Fridgidity and the Pill

inge de silva

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My girlfriend started a cycle of the contraceptive pill for medical reasons, she has changed her bigtime. She has gone from little to absolutely zero sex drive, and whats more, she now hates me touching her stomach, thighs, breasts or neck, always pushing my hand away I find it impossible to be intimate when I can't even touch her skin.

The worst thing is, she goes on like nothing is happenening.

Is there something I can do? I love her to death but not being able be intimate with her kills me :(

Is it the pill, or some other hidden factor?
 

Chasing8

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inge de silva said:
My girlfriend started a cycle of the contraceptive pill for medical reasons, she has changed her bigtime. She has gone from little to absolutely zero sex drive, and whats more, she now hates me touching her stomach, thighs, breasts or neck, always pushing my hand away I find it impossible to be intimate when I can't even touch her skin.

The worst thing is, she goes on like nothing is happenening.

Is there something I can do? I love her to death but not being able be intimate with her kills me :(

Is it the pill, or some other hidden factor?
The same thing happened to me. After a few months, she went back to normal. It is a storm. Get down low and hold on tight.
 
actually my girl went on the pill in around november. I wouldnt say i saw all the things u said but she used to be an animal and now her sex drive is much much lower......but anyway it hasnt gotten any better. but yea every time i talk to her about it she does the same shit like shes not even aware that its happeneing...oh well...my best advise just find somethin on the side
 
Been married 10 years to the same woman. They go through periods of being super horny sluts to periods of "oh my god don't touch me!" If you love her, learn to deal with it and relieve yourself discretely. If you're just playing around with her, then, yeah, get some on the side. But don't cheat if you really love her. They can't help their hormones. And they will never trust you again if they found out you cheated.
 
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TheExecutioner

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kong1971 said:
Been married 10 years to the same woman. They go through periods of being super horny sluts to periods of "oh my god don't touch me!" If you love her, learn to deal with it and relieve yourself discretely. If you're just playing around with her, then, yeah, get some on the side. But don't cheat if you really love her. They can't help their hormones. And they will never trust you again if they found out you cheated.
Couldnt of said that better myself Kong :)
 

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