Give her Multiple Orgasms -- Whats the secret

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I hear about all these badasses here....and I will be the first to admit I am a beginner with giving HER the big O or several O's

Most of the time when I am with chicks I just care about myself getting off... never concerned about if the cum or not. Chicks dont complain, because I last a long time.

Now i am with this new GF who is the greatest. She is shy, and wont talk about sex or orgasms much.
For me to open up the subject of what she likes to do in bed, how she like to be fucked, how she gets orgasms easily, etc, I would have to give at least one or several O's to her.

So i need help.....whats the secret......Is it that guy X finds a sex position that girl Y is sensitive to, and just fucks her like that for a long time? Or do you have to switch stuff up in the same night or what. Whats the diffence between one O and several O's in the same night?

Also, anyone comment on clitoral vs. GSPOT vs. Cul-De-Sac orgasms?

Thanks guys
 
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Hummmm, I had a weird experience today with my new girlfriend. Basically, it was her on her back and I was on my knees straight up (kinda like hitting at a 90 degree angle missionary style), and anyways she clamped down on my unit and I just kept wiggling it in there and she just kept having O after O after O. My unit is a bit desensitized at the head from hanging at the moment so I was not sure if I had hit the CDS or not, but judging by her reactions I must have been doing something right.

In the past, pre-Penis Enlargement my 5 incher with sub 4.5 girth would literally get ejected out of my ex-GF. I always thought it was just that she had insanely strong uterine muscles (maybe she does) but later on after reading about Penis Enlargement, it was really just that I didn't have a strong enough erection and I was not going deep enough to get locked in there kinda like how when dogs have sex they create a tie where the male dog is locked in the female dog for upwards of half an hour (removing the tie can injure or kill both dogs so if an accidental breeding occurs you gotta get ice or something like that to remove the doggie erection).

Anyways, with my new GF I did eventually get ejected once when I tried to stroke deep in the middle of her having a massive contraction (even though I am around 7.5 in length now and a little over 5 in girth), but learned at that point it was better just to keep it in there and pump with short quick strokes of about half an inch and she just kept going and going and going. I know how to hit the G-Spot in this position, but I think I may have actually hit her sweet spot and it was definitely something else. Kinda like hitting an orgasm button in a woman if you ask me.

Well, she is a great gal for a ton of reasons (blah, blah, blah, you all get the sappy points so I won't bore you with them), but until today I just never had an experience like that before where I felt I had so much power and control while in bed. Yah there is a chance she could of faked it, but she would of had to have amazing uterine muscle control and no I don't think she was because I was at a point where I could basically make her cum on demand once the first O came.

So, my theory on getting a normal gal into the multiple orgasms mode based on my experience and talking to other female friends or exes in the past is:

(1) Unless she is just always horny and easy to please and is the pure definition of a nymphomaniac, mood and foreplay matters a lot in working her up to being ready for multiple orgasms. That extra 20-30 minutes of kissing and caressing pays off in a big way later on because it literally gets her juices flowing and gets her uterine muscles all warmed up. Plus, it gets tortures her brain with tension being built up throughout her body as she craves more and more and more. Orgasms in men and women are about creating physical tension and then releasing the tension so the more tension you can create through teasing and foreplay, the bigger and more orgasms she is going to have (this is for normal women not nymphos who can cum if the wind goes under their skirt in the right way).

(2) An ex-GF of mine told me she could cum from intercourse only after having a clitoral orgasm first. I guess that was just her, but an orgasm from cunnilingus is good for prepping her from penetration. If you plan on penetrating her, don't use any fingers because you don't want to desensitize her on the inside, just use whatever it takes to give her a clitoral orgasm even though fingering the G-spot can be tempting. Many women after having a clitoral orgasm will be very sensitive on their clitoris which means that if you bang her the right way with your pelvis in a grinding motion in missionary position or else slap her with your balls in doggie-style position, you can hit her now very sensitive clitoris for extra stimulation. Anyways, if you want to use your fingers, then save that for another time when you don't plan on doing penetration or maybe go for her G-spot as a surprise when you don't have enough time to get her all worked up for an orgasm from penetration (fingers to the G-spot plus cunnilingus is probably the fastest way to get a gal off if you ask me and great for quickies).

(3) Having an adequately sized penis and knowing how to use it. Unless you can hit her deep enough you just are not going to be hitting that special spot I think I may have hit for the first time ever today (for whatever reason I was really horny and when I went to the bathroom and looked in the mirror I said "oh shit" because my unit was so much larger than usual). I am still not done with Penis Enlargement but I am almost 99.9999% certain that had I not Penis Enlargement'ed the last 7-8 months she would not of enjoyed sex much if at all because unlike my last GF who could execute a choke hold on my penis and who was not that deep (let me put it this way I could practically finger her CDS), this gal was of normal proportions and well at 5 inches long and 4.5 or less girth I was just not gonna get the job done with that small a tool.


So in summary, the key to successful multiple orgasms aside from the lady having normally functional equipment downstairs is mood, foreplay, and size/technique. Getting a woman off with a quickie is not that hard for me because I know how to do it easily with oral sex, but with intercourse patience certainly is a virtue if you ask me if you want her to suBathmateit her entire body over to you for complete and total control which is about as intimate as you can get in life.
 
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MCTFB is on the nose with this one. Although I believe that women who have "16 orgasms in 1 hour" are about 99% faking bitches, it is possible to make your gal cum several times using his guide. I have made my wife cum 3 times before, once by the clit and twice vaginally. She always cums at least once, tho. About your GF, just take it slow and don't pressure her about it. You'd rather have her cum for real than fake it to please you, wouldn't you? More than anything, women have to feel relaxed and trusting with their men before they will cut loose.
 
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The secret? One word:
Dedication :)
HangUp
 
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MCTFB as previously said made some key points that will send you on your way.
i couldnt be bothered to read it all cause im just a bit lazy for that.lol

anyhow,once you finally decide you wanna please instead of being pleased you are well on your way to sending your girl into orbit my friend.

foreplay is huge just as said before.i find performing oral sex and using the tease factor and leading her to the brink then easing off and doing that again helps build that tension that was also mentioned earlier.

youve got to find your own style obviously but i suggest to pay attention to your girls face as you give oral or anything else pleasing to her.
i can tell when a girl is about to cum just by her eyes and facial expressions and that for me is key to know what i should be doing at any given time.
if you just pay attention to her when youre having sex this stuff will come to you within hardly no time.

oh and another side note,you should always strive to please your partner first and as often as you can.once you fall into this habit you will begin to crave hearing her squeal.lol
and as the saying goes,what goes around,comes around!

a good woman will do almost anything you want after you show her this level of passion and desire.trust me,been there many many times
 
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How do I know the girl have an orgasm? Moaning is not she is in orgasm? Please explain, thankkyou very much.

SM
 
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if im on top then i just look at her face and her eyes get real wide then she has a huge smile after gettin one. If she's on top, she slows down a lot and kinda collapses on me for about 15 seconds lol. her body shakes when she gets one too.
 

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my secret, it's not just in the thrusts it's how you hold her. see for me, missionary is the best. lets me control how deep i want it in there and how fast. i always have my arms under her so my body is pulled tight to her. this way when i move up and down my chest is rubbing her tits and i make sure to keep my dick about half way in at all times. when i really want her to cum i put all of it in there, making sure to hold her tighter. this usually makes her say "oh god" followed by loud moans and then (lately) a huge 30 second orgasm resulting in a drenched bed.
 
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Thank you very much for sharing your experience to me. These really help me to know, I appreciate it.

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This is a really good thread.

I'd say anyone else who has anything to chime in with post away. I am still relatively new at it all, so any reading for me is good reading. ;)
 
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Kong has hit the nail on the head,TRUST is the most important factor.There are times when my wife cums after about three thrusts(I feel the contractions)Communication with your partner is also very important.Also remember that the more you please her the more she wants to please you.always let her know what feels good for you and encourage her to let you know what feels good to her.
 

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