How do you get the flirtatious girl?

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"How do you get the flirtatious girl?"
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You all know the good girl that is very flirtatious with everyone but doesnt give in to one guy. How do you make her want you?
 
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Dude once you try to focus all your power on getting one girl, no matter who she is, you are basically fucked....Anyways you didn't give much info on the background...I mean how do you know this flirtacious girl because that does make a difference

But in the interest of theoretical rambling (and because I've had too much caffeine) here is my experience....

The best way to create a connection with any girl is to get into her peer group or social group....that means that you should get yourself into her life in one way or another....then attract her by the same means that others have posted about....BE ATTRACTIVE...check out other posts for more info or go to www.fastseduction.com

Now I know what you mean about the flirtacious girl....but you gotta realize that you will encounter resistance from every type of girl at some point...I mean if that were not the case every girl would be fucking every guy they came into contact with 24/7 and human life on Earth would end...lol....so some girls give more resistance up front and others are very open and sexual up front but can become a problem later and flake on you....

Understanding the girl's type and trying to game her depending on type can be useful and effective but in this case fliracious is too broad....do you mean party type girl or just friendly....anyways BE COOL AND ATTRACTIVE is the best persona to give off....also distinguish yourself from other guys she flirts with....either don't flirt back or change the type of flirting she is giving you....so if she is flirting all sexual you would still be playful back but in a non-sexual type of way.....ex: she says something spunky and sexual about the two of you ....you say: "you know usually I'd go for a girl like you but I don't know there's something strange about you........[Insert whatever you want to bust on her about]" deliver it playfully you are still flirting but your not acting all horny and trying to bone her right there.....

Think of the flirty girl as a girl that is testing guys by flirting with them....she wants to flirt with guys to see how they will repond......pass this test by not biting on all the sexual talk and distinguishing yourself from the other losers who would go all gaga over her immediately and you are on the right track.....any questions ask away



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Sorry for not having a background of what she was like i was in a hurry. But anyways shes the type that will rub/stroke the back of your head and your leg, touch your side, puts her hands up to hold your hands also, throw in comments that are sexual but she does this with other guys in the same way. For example one night we hung out at my house with some of my friends and some of her friends, she was exactly the way i described. One of my friends did what you said not to, flirt in a sexual way, anyway I'm looking for a job and might work where she is because they are hiring. i figured this would be a good way to get to know her better, I have only chilled with her two times.
 
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OK....the extra info is helpful....maybe I'm just a wild, savage animal but my idea is that once you have isolated the girls to your place it is now party time...

Realistically why would a girl or group of girls even bother going back to your place....one of two reasons either they are into you and want you to advance it....or they are not into you and feel safe around you and want to just chill and be friends....and if you are gaming them it will because of the first reason......its up to you to force the issue and decide what you want....(by force the issue I don't mean anything without consent...I mean continue to advance the pick-up)

As far as the job situation goes it is not be necessary to work with her...but it really can't hurt as long as you game her always......what is necessary is to work on attracting her so return to my previous post and think about why she is flirting and how you can distinguish yourself...be playful, funny, and if she is all touchy feely tell her "Hands off the Merchandise" in a playful way....[Credit for that goes to Tyler Durden from fastseduction]....what you are doing here is showing her that you are not all crazy about any girl just because she is flirty and touchy....instead you are cool and collected and look for other qualities in girls....k...got it....don't verbalize this idea demonstrate it by these types of comments and your body language and attitude....she will pick up on it...its like the idea that it is much better to have girls come up to you and give you a hug or kiss in front of your target rather than have you tell your target..."hey babe...I get alot of girls"....telling her is lame but having her see it be your actions and what is happening is GOLDEN

I'm not sure what happened back at your place but did your friend hook up with her? it could be that you guys were being Lame and she was trying to spice things up....don't expect girls to take the initiative because they won't....and when they do from my experience it has always been because I set it up that way....

Here is the drill with groups of guys and girls trying to connect...in many cases it really is an all or nothing endeavor....either everyone pairs off or no-one does...this is because girls have an Anti-Slut Defence and do not want to look slutty IN FRONT OF their friends....so if their friends are partying too its all good they will be ready to go but if her friends are not it could be a NO GO...so you need to isolate the girl you want and if your friends are not good with women you need to know when to seperate from them to get your girl....

Dude go on fastseduction.com and start to learn the ropes....you won't regret it for a second....go to the archives for Mystery and Tyler Durden....

Gotta run but if you have more questions ask away....

Big picture is play the game with her....forget what everyone else is doing....game her with the attitude I described and think of the whole thing as practice....who cares if you don't get her....but if you learn something then the next time a girl comes around it will be better and before long you will be unstoppable...


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