Help with a chick

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I got this girl I really like. Her boyfriend treats her like ass. The whole thing is, she is really into him casue he is latin. I am greek, but am causcasion. She asked me to go party with her the other night. I got all dressed up, brough the Supra out and washed and waxed it. And then she did not end up calling. The next day she said her and her girlfreind did not end up doing anything. I know she likes me but I just dont know how to move in on her.

I see her at my tanning salon anytime I want, she works everyday. The day she asked me to come out and party with her, she was really flirting with me and look at my crotch and giving a blow job to a pen, right infront of me? She kept on asking me "What are you doing tonight" the famous pick up line, then she busted out with "me and her are going out you should come with us" her freind that works there, she is hot to. WTF should I do? Help!
 

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Ignore her for a bit. Tease with heavy flirting with lots of kino. DON'T be readily available to her. In other words try to be unreachable at times. If she keeps up with the shit just next her. There are many fine women out there, why kill yourself over one?
 
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What Gardenier said, exactly so. Recognize she is playing you. Enjoy the game, and turn the tables. Why not see if you can get her to set you up with her friend. Tell her you really like the friend, and ask for her help. That should drive her crazy, and at the same time you might double your score. If she asks why her friend and not her, tell her she has a boyfriend and you would never want to come between them. That should drive her even more crazy. Have fun, and tease the hell out of her. Forget trying to get into her pants and make your goal driving her insane. It will be a lot more fun.

Oh, and for Gods sakes, if a girl ever asks what are you doing tonight - never - never - say "nothing". Say, "I'm busy tonight, why do you ask?" If she presses you - ignore her. If you just have to answer with something - make up something, anything. Have a stock answer if you must. But try to make it somewhat interesting, and be 100% believable. Best is to tell her you are meeting a blind date tonight, why do you ask? (Side note: I have used the blind date ruse to spectacular effect on a few occasions. The girls want to know where I am supposed to meet the blind date, and I tell them some close-by restaurant. I get a yellow rose, and go to the restaurant at the appointed time as if I actually was meeting a blind date. If the girl I am working on is really interested, she will just "happen" to show up, and find that I have been stood up. She then makes her move, and I get lucky. I have picked up waitresses this way too, by staying until closing time "just in case" and working them in the meantime. You know, this belongs in Pirate 101!)

Never, never be available on short notice for a girl you are working. What are you doing tonight? I'm busy. Want to do something tomorrow? No, I can't - perhaps next week? Like Gardenier said, make her chase you. The more you tease and run away, the more she will chase you. And the more fun you will have stringing her along...
 

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The Pirate has spoken. I hope you took note this guy is golden!
 

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Hell ya thanks so much man, this is awesome! You rock!
 

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I don't bring a massive amount of expertise on playing these mind games, but here's a thought. Tell her you just went out with someone that seems cool, seems REALLY into you, but you're just not sure about it.

This is the thought you're trying to convey--"She's a nice girl and, while she's not ideal, I don't have any other prospects in my life right now". Of course, you don't say that, but it's the message you want to send to her subconscious. The hope is that her thought will be "Well, if he is not really crazy about her, but still going out, I still have an opportunity to get into the picture."

Maybe my idea sucks. As I said, I'm not good with the seduction/head games shit. The only thing I've mastered is being blunt and brutally honest. So, maybe some of you experts can critique my above efforts.
 
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Great advice across the boards....reread Pirate's advice...

The advice on not being availiable on short notice is GOLDEN....I just broke that rule right this second on a phone call from a hottie I am working....but its ok because I have already attracted her enough where is doesn't matter.....

But when girls ask me what I am doing later I like to jump into talking about WE.....if I don't use the I'm already busy type of response

So I'd say "WE are all going to go.........[fill in the blank]..."

make it sound fun and exciting....and of course the best response is to have already planned on doing something fun and exciting because you have a great lifestyle....and then giving her a chance to join you.....

Or say "what did you have in mind?" like if the girls are trying to pick you up.......

At any rate keep up the good vibe with the girls and next time you are face to face in a similar situation make SOLID PLANS right there.....get directions to her house and tell her you'll pick her up at whatever time or make plans to meet somewhere specific...SHe sounds like a party girl to me....so PARTY with her....RIGHT THEN...those types of girls tend to flake if you give them too much wiggle room so make solid plans right then and there.....got it....great.... :)

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Basically, what PirateSteve and I were getting at is the concept of scarcity and taking away the offer. This is an age-old sales tool that salesmen live and die buy. Let's compare it to car sales for illustration purposes.

Pirate's idea is you make her think that there are other people scheduled to come and look at the car. You don't have time for her, because you have other prospects you are busy attending to. This can leave her thinking "There are other people interested in this deal, so it must be good. I had better get an opportunity set-up right away if I think I want any chance at this."

Still using the car sales analogy, my idea doesn't shut her off as much, but says to her "I guess you don't want to this car. Okay, I'm going to go talk to the other people that are interested." The idea is to take a few steps away and have her chasing you, saying "But wait.....".
 
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I know what you guys are saying but these are party girls....so they are like Excitement junkies....they will do whatever is the most exciting thing to do at that time because they really live in the moment....party girls are fun so party with them but trust me you don't really want them as girlfriends....so I'd not play these elaborate games with them because once you are not right in front of them they will totally forget about you once the next exciting thing comes along....


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I say be confident in yourself, don`t act anxious.be yourself You`re better than her boyfriend
She thinks that too.

Good luck!
 
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You got a camera phone supra?? I wanna see this "giving the pen oral sex" thing...!! Help out a guy in a dry spell man! :D.

I say get her to set you up with her friend...or just go right ahead and ask her friend out. Fuck the hell out of her friend....then, her friend...if she's the right type of young woman in our generation will tell this girl you like how great you are "in bed" ....she'll cave dude. That is if she really wants to get with you.
 

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Thats some great advice SWM

Steve, I am still testing the water with her, will fill yall in! Thx for everything.
 
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Supra, just for the record, I would do exactly as Still suggests! Bang her friend but good. Even if it doesn't drive her insane with desire you will have some nasty sex (but it will drive her wild, so you get twice the nasty sex). And do take that camera phone...
 

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Originally posted by Supra
Steve, I am still testing the water with her, will fill yall in!
Hey, if you get a chance to do her, we'll forgive you for the post swearing off sex for a year.
 
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What? Swearing off sex for a year? Some crazy Marine thing no doubt. I will have to go find this thread. Damn crazy Marines...
 
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Fuck that if i were you i would have hit it and balled out a long time a go. You gotta act as if your THE SHIT! you gotta act popular, busy and most importantly you gotta act like there are other chicks in your life. If you game right, then what i described to you will soon be the truth and you wont have to act it out.

Most people forget another important thing. BODY LANGUAGE!!!!

Never face this chick completely or look her straight in the eye for over 1 sec unless you're in the rapport stage of the seduction. The rapport stage is when you have her isolated and things are a bit toned down and you have kissed. Remember if you keep staring at her she's gonna know you think she's awesome, and you have to convey that she's just another girl from the block.

Oh and please dont do the romantic shit like pay for her dinner or movie ticket, or buying flowers. it'll make you look like shit. Even though she might say your sweet what she really means is "thanks a lot but we aint fucking"

Good luck bro! and dont slip into one-itis!
 
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Hey Supy, If those ideas dont work Just drop you pants. I bet she drops just as fast!! I wonder if they have cameras set up in the tanning rooms?

I gotta get you strapped with the "cock cam" and we can stream it through the MOS site this is gonna be one to remember!!! A day in the life of Supra! It will be better than all the reality shows
 

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