fleshlight

I know there are a few post about the FleshLight but i want to take this one in a different direction.

I ordered 3 FleshLight from their website because they have a buy 2 get 1 free deal going on. I received them today and let me tell you wow! Just Freaking wow. I will probably never need a girl again.

the main reason i was even looking was to find a tool to help increase stamina. I got the wonder wave vortex and speed bump. I have always been able to last a few min anyways while having sex but with the wonder wave i was ready to blow in less than 30 seconds! Wow these things are good.

Anyways has anyone used these to build stamina? if so what was the routine? I just edged for about 5 min and then blew my load. It was pretty good. I am going to try to get up to like 5 min of steady pumping with it.

Just keep your kegeling levels high and you should be hard for as long as you want. Try to learn to have an orgasm without ejaculating. That's the way to go. Read through the thread of that and the kegaling and apply while using the FleshLight. I went from 5 min. to over an hour just by jelqing and kegeling for a year, so what your doing should shorten that considerably. Good luck man.

Do your kegels, but NEVER during the pumping. flexing of your pelvis floor muscles primarily trigger ejaculation. When you use your FL, concentrate on relaxing not only your pelvic floor muscles, but your glutes as well. Tension = quicker ejaculation. If you feel the need to nut, slow down or stop and try again.

I have a stamina training unit. I can row dog it for like 15-20 minutes without stopping. That's not to say it's easy lol. You'll get the hang of it. The worst thing that can happen is that you nut it in....you won't get it pregnant and it will keep its lips closed. And practice with a condom on, if that helps. I'm sure you wear a condom when you fuck, so that will help out.

I was gonna get the stu but got the others instead so i could have a variety. The good thing is i love to practice now. I mean using a hand is ok but this is just the real thing except no bitching when you don't pull out and no waited time on foreplay. Although you gotta clean it instead of just sending a girl to the bathroom.

I got a stu, do you guys buy lube? I make my own, check out xanthan gum +water, it is dirt cheap and last a long time. I also use it for jelqing and pump sealing .

I never thought of trying it with a condom on, interesting.. How do you guys do yours? do you guys mount it to a table or anything? I just sit at my desk and use my hand on it while watching ���� or whatever..

skarmclops;475125 said:

Do your kegels, but NEVER during the pumping. flexing of your pelvis floor muscles primarily trigger ejaculation. When you use your FL, concentrate on relaxing not only your pelvic floor muscles, but your glutes as well. Tension = quicker ejaculation. If you feel the need to nut, slow down or stop and try again.

I have a stamina training unit. I can row dog it for like 15-20 minutes without stopping. That's not to say it's easy lol. You'll get the hang of it. The worst thing that can happen is that you nut it in....you won't get it pregnant and it will keep its lips closed. And practice with a condom on, if that helps. I'm sure you wear a condom when you fuck, so that will help out.

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Yeah, the kegels are the base of it all!

Ordered some too with the aim to have the power to hammer away for 10 -15 minutes without having to think about busting a nut.

Would you say your training with it upped your stamina to last with pussy or masturbating by hand longer?

Did you just tried to get further and further with time and intensity with the FleshLight?

Well, the STU doesn't just train one to last longer. Afterall, it's just some silicon sleeve that has inner beads in it that feels pretty good lol. You just have to concentrate and relax those pelvis floor muscles. Your dick will get more used to the sensation. I remember when I first used the STU I would nut fairly quickly and my dick would become ultra sensitive.

As far as pussy goes....dunno. I'm a virgin here, . But that is actually one reason I chose the STU, which is touted as the most intense sleeve. I can practice in different positions and pretend I'm fucking some pussy, something that my hands do not even come close too. and hand...I have never wanked off since. But I did progress in time using my STU, though.

And finally for intensity, if you meant the suction cap I don't really use it. I might close it a little bit but anymore just feels odd and I can't pump at my own speed when there is no suction.

dickerschwanz;475148 said:

Yeah, the kegels are the base of it all!

Ordered some too with the aim to have the power to hammer away for 10 -15 minutes without having to think about busting a nut.

Would you say your training with it upped your stamina to last with pussy or masturbating by hand longer?

Did you just tried to get further and further with time and intensity with the FleshLight?

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Its better than pussy! As far as feeling goes. There is alot more involved with sex that makes it different still but as far as just feeling....FleshLight hands down

i like to use different positions with it. Between the sofa cushions for doggie. Tucked under a few pillows for missionary. Its good to just lay back and use.

I can focus on deep breathing that seems to help alot. Premature ejaculation is all mental. You just have tp re program your thoughts from cumming as quickly as possible to not. This just makes it easy to practice

I have an STU that I use may be once a week for edging. Now I can usually go 15-20mins - I think my record is 35mins or something. At the start of my Penis Enlargement journey I was luck if I got to 5. I was thinking of buying some new inserts because my one is getting a bit old now and is starting to get these black spots on it. But I have to spend money on a pump first

If it's the Bathmate THARROS, it'll be a little while but not long to save up for it. Or, you can get one off ebay for 70+free shipping. That's where I got mine and still use it after a year. Just keep clean and it'll last for a long time. Use the STU for a few minutes, throw the pump on for five minutes, and keep switching back and forth. Your girth will change making it tighter and therefore more feeling to increase the intensity that you have to overcome. Just a little more of a challenge. Good luck guys.

runningignus;475111 said:

Just keep your kegeling levels high and you should be hard for as long as you want. Try to learn to have an orgasm without ejaculating. That's the way to go. Read through the thread of that and the kegaling and apply while using the FleshLight. I went from 5 min. to over an hour just by jelqing and kegeling for a year, so what your doing should shorten that considerably. Good luck man.

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How can I have an orgasm without ejaculation ?
And does this mean I can orgasm with major ejaculation ?

I don't know what you guys are talking about. Relaxing your pelvic floor muscles when I have sex I pretty much hold my kegal the whole time and I ussually last an hour, my record was 5 hours of straight fucking I dead after though haha my ribs and abs were sore for like 3 days

runningignus;475303 said:

If it's the Bathmate THARROS, it'll be a little while but not long to save up for it. Or, you can get one off ebay for 70+free shipping. That's where I got mine and still use it after a year. Just keep clean and it'll last for a long time. Use the STU for a few minutes, throw the pump on for five minutes, and keep switching back and forth. Your girth will change making it tighter and therefore more feeling to increase the intensity that you have to overcome. Just a little more of a challenge. Good luck guys.

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thats gold
I got mine now too. misty stone as i like em with a bit of teint
I do combine it with my workouts. clamp at the base and flesh over it. does work the dick really hard.

Learn to use the kegels to your advantage. You learn what your body is gonna do and you can control it. If you pay close attention when you masturbate, there is a slight delay between the time you start kegeling uncontrollably and then ejaculate. You can hold off the ejaculate and still have the orgasm. You'll slightly lose a bit of erection but it comes right back after a minute or two. Same thing if you kegel hard or reverse kegel when you're about to come, you stop from ejaculating. When I do it that way, my penis feels like it's numb and goes down a bit but it gets hard again. I'm able to last anywhere from 30 min. to over an hour. It took me a year to get that way but I like being able to cum when I want. Just gotta kegel as much as you can all day and learn when to kegel at ejaculation time to hold it back.