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I know that Jen squirts, but does anyone else have experience with making girls cum? I'm wondering how they do it and if all women can. My girl's really interested, but is as clueless as I am about this, lol

I know you're supposed to find the g-spot, but we've both looked in there like archeologists and cant find it, haha. There a trick to this?
 
every girl i have had sex with (like, all 3...) have been able to orgasm/cum/squirt.

the only "trick" i have had to perform with this is to get on your knees with her on her back, and "aim straight up, not straight in". It also helps to bend her legs back so her knees are near her chest, or as close as possible to her chest without hurting her... and that's pretty much it.

the "g" spot is kinda situated on the other side of the clit, so use your sick to get up at that.

I don't mean to make this sound over-simplified, but it really isnt too hard, you can do it!

also, i posted earlier but i think it needs to be mentioned again:
most girls try to hold back from cumming as they think they are about to urinate - it is at this point they are actually about to squirt, but most don't realise this. Try talking to your girl about this, as my girl used to do the same thing, she would hold back until i told her my last g/f said it felt like she would need to piss when she came. Then my current g/f just let it go, and sure enough, it was orgasm/squirting she was holding back, not pee.

Send me a message/reply to this thread if you need anything explained or more tips...

dopefish
 
The only position I've made a girl squrit is doggtstlye, I was slamming it in hard and fast using all of my length, I was bottoming out, I could feel the glans hitting something that was hard. Everytime my dick hit that sopt she would scream tehn all of a sudden she lunged forward and squrited a huge amount of female juice all over my thighs and stomach, I've tried other ways to make my girl squrit but she only does it in doggystyle, I believe every girl is different in this department! Experiment with your girlfriend with different angles, speeds, and depth, of your thrusts, eventually you'll find her trigger!
 
From my personal experience, I've been able to get two out of 11 women so far to squirt. I actually 'taught' the one girl how to. How? Well, the G-Spot (not that mysterious) is located on the front inner wall of the vagina (the pubic hair side), and about 2" up from the vaginal opening. The best way from what I've seen to stimulate it is orally. Er, during oral sex I mean. Youre going down on her, working on her clit, then you use a couple fingers insider her, and curl them upward (palm up to the ceiling) in a "come hither" fashion. The more aroused she is, the easier the G-Spot is to find. It will be a swollen area on that inner wall. The idea is to massage both her clit and G-Spot together. You and she will find out together how she likes it done. When she gets close to orgasm, she will most likely get a sensation like she has to pee. This comes from the stimulation of the G-Spot. If she has just gone to the bathroom however, she can be rest assured that this 'having to pee' feeling is nothing to worry about and that she just needs to relax and 'let it happen'. That is usually the most challenging part of this. To get her to convince herself that she is NOT going to pee all over you and everything, and to just relax and let it happen. Hope this helps.

Best of luck!!
 
Originally posted by stillwantmore
From my personal experience, I've been able to get two out of 11 women so far to squirt. I actually 'taught' the one girl how to. How? Well, the G-Spot (not that mysterious) is located on the front inner wall of the vagina (the pubic hair side), and about 2" up from the vaginal opening. The best way from what I've seen to stimulate it is orally. Er, during oral sex I mean. Youre going down on her, working on her clit, then you use a couple fingers insider her, and curl them upward (palm up to the ceiling) in a "come hither" fashion. The more aroused she is, the easier the G-Spot is to find. It will be a swollen area on that inner wall. The idea is to massage both her clit and G-Spot together. You and she will find out together how she likes it done. When she gets close to orgasm, she will most likely get a sensation like she has to pee. This comes from the stimulation of the G-Spot. If she has just gone to the bathroom however, she can be rest assured that this 'having to pee' feeling is nothing to worry about and that she just needs to relax and 'let it happen'. That is usually the most challenging part of this. To get her to convince herself that she is NOT going to pee all over you and everything, and to just relax and let it happen. Hope this helps.

Best of luck!!



So that explains what I'm going thriugh with my girlfriend. Everytime we have sex, she'll say stop I gotta pee, then she say Your hitting my bladder. She gets up goes to the bathroom and 9 times out of ten she does not pee. I rememberone time she was on top riding me and well, she DID pee all over me it was fucked up!!! So now I'll just send her to the bathroom to pee before sex so she can squrt!
 
Originally posted by stillwantmore
you use a couple fingers insider her, and curl them upward (palm up to the ceiling) in a "come hither" fashion. The more aroused she is, the easier the G-Spot is to find. It will be a swollen area on that inner wall. The idea is to massage both her clit and G-Spot together. You and she will find out together how she likes it done. When she gets close to orgasm, she will most likely get a sensation like she has to pee. This comes from the stimulation of the G-Spot. If she has just gone to the bathroom however, she can be rest assured that this 'having to pee' feeling is nothing to worry about and that she just needs to relax and 'let it happen'. That is usually the most challenging part of this. To get her to convince herself that she is NOT going to pee all over you and everything, and to just relax and let it happen. Hope this helps.

Best of luck!!

I think that is what i was trying to get at in one of my last posts, but you explained it better

champ, thanks man :D

dopefish
 
Originally posted by dopefish


the "g" spot is kinda situated on the other side of the clit, so use your sick to get up at that.

dopefish


made a typo on that... don't use your "sick" to get at the g-spot, use your dick instead :D

can't edit the post any longer, if an admin feels like editing it and deleting this one, by all means go ahead. cheers.
 
I am interested to know how many of you have been able to make you girl ejaculate? I know for me when I hit around 8" I was able to make JEN have squirting orgasms and since that time she gushes more and more the larger I get. Has anyone experienced this. You may even be hearing something from your girl like she has a weird feeling like she has to pee when she is having an orgasm. I know for JEN this was the first way she experienced it. Don't get it confused with pee because it is not. Ring in.

DLD
 
When ever I had anal sex with my girl she had the biggest most intese orgasms ever, she started squirting and cumming everywere, Its was freaking awesome. I know That I was Hitting her A-Spot or G-Spot, but whatever it was was unbeilivable. She was screaming and moaning and the cum out of her pussy just ket cumming and cumming. It was unbelivable!!
 
Yep I've made my girlfriend squirt, it came out with force and was alot. Almost everytime I fuck her she stops in the middle of it, and says she has to pee, then goes to the bathroom sits on the stool and nothing happens. So now I make her go to the bathroom before sex and empty out her bladder so she knows she don't got to pee. That shit is crazy man, I was hittin it doggy and she squrited, her cum was all over my abs and thighs, I love making her squrit, now I know how so I try to make her do it as much as I can!!!! After its over she can barley remember her name, she just lays there and it looks like she is shivering!
 
Posted For SUPRA from an old thread:

History

____ If you were to refer to literature over the last 50 years you would be lead to believe that females have only been able to ejaculate since about 1980. Of course this is absurd, and just shows how "the experts" can be wrong for decades on just about anything. Many knew the experts were wrong, but had little success in convincing anyone. Needless to say this lead to many problems, needless surgery (to fix the poor women who would ejaculate), expensive counselling (got to find out what happened when they were children to cause this "problem"), and in some cases divorce. "The G Spot" by Alice Kahn Ladas, Beverly Whipple, and John D. Perry, has dozens of letters from women who went though various personal tragedies because they would ejaculate during lovemaking. Doctors, gynaecologists, and psychiatrists invariably told them they were peeing and needed either surgery or psychotherapy.

__ _Newsweek published an article entitled "Just How the Sexes Differ" in May of 1981. One of the major difference was listed was that men ejaculate, but women do not. However, Aristotle wrote about female ejaculation, and Galen knew about it in the second century. The female prostate, which generates the fluid which is ejaculated, was described in some detail by De Graaf in his "New Treatise Concerning the Generative Organs of Women". (1) "... during the sexual act it discharges to lubricate the tract so copiously that it even flows outside the pudenda. This is the matter which may have been taken to be actual female semen." He describes the fluid as "rushing out" with "impetus" and "in one gush." (2)

_____ The medical community was finally awakened in 1980 when Perry and Whipple showed a film of a female ejaculating to the SSSS (Society for the Scientific Study of Sex). Martin Weisberg, M.D., a gynecologist at Thomas Jefferson University Hospital in Philadelphia responded, "Bull ... I spend half my waking hours examining, cutting apart, putting together, removing, or rearranging female reproductive organs. There is no female prostrate, and women don't ejaculate."

____ Yet after seeing the film and witnessing the event in person he changed his tune: "The vulva and vagina were normal with no abnormal masses or spots. The urethra was normal. Everything was normal. She then had her partner stimulate her by inserting two fingers into the vagina and stroking along the urethra lengthwise. To our amazement, the area began to swell. It eventually became a firm one by two cm oval area distinctly different from the rest of the vagina. In a few moments the subject seemed to perform a Valsalva maneuver (bearing down as if starting to defecate) and seconds later several cc's of milky fluid shot out the urethra. The material analysis described in the paper (Perry & Whipple's) is correct, its composition was closest to prostatic fluid".

Fluid Characteristics

____ The ejaculate is very much like prostrate fluid. It is usually clear, or milky and as thin as water. It does not have the look, smell or taste of urine. It is almost odorless. The taste varies, depending on the time of the month and diet, and possibly other factors, such as amount of stimulation received prior to ejaculating or time since the last ejaculation. It can vary from an almost honey sweet, sour, bitter, or a combination of these tastes.

____ Even though it is ejaculated from the urethra, it is most definitely not urine. It is absolutely impossible to pee during a orgasm unless there is a weak pubococcygeus muscle. This is very important, and it is important for the female and her partner to both understand this. The pubococcygeus muscle contracts when terminating a stream of urine, and is the muscle which contracts during orgasm. This contraction helps prevent retrograde ejaculation (ejaculation back into the bladder), and of course prevents the bladder from draining during orgasm.

Problems Women have Ejaculating

____ I think there are two major problems women face that prevents them from the immensely enjoyable experience of ejaculation. They are the female's mental attitude, and their partners inability or unwillingness to spend the time and effort during lovemaking and to learn the necessary techniques. We will address both of these problems and the solutions here.

____ The ejaculation is done through the urethra. This is the same tube that is used for urination. It is located outside the vagina, between it and the clitoris. The fluid is water like, and non- lubricating. In no way does ejaculation improve the chances of conceiving, it offers no lubrication, and is dumped outside of the vagina. The only conceivable purpose of female ejaculation is for pleasure. And the pleasure is intense, in many cases far surpassing the best orgasm's. Often ejaculation takes place during both a clitoral and a vaginal orgasm (yes there are two type of orgasms, clitoral and vaginal, but often orgasm is a combination of the two), giving the female extreme pleasure, sort of a triple whammy. Sometimes after ejaculation the female will virtually pass out from the intense feelings.

____ It can be argued that since the only reason that females can and do ejaculate is for pleasure, then there should be no reason for them to not do so, and as often as they please. It is one of the safer sex acts, since in most cases it can be triggered with fingers alone. Ejaculating from intercourse is more difficult, especially when performed from the missionary position, but still possible.

Preparation Recommendations for the Woman's Partner

____ Wash hands well. Trim fingernails. Make sure that the thumb, and first two finger nails do not extend past the fingertips. Trimming them as far back as possible would be best. Make sure that there is no dirt or crud under the fingernails.

_____ Place a towel on the bed. A surprising amount of fluid can be released during female ejaculation. Compared to a male it can be like a water cannon instead of a water pistol.

____ Have some K&Y Jelly handy. At some point additional lubrication may be necessary, even if she is having heavy orgasms and climaxes.

____ Set aside enough time. The first successful ejaculation may take from 10 minutes to over an hour.

____ It may be wise to exercise your hands, fingers, and arm for several days prior to this exercise. The motions necessary can become quite tiring after a while if you are not in good physical shape.

____ Before beginning the first time, discuss it. Let her know that you are striving to give her an ejaculation. That female ejaculation is perfectly normal, and a wonderful experience for both of you. Convince her that there is nothing to be embarrassed about or ashamed of. Explain that just prior to ejaculation, she most likely will feel like she is about to pee. This is a difficult point for many women, as they will immediately draw back. Convince her that it is normally impossible to pee during an orgasm, and that the feeling is simply the first sign she is about to ejaculate.

______ Since the movement of the fluid through the urethra will initially feel exactly like when she starts to pee, this is very important. The reflex to stop peeing will immediately abort the ejaculation, so she needs to be told to relax, and allow the fluid to pass. In other words when she feels like she is about to pee, she should go ahead and pee. Only it really won't be pee, it will be an ejaculation, and within a couple of seconds it will be very obvious to her that this is something quite different. Once she knows the feeling, she will be able to push it out once it starts, with astounding results. It is best for the partner to be sitting between her legs at this time, else she may overshoot the towel or even wet the far wall.

____ Once she has ejaculated, rejoice with her. Don't make fun, or a joke. If you do it may be the last time she will be able to ejaculate, at least in your presence. Unlike a man, this is not the end. You can continue, and she may well have multiple orgasms and ejaculations with further stimulation.

Technique

____ Start slow. Use typical foreplay. You may want to start with her on her back. Stimulate the clitoris. This can be done with a moist finger, or with your tongue. Performing cunnilingus while rubbing her breasts with your hands can be quite stimulating for her. At any rate, continue clitoral stimulation until she is lubricated. At this point slide two fingers into her vagina. Allow them to move along the front wall of the vagina. You should encounter an area about 2 inches in, which should be somewhat enlarged. This is the G spot. It lies directly along the urethra, and is located almost directly behind the clitoris. Slowly stroke this area. It should start becoming more enlarged.

____ Ejaculation is almost always triggered by stimulating the G spot. Clitoral stimulation can often assist in helping her reach an ejaculation, and also can make it more intense. But stimulating the G spot is usually necessary at least initially. Once she starts ejaculating easily, she may find that clitoral stimulation alone is sufficient.

____ Stroking can be done a number of ways. The two fingers can rub the area as a unit, or they can take opposite strides, similar to walking. A third method involved sliding the two finders out a fraction of an inch, and pushing them back in, similar to the in- out motion of intercourse, but with smaller strokes. Initially pace the stimulation somewhat slow. Alternate with clitoral stimulation either with the thumb, other hand, or mouth/tongue. Also try simultaneous stimulation of the clitoris and G spot. Watch her reactions.

____ Simultaneous may be too intense for some but necessary for ejaculation for others. Take your cues from her. When she starts bearing down, and you feel the vagina contract, begin pumping rapidly. When she is in the middle of an orgasm, stimulate the clitoris at the same time, and pump the G spot gently, but very rapidly. Talk to her. Say, "your getting it, go for it, don't worry, relax and let it come" or other similar words. She may need reassurance that if she drenches you, you will not be upset. Tell her how erotic you find it for her to ejaculate. Make her comfortable with both you, and the idea of ejaculation.

____ This actually is not the best position. If she does not succeed after a short time, have her roll over on her stomach, and get up on her knees. You will find stimulating the G spot much easier in this position, and she will most likely respond much better. With the two fingers turned down, slide your two fingers back into her vagina. Find the G spot and continue stimulating the G spot. You may use the other hand to stimulate the clitoris. If after a couple of orgasms, using rapid pumping on the G spot during orgasm, she still has not ejaculated, then turn the hand around, putting the thumb into the vagina.

____ The thumb will likely not reach the G spot, but don't worry, it should come up to meet the thumb during orgasm. Take the two fingers and lay them down on the clit. Allow the entire curve between the thumb and forefinger to lie along her from the vagina to her clitoris, and begin pumping with the thumb, and rubbing the clit at the same time. When she starts an orgasm, start pumping the entire hand rapidly. At this point she will most likely ejaculate. The trick is to massage the area where the urethra comes out, while stimulating the clitoris and G spot. This will help to override the feeling she is about to pee, and allow her to let it pass.

____ Be aware that the female is not only capable of multiple orgasms, but also multiple ejaculations. It is not unusual for her to have from 3 to 5 ejaculations before depleting her supply of cum. Once she has ejaculated one or more times, you can continue with intercourse. Entering from behind will stimulate the G-spot more easily than missionary style, and often additional ejaculations will occur during intercourse. Even if they don't, she will be highly excited, and very sensitive. The final result will most likely be the most intense and pleasurable sex she has ever had.

I highly recommend "The G Spot" for further reading.

Footnotes:
1) Regnier de Graal, "New Treatise Concerning the Generative Organs of Women", p. 107
2) Alice Kahn Ladas, Beverly Whipple and John D. Perry, "The G Spot" page 59. Dell Publishing 1982
 
I always thought females were upset when the DID NOT cum. So it blows my mind that they wouldnt enjoy when they actually did.
 
Have to try. There have been numerous times when she has made me stop doing whatever because she said she feels like she has to pee. Usually she'll go pee. The other night we were doing it and I had had a few to drink and she said it was making her have to pee. I just told her to let it happen, that I wanted to fuck her til she lost control of her bladder. She just looked at me like I was wierd. She said she lost the feeling and it never happened. I never thought about ejaculation.

Anyway...I'll get back to you guys...
 
Guys,
Supra said it the best, When having anal sex...it was the most intense.... Why is that?? Because they were the most relaxed and into it....Women can squirt when they are loving us, relaxed, comfortable and can let all the extaneous shit go....
Then they squirt. My EX didn't have an orgasm until she was 44.
Yup an older woman and I'm 32...I started Penis Enlargement at 8 1/8 x 6.25.
and she could come pretty regularly with me....which was awesome...BUT until I said I love you and meant it....And she could relax..FLOODING ...afterwards was even better...
When a woman feels and knows that its alright to let go...VOILA
the best ���� sex imaginable. DLD, I'm pretty sure that asking Jen she would agree. Women love to feel loved its that simple
 
I think to some extent female ejaculation is learned.My wife can ejaculate from sex I pull her of the edge of the bed and put her legs in the air)and I am 0nly 6".She started having these ejaculations from a vibrator and me stroking her g-spot.then I was able to make her squirt from just eating her pussy(concentrating on her clit).Then after I got her to squirt from eating her I would pull her to the edge of the bed and screw the shit out of her causing her to ejaculate over and over again.recently I have been able to gdayet her to squirt by just putting her on the edge of the bed.at first it was difficult to get her to squirt with the vibrator and stroking her g-spot.Now it is very easy to get her to squirt.She tells me that she can feel the pressure building and yes the urge like she needs to pee.but she is very in tune to her body reactions now and knows when shes about to squirt.She tells me "here it comes".And yes this is not urine it is usually a clear fluid with little or no smell and tastes differently depending on the time of the month.We usually have sex at least three times a day and have had sex as much as 20 times in a day.I also think that age has something to do with it.I don't think that younger women have the orgasmic ability that older women have my wife is 38 and I am 42.My experiences with younger women when I was younger and single never had seen female ejaculation.My wife adds that the only way she can squirt with vaginal sex is missionary and off the edge of the bed probably due to the angle of my cock rubbing her g-spot.for what its worth my 2 cents. pupper
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Holy Shit Shojii, you started that big!! How big are you know? You got pics?
 
Why yes I do Supra...........lol
I took pics when I started (12/29/03) flaccid
And I took pics today 2/08/04 flaccid also after i came back from the gym. And there is about a 1/4' difference. I went from 6" flaccid to about 6 1/4 to 6 1/2". in fact I will put one up right now.
Ofcourse, You are the king of pics so I will try to compete........
 
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