Huge Flaccid Gains + Bulge in Pants = Women Stare at Bulge

Hello Brothers,

I am new to PE and to the forum. (This is my second thread.)

I've been doing DLD's Newbie Routine since May 1, 2016 and have had massive flaccid gains, so much so that now I have noticed women in public staring at the bulge in my pants. Women staring at my bulge is an unexpected consequence of PE. I've seen numerous women with their eyes glued to my groin. I'm a modest guy and the stares from women make me a little uncomfortable. I wear boxer briefs and my schlong hangs down on the left side so that it follows down along my left leg.

Do any of my fellow brothers have this issue of women staring? I see three options for dealing with this issue.

1) Do nothing and learn to live with women staring at my bulge.

2) Switch to briefs. I wore briefs when I was younger and switched because of pinching. Wearing boxer briefs does not cause pinching.

3) Continue to wear boxer briefs and switch to very loose-fitting pants. I don't wear tight pants, as it is.

I browsed the forum and could not find a thread that deals with this issue, so I figured I would start one. DLD, I remember reading a post from you about your experience at a basketball game and women staring at your groin, but I do not recall how you addressed this issue.

Thank you to all who share their thoughts in this thread.

I would start wearing looser fitting pants. that's what I do at work and I have not noticed any problems at all. But, then again, I'm only have a 5.25" soft flaccid size, so I'm not sure how big a deal it would be either way for me.j But yeah, I would not go with briefs, no way! Try the looser fitting pants and see if that helps.

Boxers but with polyester material.
I've never had the bulge issue though

First and most important is NEVER RESTRICT THE PENIS in tight underwear. This is the worst way to heal possible. Women were staring at your crotch? I would be very happy to see, no problem there. Whenever I use Uncle Jim's Wrapping method I get stares wherever I go, but I like that. Using the UJW or ACE is the great way to heal after length work. The Phallosan and SizeGenetics will do a better job in the way of intensity, bringing new gains as you heal but the ACE wrap is good for those who do not have equipment. It will not deliver more size but it will help you cement length gains and it will also train the penis to remain elongated.

It's definitely an issue...there are several pairs of jeans that I've 'closeted' due to not being able to conceal the inappropriate schlong-bulge. I have caught several women catching a glimpse and a few, down-right staring...I think it's kinda funny and almost exciting in a way. Makes all the hard-work worthwhile

The only time I feel uneasy about the salami bulge is when wearing ACE wrap because it's an exaggerated representation of your cock... kind of like when women wear pushup bras that make their tits look waaay better than they are.

If you're getting massive bulge and resulting stares with no augmentation, then show it proudly and capitalize on the attention...

John_Wayne;699873 said:

Hello Brothers,

I am new to PE and to the forum. (This is my second thread.)

I've been doing DLD's Newbie Routine since May 1, 2016 and have had massive flaccid gains, so much so that now I have noticed women in public staring at the bulge in my pants. Women staring at my bulge is an unexpected consequence of PE. I've seen numerous women with their eyes glued to my groin. I'm a modest guy and the stares from women make me a little uncomfortable. I wear boxer briefs and my schlong hangs down on the left side so that it follows down along my left leg.

Do any of my fellow brothers have this issue of women staring? I see three options for dealing with this issue.

1) Do nothing and learn to live with women staring at my bulge.

2) Switch to briefs. I wore briefs when I was younger and switched because of pinching. Wearing boxer briefs does not cause pinching.

3) Continue to wear boxer briefs and switch to very loose-fitting pants. I don't wear tight pants, as it is.

I browsed the forum and could not find a thread that deals with this issue, so I figured I would start one. DLD, I remember reading a post from you about your experience at a basketball game and women staring at your groin, but I do not recall how you addressed this issue.

Thank you to all who share their thoughts in this thread.

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I let them stare, and then when they notice I see them looking, I give them the "my eyes are up here" look. They are usually mortified that they got busted crotch watching and it's hilarious. Give them a taste of their own medicine.

ThatDude512;699975 said:

. Give them a taste of their own medicine.

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Oh we have some legit package-checkers on this board no doubt. Its ok if females stare at your package (the interesting ones don't,they're too classy for that) what succ ass Is when bros do this shit.

I have caught the homeboys with a look of awe since they prolly notice the size fluctuations from day to day. One time a random zannied out gay nigga told me "you got a big package, has anyone ever told you that?" Another random mf said "your cock gets marked up real scrumptious in those shorts". Other gay dudes also approach but more subtle, I guess I just look homo or something xD.

I used to feel embarrassed because I wasn't used to having a pronounced bulge but after a while it doesn't even seem that big. That's why alot of us never quit PE, it'll never be enough for us. Well chase this shit to the gates of death

ThatDude512;699975 said:

I let them stare, and then when they notice I see them looking, I give them the "my eyes are up here" look. They are usually mortified that they got busted crotch watching and it's hilarious. Give them a taste of their own medicine.

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lol, that is very slick

ThatDude512;699975 said:

I let them stare, and then when they notice I see them looking, I give them the "my eyes are up here" look. They are usually mortified that they got busted crotch watching and it's hilarious. Give them a taste of their own medicine.

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lol nice one

I've had similar experiences. I find it both exciting and a little anxiety producing. I'm curious why women noticing your bulge makes you uncomfortable. Especially because you are obviously wanting a big[ger] cock. I'm not saying it's wrong, but it might be worth exploring your discomfort. Perhaps some blocks in your sexual energy are waiting to be shifted. That's the conclusion I've come to in regards to myself.

im married so i dont like being checked out. if youre single that kind of attention could definitely be addicting.

I've had some pretty significant flaccid gains over the past few months from intense stretching while using my bathmate. I'm usually somewhere between 6.5-7" most days. I never used to get above 5.5. So I'm pretty stoked. I've never had girls full on stare at my crotch, but I have got a couple glances by girls in the check out lane or maybe a bartender now and then. Most girls are pretty subtle in they way they check you out. I definitely don't mind. I live North of Seattle.. and a lot of girls are kind of prudish in the NW. Too many SJW's. Where are you John Wayne? I wanna go where girls have no shame. haha

I wouldn't really know what to say if dude's were commenting on my dick tbh. I wouldn't be offended or anything... but yeah probably the weirdest compliment you could ever receive from a man, straight or not, haha. I'd just be like, umm thanks dude ? That's kinda hilarious that it's happened to you more than once temple.

I have a skinny frame, so I usually wear something like Levi 511's. They are a little tight in the crotch but they are stretchy, which is kind of nice but any sort of lighter fabrics like brown or grey outlines your dick like crazy. Good for skateboarding or riding a bike or showing off your dick I guess. I definitely prefer boxer briefs for the support and comfort. I accidentally bought some briefs, they weren't like tighty whiteys but yeah still not a fan of how they looked or felt.

Thanks very much to all who replied in this thread!

Okay, so briefs are a no-go. Thank you, DLD. By the way, DLD, I feel like I should you call Professor Salvini because of your vast knowledge in the area of PE.

And in regard to why I feel a little uncomfortable, I think it's due to my being a modest guy and not wanting to draw attention to myself. But I am coming around to the idea that women staring at my groin is inseparable from making gains in PE. I think that in time I will grow more comfortable with the increased attention from women; it just caught me off guard.

I live in the 'burbs north of Detroit. The women in the D are pretty wild, in my humble opinion.

It's comforting to read that other guys have had this issue, and to read about their reaction to it. Again, I thank you for your feedback.

John_Wayne;700105 said:

Thanks very much to all who replied in this thread!

Okay, so briefs are a no-go. Thank you, DLD. By the way, DLD, I feel like I should you call Professor Salvini because of your vast knowledge in the area of PE.

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You could call me Reverend Salvini as I am a pastor. You could call me Mike. You could also call me late for dinner But never call me after 10!

Dunno...I've never been able to tell if someone is looking down to check things out, or if they are just looking down to avoid eye contact. So many people walk with their head/eyes in their phone, or actively trying not to look at anyone else these days.

Phoenix7672;700156 said:

Dunno...I've never been able to tell if someone is looking down to check things out, or if they are just looking down to avoid eye contact. So many people walk with their head/eyes in their phone, or actively trying not to look at anyone else these days.

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If you wear an extender and it's too visible - you know when they're looking down there

Munto;700166 said:

If you wear an extender and it's too visible - you know when they're looking down there

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Again, not a bad thing. They are not going to think anything but "How fucking big is that dick!" Who, aside from us, knows about extenders? I know, for myself, prior to PE no matter how the bulge looked I never thought is was anything other than a penis. Food for thought.

Phoenix7672;700156 said:

Dunno...I've never been able to tell if someone is looking down to check things out, or if they are just looking down to avoid eye contact. So many people walk with their head/eyes in their phone, or actively trying not to look at anyone else these days.

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Or they're just scared of you because giant bulge :cool: *stroller troller*

doublelongdaddy;700175 said:

Again, not a bad thing. They are not going to think anything but "How fucking big is that dick!" Who, aside from us, knows about extenders? I know, for myself, prior to PE no matter how the bulge looked I never thought is was anything other than a penis. Food for thought.

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True!
But maybe they get suspicious when they see you without that big bulge later on?