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I have this female friend 30 age in age but she has the voice of a little female girl. What do you call such situation or should I say disease or birth defects? I will appreciate if you guys can throw more light on this.

I think some might do it by intention; while a fun novelty for a moment, it does wear out rather quickly, in my opinion.

I was Googling and found The Washington Times having an article about "Child abuse affects voice of victims." I didn't read it in-depth though.
Birth defect could be one thing, other one was women being too high energy and thus making their voices seem more girly or so. (The voice changing because of all the tension.)

Overall, I would say some women might use the voice to their "advantage" at times, but if it is constant then there might be a defect or other issues; autism or Asperger perhaps?
A delicate issue, one's voice.

Some people just have higher pitched voices Choir's would suck if there were no sopranos

Well that's true DLD! This world is large and of course there's room for different kind of voices.

But of course at times a special kind of voice will raise questions. Just like anything out of the "normal" range can.
I hope your friend is doing well huge-girth!

Ark touched-on it briefly, if there's been any type of abuse during childhood, emotional growth will often be stunted. The victim could end-up being 'stuck' at that stage of her life and consequently manifest physical traits from that age. (or it could just be the voice her genes gave her )

huge-girth;721244 said:

I have this female friend 30 age in age but she has the voice of a little female girl. What do you call such situation or should I say disease or birth defects? I will appreciate if you guys can throw more light on this.

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She needs your girth power that would help her to change that ridiculous voice tone JK but yeah wonder why that happens,some women have the tone voice of a teen boy..

huge-girth;721244 said:

I have this female friend 30 age in age but she has the voice of a little female girl. What do you call such situation or should I say disease or birth defects? I will appreciate if you guys can throw more light on this.

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I've encountered women, and many girls who have a little female girl voice on purpose. I don't know if your situation is on purpose or not but from whom I met and figured out, there are women who have these "cute" voices in order to just be....cute.

arkailija;721278 said:

Well that's true DLD! This world is large and of course there's room for different kind of voices.

But of course at times a special kind of voice will raise questions. Just like anything out of the "normal" range can.
I hope your friend is doing well huge-girth!

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She is doing great I was only curious about the voice because she has been like that fro childhood. I didn't go into her personal life to find out if she was abused during her childhood or not. But she doesn't like guys that much and this gives me the impression that she might have been abused.

Could just be a personality tick? Is she like the singer from Die Antwoord?

[video=youtube;8Uee_mcxvrw]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8Uee_mcxvrw[/video]

stillwantmore2;721384 said:

Could just be a personality tick? Is she like the singer from Die Antwoord?

[video=youtube;8Uee_mcxvrw]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8Uee_mcxvrw[/video]

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Die antwood definitely has PTSD, I've never heard them just going by the demographic. make this a planet where mutants rule:cool:

huge-girth;721364 said:

She is doing great I was only curious about the voice because she has been like that fro childhood. I didn't go into her personal life to find out if she was abused during her childhood or not. But she doesn't like guys that much and this gives me the impression that she might have been abused.

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And she got traumatized into sounding like a little girl because she doesnt want to be like the adults who touched her? Makes perfect sense. I know about a girl who turned lesbo because everytime a boyfriend would get on top of her she would remember how her dad used to rape her as a child. Sometimes shed just start crying and say "why did he have to do that to me, I was just a little girl".

Just remembered I know a guy too with a fucked up speech impediment which makes it tough to understand what he's saying unless you've spoken to him a few times and memorize the words. He says "ive been this way since the ranch" he also confessed to me that he sees ghosts at nght and likes to suck dick when he's drunk. I didn't think have to investigate any further to get an idea of what went on at the ranch

Big Schwanz Acht;721285 said:

Ark touched-on it briefly, if there's been any type of abuse during childhood, emotional growth will often be stunted. The victim could end-up being 'stuck' at that stage of her life and consequently manifest physical traits from that age. (or it could just be the voice her genes gave her )

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Wow, never looked at it like that, very smart.

The emotional growth cycle of a person is a very delicate and must be nurtured throughout childhood, puberty and young adulthood. If there're events that disrupt this cycle, it could create behaviors well into their adult life. Anything from trust issues, commitment phobias, drug abuse, hyper-sexuality, etc. etc. can usually be traced back to circumstances and/or occurrences that 'short-circuited' the pattern nature intended. One thing to note is that you can't skip stages of growth, so if your parents divorced when you were 8 years old and you were required to take care of your younger siblings, you've had to become an adult before you're actually prepared to be. The 'fall-out' from this will vary from child-to-child, and some will become uber-successful and some will be crack-addicts, there's no way to predict...but somewhere there's an eight year old that 'lost' his childhood.

Big Schwanz Acht;721429 said:

The emotional growth cycle of a person is a very delicate and must be nurtured throughout childhood, puberty and young adulthood. If there're events that disrupt this cycle, it could create behaviors well into their adult life. Anything from trust issues, commitment phobias, drug abuse, hyper-sexuality, etc. etc. can usually be traced back to circumstances and/or occurrences that 'short-circuited' the pattern nature intended. One thing to note is that you can't skip stages of growth, so if your parents divorced when you were 8 years old and you were required to take care of your younger siblings, you've had to become an adult before you're actually prepared to be. The 'fall-out' from this will vary from child-to-child, and some will become uber-successful and some will be crack-addicts, there's no way to predict...but somewhere there's an eight year old that 'lost' his childhood.

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I guess I should pen my life story before Jesus calls me home. I have so much to tell about how I came about, what I have gone through and where I am today. The lessons that can be learned from my own biography would benefit many. Not that I have anything to brag on, oh no! Quite the opposite, I led a very bad life and was on my own at the young age of 12. The things that happened to me growing up and the things that happened from 12 on were nothing but incredible suffering and this would go on into my 34th year in life. But at 34 my sufferings did not stop, they changed and started to merit reason. It was at this point I had my second Heroin overdose but this time I died for 8 minutes. When I was brought back my life changed forever. Very odd, but when I came to I pretty much knew nothing, it was as if every bit of knowledge I had was taken from me and I was like a child again and I needed to relearn everything. Funny how I came into the hellish world at 12 and when I was brought back from death my life seemed to pick up there! Exactly as you have explained, if you can see that. This all happened on Valentine's day of 1999. What happened from then forward was quite hard to explain but I would love to write on it. Maybe one day when I have the time I will explain these things, they can only help others.

Your experiences would be invaluable to a many number of people, I hope you can find the time/energy/strength to 'peel-back' that most painful onion and share. I'm extremely fortunate that my brain doesn't have the addiction-triggers, (trust me, I have many things to 'work on') or else I could have easily been sucked-down the drug-drain, but I have several friends that have had these battles...most were successful (a testament to the human spirit and strength) and a few succumbed.
One main tenet that I live-by is never assume that I know a person's story. Yours would be fascinating

Big Schwanz Acht;721552 said:

Your experiences would be invaluable to a many number of people, I hope you can find the time/energy/strength to 'peel-back' that most painful onion and share. I'm extremely fortunate that my brain doesn't have the addiction-triggers, (trust me, I have many things to 'work on') or else I could have easily been sucked-down the drug-drain, but I have several friends that have had these battles...most were successful (a testament to the human spirit and strength) and a few succumbed.
One main tenet that I live-by is never assume that I know a person's story. Yours would be fascinating

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I too have learned my discernment is usually wrong so I always try to see the best in people before I pass any judgement. How terrible it would be to judge someone unfairly only to learn how much value they have. Always seek the Lord in all of His creatures and judgement becomes acceptance and, even, sometime, love.

Yeah some kids in the middle east or south america turn psychopathic at age eight from seing so much violence. Like those documentaries of child killers and its because their step dad used to beat the shit out of them. We all have skeletons in the closet maybe not the most heinous but still

doublelongdaddy;721558 said:

I too have learned my discernment is usually wrong so I always try to see the best in people before I pass any judgement. How terrible it would be to judge someone unfairly only to learn how much value they have. Always seek the Lord in all of His creatures and judgement becomes acceptance and, even, sometime, love.

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true you have giving us your time and i have learned from u as ive said it before,definitely not a coincidence lol

Big Schwanz Acht;721552 said:

Your experiences would be invaluable to a many number of people, I hope you can find the time/energy/strength to 'peel-back' that most painful onion and share. I'm extremely fortunate that my brain doesn't have the addiction-triggers, (trust me, I have many things to 'work on') or else I could have easily been sucked-down the drug-drain, but I have several friends that have had these battles...most were successful (a testament to the human spirit and strength) and a few succumbed.
One main tenet that I live-by is never assume that I know a person's story. Yours would be fascinating

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Count yourself very lucky since your brain doesn't have addiction-triggers.