't just have sex to have sex, I did and it's not worth it. It's not the be all end all of existence.
 
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But i may never get another chance.
She wants to be my girlfriend and i want that too, but it's kind of akward because our families know each other and it would be kind of weird in a way.(hard to explain unless you knew what it was like)
 
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Friend! Please fuck that girl. Faith has nothing to do with fucking. Why do you have to wait to do that girl. You already know her since you said your are friends from a while already. Then she likes you and you like her. PLEASE just DO USE a CONDOM !

As long as you both want to and you are not been unfaithful to another person then my friend get to do the fucking ASAP.

Faith is good for all other things and I really do not see the connection with having sex. One thing is making LOVE and another is just plain fucking!

Do yourself the favor and talk to the girl and if you guys are feeling it then get the condoms and do it!

Bye
 

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God's intention for sex whether it just be for "fun" or as an expression of love, was for it to be within the commtiment of marriage. That's where the correlation lies. The problem with people and sex is that "it's not a big deal", and it is a big deal. It involves emotion and feelings, and whether as an individual you will admit that it is significant is on you, you have a conscience and there are those who ignore theirs. I'm warning georginho that it's not all it's cracked up to be. Not to mention the girl he's going to be with has already been around, I mean it is significant that she doesn't see sex as a big thing. If he's going to get into a relationship with her, what can he be sure of, she can go out and have sex with whomever she wants, if it's no big deal. Personally I know I wouldn't want a relationship who viewed the act of sex as something to do, or it wasn't a big deal. If you can see yourself with this girl then by all means, but what happens in these kinds of relationships when the chips are down, they fall apart. And to tell the truth divorce rates are high, but divorce rates among Christian people are even higher. The reason I point this out is there are very few individuals who understand what it takes to be in a relationship, and it's not feelings or emotion. It's a choice and a comittment. Love is hard, and honestly I thought I had it all. I was mistaken, and I really wouldn't want anyone on this forum to go through what I went through. Cause it is really hard, and in the end it's not really worth all the pain and frustration that comes from it. So you can say I may be jaded, but I see things clearly, and it does matter if you have sex or not. So make a wise choice, and don't just think with your man hood. I did and it messed things up in ways you could never imagine.
 
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Ok, Millionman you have a great idea there but I also think that each person should experience for themselves. Just cause you did not succed when you did it it does not mean that my friend georginho would not!

This kids want to do it and they both want so why not. As long as it is with respect and using protection then that is their option. God will still love them no matter if they do it or not. As a man you need so experience so to make the right decision about love when it arrives.

I really respect the way you think and wish you the best of sucess in you relationship with other girls but I think a fuck for this guy could bust his confidence and get him to become more outgoing. It is not peer preassure or anything , it is simply that they both feel attracted and the chemestry is there!

SO go fuck!
 

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What is it with reserved 19 yearold guys and outgoing chicks ( except mine was a few years older with only 3-4 partners or so)?

I will not lie. I had sex first, then the relationship. Ok, it took 3 dates; but that sure wasnt a relationship. And despite what I told her(later) I DID NOT love her at the time. That came later. Though she would swear for years she fell in love with me the moment she first saw me. Its almost 6 years later now ( 2 years since Ive talked to her)and I dont have much to show for it. But I am glad I went through it.
 
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I just feel that this is something i have to do.
 
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I say go for it and have fun but be safe.
 
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go 4 it mate, what you got to loose! (apart from ur virginity!) lol!
 
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Well it's to late now, she's away to live in England (not her choice)
 

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