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I believe we are all unhealthily fixated on our penises. Don't take that as an insult, it's just a conclusion I have reached.

However, can we be blamed? I for one have not met a single person who claims to have less than 7". What's more, the penises I have seen have been enormous. I have seen people measure in front of me, 7, 8, 9 inches and 5.5 inches or more in girth. Growing up has been difficult. Although one can rationally be comfortable with one's penis size, the irrational part of your brain becomes fixated and it is difficult to let go. I see my penis in the mirror or in the shower, and I impulsively measure with the hope of seeing some sort of gain. I have abandoned any attempt to improve my size as I felt that regardless of any real-time gains that I achieved I would never be satisfied.

My on-off partner says 'you are good' or 'you have nothing to worry about' and then at other points mentions that her ex had a 6 inch girth and it 'feels amazing'. The gap between good and amazing is like a yawning cavern. My measurements are far from shameful, 6" length, 4.65" girth. Many men would kill for the safety net of 'average'. But what are the connotations of average? Boring, normal, adequate, acceptable, 'good', fine and okay.

This is where the problem lies. I'm sure you've all reached this conclusion yourselves. The desire to be outstanding, unique, perfect, lies in all walks of life. In my case, I am the strongest out of my close peer group whilst also being the most academically successful by far. This is overridden by the penis issue. If one is not intelligent, then the chances are that intelligence is not an issue, as they are too stupid to know of its merits. If one is not strong, they can steer clear of strenuous exercise or simply lie about their achievements. The penis issue haunts men in a way no other attribute can. If one is genuinely small to the point of usability, then that is a size issue. That size issue will infect every other walk of life; confidence will suffer, self esteem will suffer, the person may retreat and 'curl up' into themselves and become a devout introvert. However, even a usable, normal size can cause these effects depending on the stimuli around you. Me, having seen many large penises in person is stuck with a feeling of injustice; why me? why couldn't I have this genetic advantage as well?

Of course this is down to greed, which is a natural attribute of humans. The problem is that the issue is unshakable. Logic dictates the people whose penises I have seen showed them BECAUSE they were big, and following from this, the ones which I haven't seen are not big. The same applies to my strength. I show it off, BECAUSE I have it. Would I show off being weak? Of course not. Nonetheless the 'deficiency' grows stronger the more large penises you see. The internet is inescapable; ���� is everywhere, bitchy women proclaiming that small penises make you pathetic, unlovable and destined to a miserable existence. Even this forum is full of people with stats in their signature which are claimed to be to help monitor progress, but one can almost count on those men being well endowed to start off with. This is a form of unconsciously showing off. Even I have done it. My signature on this forum is so precise in the measurement. You want to squeeze out as much as you can. In order to feel better about ones assets another person must be made to feel worse. This is why I believe it is a fixation for which there is little to no cure.

Generally intelligent men fall victim to it; their minds are overactive. My mind races with jealousy, greed and envy whenever my peers pull out their 8 inchers, or when the girl I'm talking to tells me of how 'amazing' so-and-so was in bed. The cure to this is to stop thinking. The chances of that happening are next to none.

I am trying to become fixated on my assets, not my 'shortcomings' (although rationally average cannot be considered a shortcoming...) This post is being logged primarily as a form of self councelling but also with the hope that it will shed new light on anyone who also feels they have become fixated on what is essentially a non-issue. Repeat after me; Penis size is a non-issue. Could you truly love someone who thought you were inadequate? If a woman thought you were ugly, could you truly love her and trust her? The same applies to penis size. Few women will be concerned. It is not an issue except to the bearer. We blow it out of proportion with our own intelligence. Women can get over it. So can you.
 
Excelente insight. :)

That's why I believe that we should always keep common sense at hand when doing Penis Enlargement. We have to know when enough is enough and that's not easy.
The first change should be in our minds. Only then we should start worrying about the penis size.
Maybe we could still get better at it, but I believe that one of the positive things about this forum is that we have lots of people to help us put things into perspective – as you just did – and not just jam the "getting a bigger penis is easy if you buy our program" line :)
 
I do not think this is unhealthy across the board, but I do think that certain people are predisposed to becoming obsessive with penis enlargement. This is best described as a addictive personality. I have this disposition and whatever I do I usually take to the next level. Now seeing an obsession as negative or positive is all part of state of being. I choose to view it as positive which means the obsession is productive in a positive way but I could very easily see it as negative and the obsession would not be productive. It is kind of like having a diagnosis of OCD, one could see this as negative and allow it to become a hurdle while others could take it as a positive and use it to their ability to be fruitful. I have said it before and I will say it again; situations do not matter, only state of being matters.
 
have abandoned any attempt to improve my size as I felt that regardless of any real-time gains that I achieved I would never be satisfied.

well i think to say that you stopped really says you are naturally bright but did not work for it.
You do not have good working habits and want to see changes in front of the mirror for free? WTF
Make a one year goal to do what DLD says and do not stop!

I think you should use your pain and every time you workout imagine those thoughts that hurt you to work even more!
I do not support pussy behavior and you are now displaying it, it is really stupid to come before DLD, to know how much he put in and to say im quitting before starting, i do not have the genetics, bla bla...

Get that weak stuff out of here, go do your workout soldier!
 
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well i think to say that you stopped really says you are naturally bright but did not work for it.
You do not have good working habits and want to see changes in front of the mirror for free? WTF
Make a one year goal to do what DLD says and do not stop!

I think you should use your pain and every time you workout imagine those thoughts that hurt you to work even more!
I do not support pussy behavior and you are now displaying it, it is really stupid to come before DLD, to know how much he put in and to say im quitting before starting, i do not have the genetics, bla bla...

Get that weak stuff out of here, go do your workout soldier!


^^^Agree^^^
 
Well put. I think many guys go through this at any certain time of their life, some maybe lasting longer than others, maybe even guys who you would never expect it from. When I started pumping with my X-40 I think it helped me a lot with some of these feelings. Girls love to try and make you jealous it is something many of them who do not get fulfillment out of life get a kick out of. All guys are different and even guys who have 6" girth don't all have the same size penis length, width, shape, and they most likely all fuck differently too. If shes fucking you then you must be doing something right because you care enough about her to let it stop you from obtaining a larger size unit when in fact you have been on the right track all along. We post our stats and post because it is a sport, its fun, its healthy, its the only place you CAN open up about it. Lots of times people are really weird about expressing thoughts of the penis they feel uncomfortable and will act worse defending against it rather than understanding how normal it is and leaving it be at that, probably mostly from immaturity. I would say what you are feeling and expressing is normal and living in a world where it is ok for girls to walk around practically naked and guys are bundled up like it is the Arctic and that's the accepted style- something seems a bit off balanced to me and it doesn't look equal. So if a girl makes a comment and it feels depressing well it doesn't surprise me because if it made you feel good I would wonder if you lived somewhere in the world that actually made sense. Try not to focus on how good a vagina is getting it and be satisfied with how good you're getting it. Try not to stop succeeding at something that will benefit you more in the long run and don't quit expressing yourself about these feelings because that is what will truly begin to help you step out of the struggle.
 
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Good read Turn I agree and respect a healthy fixation on something physical like Penis Enlargement. Being an obsessional trainer is something to be valued in my opinion. Your fresh outlook on the mental side of Penis Enlargement has inspired me. To reach my goals I have to make Penis Enlargement a natural function like breathing. Being 8'' bpel with no cheating, and 5.5 eg none pumped would be sweet.
 
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Im not a clothes freak as women, im not a shoe freak as them, i do not stand in front of a mirror all day long and if i do pe im a nut?

Fuck this, if i want a bigger dick im entitled to one, if a woman does a boob job its like going to a dentist nowadays, only we are some closet room freaks right?

I consider this a hobby just like some guys fishing do, if you take into an equation what is needed in this life you can cut down to water, food and clothing but we are complex beings, and experimentation and ego boost is in our nature.

Nobody will say Penis Enlargement is unhealthy fixation if he gains quickly!

Pe is not just getting big it is preserving your erection through life!

Penis Enlargement should become necessarily in adult male education as fitness and proper nutrition.
Everybody else who claims otherwise is not ready to put in huge hours or is one of those uptight intellectuals who discard every thought of the body and always hail the intellect.

Those usually are the most envy of guys who do fitness and are macho type!

You need to be in balance, body and mind, that way you are not looking others with contempt and envy.
 
Alex78;426843 said:
Im not a clothes freak as women, im not a shoe freak as them, i do not stand in front of a mirror all day long and if i do pe im a nut?

Fuck this, if i want a bigger dick im entitled to one, if a woman does a boob job its like going to a dentist nowadays, only we are some closet room freaks right?

I consider this a hobby just like some guys fishing do, if you take into an equation what is needed in this life you can cut down to water, food and clothing but we are complex beings, and experimentation and ego boost is in our nature.

Nobody will say Penis Enlargement is unhealthy fixation if he gains quickly!

Pe is not just getting big it is preserving your erection through life!

Penis Enlargement should become necessarily in adult male education as fitness and proper nutrition.
Everybody else who claims otherwise is not ready to put in huge hours or is one of those uptight intellectuals who discard every thought of the body and always hail the intellect.

Those usually are the most envy of guys who do fitness and are macho type!

You need to be in balance, body and mind, that way you are not looking others with contempt and envy.

yuppers
 
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