Help, i have a serious problem

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hello, im new here and plan on startin some routines. anyway i have sexual problem, when im having sex i can never climax while intercourse, i have to usually have the women jerk me off for me to ejaculate. I Do masterbate daily so maybe that has something to do with it. I want to be able to expirence a orgasm while ahving sex rather than being jacked off. Any Tips orhelp yoo can give me?
 
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Welcome daddylongstrok. I have had that exact "problem" for a good number of years. I can't imagine it is due to masturbation. Mine is due to an injury that caused a lot of head pain, which distracts me from the sensations of sex just enough to make it difficult.

I still have the problem fairly regularly (say about 1 out of three times), but not all the time like a few years back. I have found that I need to concentrate just on the feeling in my dick during sex, and completely shut the rest of the world out. That is most successful for me.

But I would add, I have no real difficulty jerking off to finish, and the girls love to either participate or just watch. Many love the challenge of getting me to come, some get bored after too long, I just play it by ear and take over when they get tired or frustrated. I really don't see it as a "problem".

I should mention that many medications will cause this, so will high blood pressure, as will chronic pain. I have more difficulty when screwing less pretty girls than when with 10's, so the visual stimulation must be a factor too. Screwing the boobs tends to give more direct stimulation, so I like to finish up with that sometimes.

Also, you might try anal sex more. Like the boobs, I find greatly increased physical stimulation there and rarely have difficulty completing my mission between the cheeks (although I still usually pull it out and stick in their mouths to come because I am an evil Pirate!)
 

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Originally posted by PirateSteve
Welcome daddylongstrok. I have had that exact "problem" for a good number of years. I can't imagine it is due to masturbation. Mine is due to an injury that caused a lot of head pain, which distracts me from the sensations of sex just enough to make it difficult.

I still have the problem fairly regularly (say about 1 out of three times), but not all the time like a few years back. I have found that I need to concentrate just on the feeling in my dick during sex, and completely shut the rest of the world out. That is most successful for me.

But I would add, I have no real difficulty jerking off to finish, and the girls love to either participate or just watch. Many love the challenge of getting me to come, some get bored after too long, I just play it by ear and take over when they get tired or frustrated. I really don't see it as a "problem".

I should mention that many medications will cause this, so will high blood pressure, as will chronic pain. I have more difficulty when screwing less pretty girls than when with 10's, so the visual stimulation must be a factor too. Screwing the boobs tends to give more direct stimulation, so I like to finish up with that sometimes.

Also, you might try anal sex more. Like the boobs, I find greatly increased physical stimulation there and rarely have difficulty completing my mission between the cheeks (although I still usually pull it out and stick in their mouths to come because I am an evil Pirate!)

that's a very good tip. however i didn't go down the ol hershy highway, it just doesn't appeal to me all that much. my medication also does a number on my sex stuff, recently i just got over the labido problem, i'm back to my old self again. i'm now making suggestions to my woman asking her to do thing, like do a little strip tease before sex, to give me head and then get on top of me to let me finish off inside her...that type of thing. and those things get me so worked up that i'm the fuckin sears tower before she even gets on top of me. then when i'm actually inside her, i just concentrate on the feeling of her around me, and try to hear the way she breaths and moans and how i breath and how she sqweezes around me and mounts me. i try to stay in that type of sexual zone and block the world around me. i just don't give a fuck if someone hears or if there is even a fuckin explosion outside, i just wanna get off when i wanna get off. and if you're really desperate to finish it, just grab her by the hips and fuck her hard, if she's on top, lift up her hips and push up into her pussy and push her hips down at each thrust. that gets me squirtin like a mother fucker

and for the extreme visual i just flip it oer to doggy style and spread her ass so i can see the nice view of her asshole and my dick going into her pussy (i'm a very visual person) and then i just pull her ass towards me as i thrust into her. that sends both her and i into a massive orgasm.

that's just a couple of suggestions for ya
 

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I suffer from this problem from time to time. I don't know what causes it because it's definitely not from being unattracted to my partner. But it's funny that PirateSteve mentioned titty-fucking and daddylongstroke mentioned getting whacked off, because whenever I had trouble cumming, those were two of the three best options for me in making sure I busted my nut. The third option being switching positions from whatever it was to doing it doggystyle. I love ass, and that position will work for me most of the time, plus I get greater stimulation in that position... it just rubs my dick the right way.

My ex girlfriend has big tits, and titty-fucking her was sooo nice. It's funny how the stimulation from tit-sex is much more subtle than vaginal intercourse, yet when I was having trouble cumming from her pussy, her tits would always get me off. It's funny how sometimes less stimulation can work better than more. A handjob would work too...her hand wrapped around my meat always did the trick.

When you're having trouble climaxing, you instinctively wanna just pound her harder, but ironically, that will only make your dick more numb to it. Sometimes you just gotta slow it down...grind it in and out, and maybe have her whisper dirty things into your ear. My girl was real quiet in bed all the time. She would only moan when she's cumming. I got so used to her being silent that when she would start talking dirty, or moaning a lot, I'd get the urge to bust almost immediately.
 

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