Yeah....can't really say anything more then that.
I'll give you what I think about this topic because I have never had a moment to really sit and think about it too deeply.
I do not agree with the statement that all women are this or all women are that, because this is a very reductionist outlook on the topic at hand and it's not giving the full story. I personally love women. But there are the types out there that give women a bad name, and I have experienced many of those in my short life.
The problem is the first world we are living in, and westernisation. Nowadays, things that in the past would have been considered normal and a part of everyday life and growing up to become a man are now seen by many as creepy. The biggest example I can think of is the cold approach. This is something that I truly believe is a disaster in todays world, how cold approaches have almost gone extinct. How else are you supposed to ever have a chance with a potential partner if you do not go up to them and talk?
There are a few things I can attribute this to:
1. Men are afraid to approach women for a multitude of reasons -
A) They are worried about being labelled as a creep - I find this to be really sad as it is unfortunately the sad reality, being a creep means talking to someone you don't know(!),
B) They are worried about being accused of this and that(you know what I'm talking about) - I saw a clip a few days ago that boils m blood whenever I think of it. This guy was challenged to get a girls number for some money, he walked around and saw a girl on a bench and asked her "what's your name?" then the girl goes ahead and shouts "can somebody help me!!?", I mean seriously? One thing is for certain, that guy is probably scarred for life and will most likely never approach a girl ever again.
C) They are afraid of rejection full stop. A simple fact that has now been blown completely out of proportion. Probably reinforced by the aforementioned points.
2. Women are being given a bad name with all the horror stories and poor examples being set in todays world that is rubbing off on them causing bad habits to arise early on in their lives.
- Western culture and the societal norms that have been established have plagued our women. Many things including hook-ups, toxic feminism, porn, accusations that are taken as examples, many things along those lines. You can go anywhere on YouTube now and find a feminist getting owned for her stupid beliefs of "inequality" and the "gender pay gap", being unable to define misogynist and yet still calling certain individuals by that name, younger women are learning for these people, they are taking them as examples of what a woman should be, and it's spreading like a wildfire.
Women out there who have slept with an exorbitant number of men who brag about their "body counts"(horrible phrase in my opinion) which then leads to other women thinking the same way "the more the better, I'm gonna get ran through" saddens me to see women like this.
3. Extreme prejudice against men.
Perhaps this one is the most fitting for the forum as I'll mention something along the lines of size here.
Women being taught by god knows who to expect all 6s from men - 6 feet, 6 figures, 6 inches, which the majority of men on the entire planet will not be able to provide(the 6 inches however is made much easier to achieve through Matters Of Size). But it's these types of expectations and prejudice against guys who do not have those said 6s that ends up bothering men and making them feel like they are not enough, and women don't realise this. I've met countless guys out there who told me about their insecurity's that they feel ultra depressed about because they feel they cannot change them and that they are stuck with them forever making them unlovable, it's devastating. I even deal with this myself nowadays, there are many things about myself that I hate that I feel I am unable to change, but hey that's for another day.
4. Women being taught to love men for all the wrong reasons.
Whatever happened to kindness and affection and shared interests being on the top of the priority list of women looking for a relationship with a man? These days you'll find yourself hearing sex, money, looks, experience, status, it's all a lot of horseshit if you ask me.
In conclusion
It's not that all women are insufferable. It's that western culture is making them something that they shouldn't be and it's causing a lot of men to walk away from dating or trying to find a suitable partner. SHIT LIKE THIS DOES NOT HAPPENOUTSIDE OF THE WEST. I'm not saying that everything outside is better, but I'm just giving my 2 cents on the matter.
