BathMate/Fleshlight Training. Stay hard in the tube and no more pre-mature ejac!

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Many people do not know that the Fleshlight is a very effective method of using your BathMate with greater arousal. This may take a slightly bigger BathMate if you are already tight in the one you have but if you have room, inserting a FleshLight will allow for a realistic feel of sex, keeping you erect, bringing much better expansion than if flaccid (or struggling to keep an erection). Secondly, it will help greatly with pre-mature ejaculation, the feeling of sex is so real that it will take mastery to get to the P.O.N.R. (point of no return) and to stop it from happening.

If you do not have a BathMate or a FleshLight Would suggest this as a model for this training.

1. Get any FleshLight, they are all pretty much the same.

2. Get a BathMate one size up than what you need. So if you fit in a X30, get the X40. Two things will happen here in the way of saving money. You will be able to use the BathMate beyond the size you gain with the FleshLight Insert allowing for you to never have to get a larger sized pump and the FleshLight will take up any negative space in the larger BathMate.

3. Get a wine-vac or an BathMate Extreme model

Do not fear a lack of expansion as the FleshLight is not dense enough to cause any restriction on growth.
 
Big Schwanz Acht;722090 said:
I have got to try this! Do I need the entire Fleshlight, or can I just purchase a 'sleeve'?

What I did was cut the Vagina opening off and used the sleeve itself.
 
doublelongdaddy;722094 said:
What I did was cut the Vagina opening off and used the sleeve itself.

K, walk me through the 'nuts and bolts'. I get the sleeve, remove the opening, place it on my erection and then enter my BM? Is the Fleshlight sleeve far superior to a condom with the tip removed? How does it provide additional stimulation? I remain static in The BM, so w/out any motion the stimuli would be minimal I would think. Maybe I'm not visualizing this accurately
 
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The Fleshlight as sleeve method does work well, I've written few times about it. (Longer time ago.) Basically you could also buy some cheaper "love hole" that has the dimensions of a Fleshlight.

One way you can really make this whole sleeve business to work is to have a bit of lubricant for the sleeve, use the sleeve before entering the pump to get hard and when you're hard enough insert your penis wrapped with the sleeve inside, as you described in a way BSA.
Of course when inside the motion / stimuli isn't that high, but I feel that the sleeve does help. It's one way to battle against the gaiter bite as well.

At least this method is longer lasting than a condom with the tip removed. I do the condom trick at times, but cutting the tip off, that didn't work so well in my experience. Has been a while since I've used the sleeve method, have to remember to try it again!
 
arkailija;722100 said:
The Fleshlight as sleeve method does work well, I've written few times about it. (Longer time ago.) Basically you could also buy some cheaper "love hole" that has the dimensions of a Fleshlight.

One way you can really make this whole sleeve business to work is to have a bit of lubricant for the sleeve, use the sleeve before entering the pump to get hard and when you're hard enough insert your penis wrapped with the sleeve inside, as you described in a way BSA.
Of course when inside the motion / stimuli isn't that high, but I feel that the sleeve does help. It's one way to battle against the gaiter bite as well.

At least this method is longer lasting than a condom with the tip removed. I do the condom trick at times, but cutting the tip off, that didn't work so well in my experience. Has been a while since I've used the sleeve method, have to remember to try it again!

I'll give that a try...any source for the Fleshlight sleeves you could recommend?
 
Just click on the link that comes on this forum for the word Fleshlight. ;) Helps the Brotherhood that way!
The price doesn't vary that much really (among shops), sometimes I've seen shops selling older stock away with big discounts, but getting it from the official supplier means peace of mind. They do run deals at times, even now.
So recommending clicking the link on the forum ...
And there's the site Fleshking for reviews of different kind of sleeves before you make your choice!
 
arkailija;722111 said:
Just click on the link that comes on this forum for the word Fleshlight. ;) Helps the Brotherhood that way!
The price doesn't vary that much really (among shops), sometimes I've seen shops selling older stock away with big discounts, but getting it from the official supplier means peace of mind. They do run deals at times, even now.
So recommending clicking the link on the forum ...
And there's the site Fleshking for reviews of different kind of sleeves before you make your choice!

Yup, we are a partner with them so simply click on the word FleshLight and it will bring you to the site

or click this direct link: Fleshlight.com - Shop Adult Sex Toys & Male Pleasure Products
 
arkailija;722111 said:
Just click on the link that comes on this forum for the word Fleshlight. ;) Helps the Brotherhood that way!
The price doesn't vary that much really (among shops), sometimes I've seen shops selling older stock away with big discounts, but getting it from the official supplier means peace of mind. They do run deals at times, even now.
So recommending clicking the link on the forum ...
And there's the site Fleshking for reviews of different kind of sleeves before you make your choice!

Yup, we are a partner with them so simply click on the word FleshLight and it will bring you to the site

or click this direct link: Fleshlight.com - Shop Adult Sex Toys & Male Pleasure Products
 
I bought one off those electric penis stretcher toy bla bla. From ebay China. I use that one in The tube and it works fine.

And The best thing was it only cost $10 with shipping
 
Moonshinekiller;722430 said:
I bought one off those electric penis stretcher toy bla bla. From ebay China. I use that one in The tube and it works fine.

And The best thing was it only cost $10 with shipping

link?
 
Munto;722782 said:
I might try this once I get a fleshlight.

Do I just put on the fleshlight and normally put on the BM?

Just to make clear, take the sleeve from the casing and then proceed as you wrote. Don't give up; it might take several tries to really get a hang of it. I've always had several sessions with modifications where I'm feeling this isn't working, but then it all just makes sense or becomes easier.
Sometimes these moments of "damn, it doesn't work" might spiral to an brainstorm that yields in even better results than the original thought of the modification. I'd say the Vacu-vin is a prime example of it, people learning different ways to attach the cork or otherwise modify it to easier use.
 
arkailija;722795 said:
Just to make clear, take the sleeve from the casing and then proceed as you wrote. Don't give up; it might take several tries to really get a hang of it. I've always had several sessions with modifications where I'm feeling this isn't working, but then it all just makes sense or becomes easier.
Sometimes these moments of "damn, it doesn't work" might spiral to an brainstorm that yields in even better results than the original thought of the modification. I'd say the Vacu-vin is a prime example of it, people learning different ways to attach the cork or otherwise modify it to easier use.

Thx, how high is the chance that the fleshlights gets damaged or more damaged over time?
 
I'm not sure about damage regarding the use of Fleshlight inside a Bathmate, but Fleshlights do have a good life cycle, as long as you keep it clean, let it dry between sessions and to my understanding use corn starch to retain the quality of the material.

So, this is just speculation, but I would estimate a year at least, even longer. Depends about the care and lubricants used with it, I'm not sure how long certain guys can make their Fleshlights last, especially if the usage is daily.
Be the MoS guinea pig! ;)

Just a note, even with regular use the Fleshlight does wear down and start to lose some of its qualities. (In STU model I think the studs might wear down, for example.)
 
I simply cut the top of the FleshLight off and used the tube itself.
 
Sounds like a great idea. I have neither a BM or fleshlight. I've never even used a fleshlight before which is what prompted me to ask this question.

Could overusing the fleshlight (say, in pump sessions) desensitize you the same way watching ����/masturbating does?
 
pedud;724375 said:
Sounds like a great idea. I have neither a BM or fleshlight. I've never even used a fleshlight before which is what prompted me to ask this question.

Could overusing the fleshlight (say, in pump sessions) desensitize you the same way watching ����/masturbating does?

No because one is physical while the other is mental. Desensitntion from ���� happens when we indulge in endless hours watching ����, we need something stronger every time, we are never satisfied with the perversion and we are always looking for something even more fucked up,,,,the nature of man and ����. Desensitntion in the physical sense, no, the FleshLight or the BathMate will not cause a reduction in sensitivity.
 
Thanks for the reply. I'm guilty of having viewed that crap for YEARS but in the last year or so, I've been trying the "no fap" routine. I get erect much quicker and I can stay that way with very little stimulation so it's definitely helped. I usually can last months at a time but, occasionally, I'll slip up and go into a mini binge. I'm really looking to get back into PE especially now that I have more self control. I was more interested in length and always preferred pumping, so after viewing this thread, I might give it a shot some day.

Are there any fitment issues with the fleshlight sleeves inside any of the BMs specifically? I was looking to buy a pump from a different company who makes long but skinnier tubes, but I might just get a BM (x40 is what I had) and use a fleshlight sleeve.
 
pedud;724414 said:
Thanks for the reply. I'm guilty of having viewed that crap for YEARS but in the last year or so, I've been trying the "no fap" routine. I get erect much quicker and I can stay that way with very little stimulation so it's definitely helped. I usually can last months at a time but, occasionally, I'll slip up and go into a mini binge. I'm really looking to get back into PE especially now that I have more self control. I was more interested in length and always preferred pumping, so after viewing this thread, I might give it a shot some day.

Are there any fitment issues with the fleshlight sleeves inside any of the BMs specifically? I was looking to buy a pump from a different company who makes long but skinnier tubes, but I might just get a BM (x40 is what I had) and use a fleshlight sleeve.

Much respect for your success in the masturbation and ���� arena, you are an example to look to, especially for me.

The X40 with the sleeve portion of the FleshLight will work just fine. You need to cut the vagina portion off though or the vacuum will not hold. So basically slip the sleeve portion over penis, allowing the head to be free at the top, insert into the BathMate. Now this is important to know, if you fit in an X30 and want to do this you will need to move up to an X40 to have the room. If you are in an X20 move up to a X30. If you are in an X40, move into an X50. The extra room in necessary to get a good pump.
 
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