Have you guys noticed this?

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Regardless of where you measure on the ruler, if you are/were dissatisfied with your penile size, did women seem more intimidating/alluring to you? Perhaps they seemed more exotic or forbidding if you believed – even wrongly – that you could not satisfy them? Sort of the “She’s-out-of-my-league” syndrome.
But as your unit increases in majesty, the women tend to not seem perched out of reach. In other words, once you’re confident that you’re “packing,” and can lay some serious lumber to their pelvis, that aspect of the sexual encounter (penis size) takes on less significance – and you can devote your time & energy to other aspects of relationships.
I noticed that I felt this to a degree when I was a young guy, but even more so when I was about 37 and my unit had lost 3/8” size and was not getting rock-hard anymore. Of course, I felt awful about myself, and in doing so I believe that I envisioned attractive women to be out of my reach – or that potential encounters with such women posed the risks of disappointment/embarrassment, therefore these women seemed somewhat forbidding, unforgiving, etc – thereby elevating them in “value.” And their sexual histories probably somewhat distressing – the fear of “measuring up” to their past fucks. I imagine my views of women were distorted by my own self-contempt. The question of sex seemed “nastier,” more “shameful,” etc. Perhaps tinged with humiliation.
I have a theory that guys who are small – or consider themselves as such – probably have far more richly elaborate fantasy lives. They tend to be the “naughtier,” more “perverted” fellows…locked away in their dark, smelly bedrooms…bizarre porn spread out before them as they abuse their twitching little nubs. These are probably the guys who pay hookers to fart in their faces and piss on them, the guys who suck filthy toes or have women ridicule them to orgasm.
On the other hand, the few truly hung fellows I’ve known seldom ever spoke of sex or how they traumatized women’s pelvii. And, curiously enough, as my own unit has become more “accepted” by me than it ever was, I tend to think less about sex or stare so much at hotties – and this is clearly not due to diminished sexual drive, erectile problems or loss of sensitivity. Sex is physically better than ever for me & my wife – it just no longer holds any distressing connotations or “cosmic significance” for me, nor is it “forbidden fruit” (“forbidden” out of shame or lack of self-confidence, etc.).
In short, when I was unhappy with my cock, sex seemed like a huge, nasty deal. Now that I’m much happier about my unit, sex doesn’t seem such a big deal anymore, nor am I intimidated or made uncomfortable by any woman.
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Originally posted by quijjiboo
very interesting post!
I would imagine a man that you described that Penis Enlargement'd and became as big as he fantasized would become a pretty sex-crazed person, given that he probably still has some of those psycho-problems...
True.
And I guess what I’m trying to say is that if a man lacks confidence “down there,” he might feel like a shifty little thief who is “taking” from the women – and giving little in return. This can make the women seem “bigger” than he is. But the lucky guys with the dangling crotch monsters know that they are giving as much pleasure as they are getting – if not more. This gives a sense of personal empowerment, relieving the sexual experience of its insecurities.
 

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