End of the Honeymoon

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Well, my wife and I have celibrated our 7th anniversary. We did a night out to a dinner and a movie, returned home and...... all I can say is the honeymoon is over. Our night of "lovemaking" consisted of getting into bed, nude of course, I sat with my back up against the headboard and her sitting between my legs with her back against my chest (we usually start this way) I brushed her long hair which she loves and when finished she asked for a foot rub. (no problem) when finished we lay together. She reached over played with my dick till it got hard and then spread her legs. I climbed on, rode her for a minute or two and came! (I've never been a "minuteman"!!!)
After pulling out, SHE rolled over and went to sleep! Not any kind of what I would call FOREPLAY or AFTERPLAY was attempted. I usually RELISH both of these activities!!!
I'm 51 and she's 55, I guess OLD AGE is catching up with us. I wanted the romance that goes with lovemaking. She seemed not to.

Any ideas or suggestions??

Maal
 
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My first suggestion would be a simple one. Talk to her, unless she's a mindreader she may not know that this upset you or indeed how much this stuff means to you.
 

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The top suggestion I can give you is to get down between her legs and drive her crazy by eating her pussy. Number two suggestion is to buy a modest vibrator and drive her crazy with that now and them. There a many more things you can do but these will get you started. You have got to lick her pussy.
 
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Dashdeming said:
The top suggestion I can give you is to get down between her legs and drive her crazy by eating her pussy. Number two suggestion is to buy a modest vibrator and drive her crazy with that now and them. There a many more things you can do but these will get you started. You have got to lick her pussy.

That's one of the foreplay techniques I usually do. I so love her taste!! But, she wouldn't have any of it. I'm going out of my mind right now. I've tried talking to her, but it does'nt do any good.
I've even stopped asking her or cuddling in bed to get her aroused because she just lays there. I gone so far as to just jackoff when the urge gets to bad.
Is this what sex when your in your 50's is like?!

Maal
 
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You need to make it 200% clear to her that this is a big deal and if she can't talk about this issue then tell her bluntly that your relationship is in trouble. Communication is even more important in a relationship than sex, not having sex is bad, not having communication is a disaster zone.

Any idea why the seemingly abrupt change in her mood/feelings? Is there potentially something you haven't picked up on?
 

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OK,
If eating her pussy is not a winner then you have bigger issues.

As Levista said, communication has to happen. I think your next move is as follows:

When a woman does not respond to the level of your bride then there is likely a physical problem. There could also be a mental issue but ohysical should be checked first. Is she going through menopause? It sounds like her hormones are off and there may be a lack of desire related to this. Have her checked be a GOOD doctor that understands female menopause and poor response issues. Some hormone replacement therapy may be in order. Simply put, if she does not have libido and feeling then you can expect low or no response. Talk to her and get her to a good doctor.
 

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