How to be Attractive and Irresistible

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How to be Attractive and Irresistible


Self assessment.

One thing you need to do in order to get yourself ready to attract women is to take an honest inventory of yourself. Are you overweight, have skin problems, above average looking, average looking, short, tall, balding? You need to take an honest assessment of yourself so that you know which traits to capitalize on and which traits to work on in the long term so that you continuously improve your body and approach.

If you are overweight, then you need to be honest. You will need to make a mental goal to start getting in better shape for women and for yourself. Don't give me this "she should accept me as I am" deal, women will still be attracted to you if you have the charm, and RAP, but you better be able to take care of them and have the energy to keep up on dates and in bed, or they will walk!

You can still start picking them up right now; you just need to dress so that you show off your more positive traits (eyes, sense of humor, nice hair, etc). Getting into better shape and health should always be a personal goal, but that does not need to stop you from learning how to become the ultimate pick up artist!

If you are balding, too shy, too skinny, overweight, have skin problems, or are not very good looking, click on the problem (s) you have for some tips on how to overcome them in the short term and long term.



Dress For Success

Here is another issue that guys who are left drooling and at home alone often argue with - dressing for success. Listen guys, women do not want a slob. Once you hook here and have a committed relationship then you can "be yourself" but let's face it, do you want the woman who is dressed attractively with nice hair and make up, or do you want the one who is sloppy and not well kept?

Women want the same thing, an attractive (does not mean perfect body and face, just attractive) man just as men want an attractive woman. So suck it up and prepare to dress for success no matter where you go, you never know if you will see the woman of your dreams, or of your fantasies, so you’d better be prepared.



What does this mean?

1. Be clean and well groomed. Shower , have clean and trimmed fingernails. Have a nice hair cut and make sure that whatever your hair style is, it is clean, neat, and combed!

Brush your teeth, make sure they are white, and make sure you have good breath.

2. Dress for success. You need to have clothes that you wear to "go out in". Whether you are going to clubs, a wedding, a library, or even the supermarket, if you are planning on meeting a woman, or even have the remote chance of running into a woman you want, you’d better be prepared. Also, dress for the occasion; don't wear a "club" outfit to the grocery store ! Click here for specific dress codes!

Avoid this mistake!!!

Do not "wash" your going out clothes. When you invest in a nice shirt and slacks, do not put them in the washer. You should only be wearing them for the purpose of attracting women, so they should not need cleaned that often and you should also have 2-3 outfits. Take them to the CLEANERS. Have them dry cleaned, starched and pressed!

For t-shirts, jeans, and casual cloths, if they are suitable for dry cleaning do it, but for those clothes that are not, have a couple of clean, new looking t-shirts, shorts, jeans, and casual shirts/pants that you do not wear around the house or to work. You only wear them when leaving the house for shopping, studying, shooting pool, etc - basically anywhere you may meet a woman. When you get back home, take them off and put your scrub clothes on. Sounds like too much work? Well the guys who have the attractive, good woman don’t think it is too much to ask. You want woman and you will have them, if you give them what they want! If you don’t another guy will, so it is your choice!



What to wear:

You should wear different things for different occasions. Here are a few common tips.

Clubs and bars:

Nightclubs: If you are going to a nightclub with dancing, you should wear a nice pair of slacks (black is usually the best) they should fit comfortably at the waist and not be too tight throughout the leg. Make sure they are long enough that they come down over your socks and have a slight fold where they meet your shoes. If you sit down only a couple of inches of your socks should show. Better too long than too short.

Wear a button down, long sleeve shirt. Try to keep the sleeves down but if it does get too hot, make sure the shirt is loose enough to roll the sleeves neatly. The shirt should be loose fitting so you can move easily and feel comfortable. Depending on what looks the best on you, choose your color. White is always a good contrast with black pants, all black can also be attractive, and women do seem to like dark green and purple if they are silky looking. The best shirt to wear is one where the buttons are actually hidden and the collar is rounded, sort of like the "preacher" look. For some reason women love these!

Make sure your shoes and socks match your pants. Black pants - black shoes. Tan pants - tan or light brown shoes. Avoid wearing white pants to pick up women. Make sure your socks match the pants and shoes, but if you really want to impress (and you should if you are serious) wear socks that have a pattern or a little color in them. For instance if you wear a purple shirt and black pants, your socks should be black with a pattern, dots, something that is purple. Other wise, wear only black socks.

Make sure you shoes are in nice condition and already broken in. They should be clean and polished if possible. Do not wear work shoes, your picking up women clothes are only for picking up women, that is how the stay fresh and attractive.

Wear a belt - again, nice condition, should look new, and be used for dating and picking up women only. Make it match the pants.

Dive Bars and Clubs

If you are going to low class or "dive" clubs, wear jeans and a t-shirt. But still, they need to be clean, and fresh looking and the rest of your grooming and appearance needs to be in line. Don't expect a lot from these places unless you just want to get laid fast. Also, use protection!

Bars attached to Restaurants.

These are decent pick up places to find attractive and intelligent women. If you go during "happy hour" on a weekday, you should have a button down, long sleeve shirt with the top buttons undone as if you had taken a tie off. You should also wear a sports jacket or blazer, as these women are used to business and professional men who dress nice. If you are going on the weekend or later at night, you can dress a little more causal, nice slacks - following the rules of matching shoes, socks, and belts, but you probably want to wear khaki, tan, or light colors, not black. A nice polo shirt will fit in well.

Supermarkets, Libraries, Social Events

Dress for the occasion. If it is a college library, shorts or jeans and a t-shirt or causal shirt will do fine. A public library: nice shorts, slacks, and a polo style shirt, as the women here will generally be different than college students.

Going to the supermarket, jeans and a pull over shirt or even nice t-shirt look good. Nice shoes or tennis shoes as well.

All other events, social events, weddings, etc - dress for the occasion, just make sure you look sharp, and most important : your clothes fit and you feel comfortable. This makes all the difference! Remember, it is your confidence, state of mind, and presentation that will land you the women you want!

MISCELLANEOUS TIPS!

Jewelry, accessories, cologne:

Don't over do jewelry. Wearing a lot of jewelry is tacky and most woman are turned off by it. Remember you are trying to present an image of confidence, success, and suaveness. Heavy chains and lots of jewelry make a woman think you either are dirt poor and are trying to make her think you have money, or that you have money and are an egotistical asshole who spends his money as fast as he gets it.

Either way - big turn off so lighten up on the jewelry.

One plain, modest chain (can have a charm - if you are looking for a woman with values for long term prospects, a cross is a good charm to wear. Also a mascot of your favorite team can get a conversation going) The women will notice what is on your chain if she can see it, so be smart. Try to avoid rings unless it is a class ring, but that can give away your age, so be careful.

A watch is good accessory and possibly one bracelet. However, try to stick with wearing only one chain, and a watch or bracelet.

Earrings!

Ditch them or go conservative with a small hoop or stud. Contrary to what is portrayed as cool, women will wonder if you are gay if you have both ears pierced or have huge hoops or multiple peircings in one ear. Your safest choice is to go with no earrings. Take them out. Wear them once you have her, then there should be no question of your sexual orientation if you do things right!

Remember, you want to get her to look at you, not your jewelry and you want her phone number, so do not wear anything that can make her wonder about you in a negative way. Earrings, heavy jewelry, etc.

Cologne

**A note about cologne - women love a nice smelling man, period. So whether you are in clubbing clothes or jeans and a t-shirt, look nice, be clean, and throw on a little cologne - ***A little cologne.*** Women have a stronger sense of smell than men, so only put on about half of what you think you should!
 
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Your grasp of the obvious is incredible...But seriously if you want to be irresistible to women become a millionaire and buy a Ferrari or get a very expensive plastic surgery and look like Brad Pitt. No offense man, but you should look for better sources of information.

P.S I never knew public libraries have such strict dress codes....

P.P.S "Avoid wearing white pants to pick up women. " Where's the logic in that...
 
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Just like Bruce Lee's Jeet Kune Do - take what works for you and dump the rest. I would agree about working on your weaknesses though.
 
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levista said:
I would agree about working on your weaknesses though.
yea that's the truest thing in there, so if u don't want to read the whole thing, just read that.
 
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good post. some of us need reminding sometimes.
 
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Yes I Know most of this is obvious (OK all of it is obvious) but still we tend to forget the simplest things and it doesn't hurt to be reminded of it.
 
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I should have mentioned this earlier but these posts are not written by me. I am sorry i should have wrote that before i posted. I dont know who actually wrote it, Its just material that I found from years of surfing the net. I just thought it would help some people out.
 

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