Originally posted by WaxN
jpenis,
I'd like to just make a few points. First off, I agree that having an ever-bigger cock does not increase one's happiness in life. Also, I sure don't want an 11" penis! I'd honestly be quite content with 8.5" or so (which is only about 1.25" more for me).
But it's funny how something depends upon from which angle we're looking. While you might say we obsess, from insecurity, I can just as easily say that you are struggling to convince yourself that it doesn't matter, from insecurity.
But I do think you're way off the mark in some of your comments. First off, Lex Steele is not a social outcast. Far from it. A lot of women would LOVE to screw him. The way you attempt to dismiss him shows how intimidated you feel about his huge stovepipe.
I remember hearing college-educated women at the office speak with almost reverence about John Holmes. Women DO admire a man with a big dick.
I don't mean to sound condescending, but I suspect you're a rather young fellow (I'm 38, BTW). But if you've been around WOMEN enough - as opposed to young gals - you'd know that women DO genuinely love the feel of writhing upon a big love muscle (especially when they're all expanded & wet, and a smaller penis would feel like a Q-Tip inside them).
Looks, grooming, clothes, etc., etc. are all fine. But they don't drive women to shattering orgasms. And when women claim that size doesn't matter, they're either lying to you OR they've never experienced the thrills of a biggie.
For the record:
1) I do NOT want an 11" penis.
2) I KNOW that women love big cocks.
3) I know that I don't change reality just by kidding myself.
Furthermore, I know that my wife enjoys my larger cock far more than when I was more average. I plumped up with about 70% more total mass to my unit, and my wife of 17 years wants sex more than ever now.



I think I've said too much already. Think what you like... SIR. :D (Yeah, you're older than I am. :p But for the record, I'm not a baby, nor a teen.) But I really don't feel intimidated by __________. Lex has a monster dick, and I think he's a pretty good looking guy. Not model-fine but not heinous either. He may get somewhere if he decides to freak a very horny slut in a club, but in a non-pick up environment I don't think he'll do so well.

Jesus Christ... I come from a very upper-middle (almost upper class) class background, I know a lot of women who definately would fantasize about big dicks like Lex, but unless that dick was attached to a successful man with social standing (And NO - ���� generally isn't considered mainstream-successful... face it.), they wouldn't really want him. Maybe for a fuck or two - if they can do it under the radar - but not in public. I also find your claim that __________ is some sort of mainstream celebrity a bit far-fetched. Male ���������, like male fashion models, take a back seat to their female counterparts because with the exception of sports, any line of work which involves the physical/looks realm are dominated by the women. That's just the stigma society places on both genders - society celebrates achievements more in men, and beauty more in women.

Thus Jenna Jameson (the MOST famous pornstar ever) was able to make a barely-decent stab at a mainstream career, but even her star-power wasn't enough for her to become a household name. She had a handful of b-list appearances, and that was it. The social stigma against ���� is still VERY strong, but you make it sound like a ���� star can become the next Halle Berry or Britney Spears or Tom Cruise or something. LOL!! And yes, Lex has a large penis, we all know that. And yes, women fantasize about large penises. But are you saying that that's *all* they think about? Hardly. Maybe the above-average libido girl or the avid ���� watching female or the bored housewife, but most women do not even know the names of male ���������. With all due respect - give me a break.

And I never said that penis size doesn't matter. WTF - of COURSE it does! :) I'm just saying that it isn't the only thing women go for. If one denies that, he's WAY mis-led. My point is that most women with some breeding, while they definately wouldn't complain about a nice big dick, wouldn't place ALL their bets on just a penis. Think about it - it's just a stupid bodypart! I'm sure more women than not would think about other things like I mentioned.

As DLD's intro to the member-site says, this program is a nice was to ENHANCE your life. Not make the sole focus of one's life. That's all I'm saying.

And finally, women who are older like your wife probably have looser pussies (sorry that came out kinda crass, but you know what I mean ;) . No disrespect intended.). This is probably from having babies and also a greater number of lovers than young girls. So I think it makes sense that they might feel more satisfied by a larger dick, but generally only as time goes on, as they age.

Women during earlier stages of life are more concerned about making money, getting a career, finding a suitable mate, etc. It's only when one is older and there is less of life to explore (set, steady lives that quickly become boring) that people focus more on sex for entertainment. I think this is probably why most swingers are rarely under their early 30s, and not single (especially the women). Of course I am not talking about size-queens in this case (of any age).



Anyway, why the heck are you so riled up over this? Big deal dude. Er, I mean Sir. :s :D I'm just stating my opinion. I've always been raised to speak my mind. And ultimately, it ain't that deep.


cheers,

J.


PS: if I was so threatened by penises larger than mine I probably wouldn't have listed my size as 5.5 inches. I probably would have lied to protect my ego. But I didn't.

So like I said, I'm okay with it. Insecurirty generally isn't a large part of my life.
 
J-penis, I'm sure your right in saying that most women don't go around choosing their mates based solely upon penis size.

Even in our low-mid class social standing women are looking for a good overall package.

I don't think the majority of people here are trying for the 11' dick (Hmmm...then again ;) ). We're just looking for that extra couple of inches to put us above the average and satisfy our own insecurities. And yes, they are insecurities, we've all got them in some form or other, that's why we're here.

Now, imagine yourself in a few years time, settled down with a woman in your mansion, sipping champagne :). Whilst you're in your high powered job working all hours of the day to buy that 4th Porshe, your lady's being bent over the silver display cabinet being rammed with 9" of the gardener's cock!

Only kidding with ya. But I'm sure there's many a fella's girl who's strayed with another guy because she's getting more sexual fulfilment from his bigger dick (and probably fantasising about it whilst shagging her hubby).

The reason we are interested in average sizes is because we want to assess our minimum goals so that we can surpass our insecurities to secure the knowledge that we're not going to be the smallest dick a girls ever had.

Anyhoo...just my two cents :D.

PS. IMVHO, if a girl is going to attach herself to someone because of his success and social standing, I wouldn't say that's a basis for a lasting stable relationship. The're also something called 'love' (oh no, the violins are coming out. lol :D)
 
Originally posted by seven_wants_ten
j-penis, it sounds to me like you're the one getting riled up, not him.


Do you judge how riled up a person is by the length of his posts? I don't.

But actually, I wish I could take back everything I said... it ain't even worth debating things like __________'s celebrity status. LOL! How innane! This is just too much... my apologies to whom I may have offended. I'll shut up now, and just concentrate on Penis Enlargement-ing. :)
 
Originally posted by SlamInTheLamb


Now, imagine yourself in a few years time, settled down with a woman in your mansion, sipping champagne :). Whilst you're in your high powered job working all hours of the day to buy that 4th Porshe, your lady's being bent over the silver display cabinet being rammed with 9" of the gardener's cock!

Only kidding with ya. But I'm sure there's many a fella's girl who's strayed with another guy because she's getting more sexual fulfilment from his bigger dick (and probably fantasising about it whilst shagging her hubby).



oh, I don't doubt it, Slam. It has happened MANY times before, and it will happen again. But that's why I'm here man. ;)

However I think the difference between a 6.5 inch dick and an 8 inch dick, while big to the eye, isn't *that* great if the man with the smaller wang knows how to use it, and also gives good head. I think 8 inches is about where functionality gives way to pure aesthetics -after that size, all dicks just feel 'very big' inside a woman. It's just the guys with exceptionally small dicks that are in trouble. I feel that I'm borderline - that' why I'm here to try to solve that problem. ;)


But more importantly, it's how he fulfills her emotional needs. Women cheat out of plain ol lust too, but most of the time it's because her emotional needs aren't fully met. In other words, tha hoe wasn't getting enough attention. :s
 
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It's true that 'how you use it' is very important. but if you think that 1.5" doesn't make much difference, you're wrong.

I started at 5.5 BPenis EnlargementL and am currently 6 7/8". Although I haven't changed my technique, that gain has made a significant difference to my wifes sex life :).
 
Originally posted by SlamInTheLamb
It's true that 'how you use it' is very important. but if you think that 1.5" doesn't make much difference, you're wrong.

I started at 5.5 BPenis EnlargementL and am currently 6 7/8". Although I haven't changed my technique, that gain has made a significant difference to my wifes sex life :).


You're right about that. The difference between a merely average (5.5-6 inch dick) and a sizeable dick (say 7 inches or so) is pretty substantial.

But I'm talking about large versus *huge* dicks. Following the Law of Diminishing Returns, a good sized cock, say 7.5 inches, will show roughly the same return of performance (just based on the 'fullness' it provides - to say nothing of the skills of the lover the dick is attached to) as a 8.5 or an 9.0 inch dick. At that point to a woman -- big is just big, not "1.65734 inches bigger". Ya feel me now, man? ;)


Basically, all this "going for 9, 10, 11!" stuff is just window dressing for the eyes or the ego. :p But to each his own, you know? I can respect a monster penis. LOL! :D I just wanted to keep things in perspective for others, as well as myself (I like to see my thoughts on screen so I can re-digested it for myself).
 
I've had the penis size convo with a few girls, and it was suprising what they had to say.

Basically, if a girl and a guy hook up, the girl will be psyched if the guy is hot and has a great personality...the penis IS important, but it's more of like a suprise I think.

A girl really digs this guy, they're getting hot and heavy, they go back to her place, and start fooling around. She slowly un-buttons his pants and attempts to pull out his dick...

If it is small, it's sort of a turn off...but if she's really into him, whatever.

However, if it's large, its pretty dope, and will make her that much more excited.

The girls I've talked to about the issue didn't say it was the most important thing, but it's a great consolation...say: meeting a great guy, who's decent looking, has a great personality, and DOESN'T have a small dick.
 
Originally posted by cacavolante
The girls I've talked to about the issue didn't say it was the most important thing, but it's a great consolation...say: meeting a great guy, who's decent looking, has a great personality, and DOESN'T have a small dick.

*wondering what they would say about me:D*

Run it by them, tell them I am miserable guy, who's obsene looking, has OCD, and DOESN'T have a small dick :D
 
Originally posted by doublelongdaddy
*wondering what they would say about me:D*

Run it by them, tell them I am miserable guy, who's obsene looking, has OCD, and DOESN'T have a small dick :D

LOL DLD, you almost made me choke on my Gordita (Taco Bell)
 
Originally posted by stillwantmore
LOL DLD, you almost made me choke on my Gordita (Taco Bell)

:D
 
Originally posted by j-penis
Basically, all this "going for 9, 10, 11!" stuff is just window dressing for the eyes or the ego. :p But to each his own, you know? I can respect a monster penis. LOL! :D I just wanted to keep things in perspective for others, as well as myself (I like to see my thoughts on screen so I can re-digested it for myself).

I have a friend that is customizing his Nissan 300ZX and will eventually get it up to over 400 hp. Overkill? Yeah, but it will turn heads and put people in awe.
 
Originally posted by SlamInTheLamb
Now, imagine yourself in a few years time, settled down with a woman in your mansion, sipping champagne :). Whilst you're in your high powered job working all hours of the day to buy that 4th Porshe, your lady's being bent over the silver display cabinet being rammed with 9" of the gardener's cock!

Only kidding with ya. But I'm sure there's many a fella's girl who's strayed with another guy because she's getting more sexual fulfilment from his bigger dick (and probably fantasising about it whilst shagging her hubby).
LOL - so damned true!
Anyway, I'm not "riled up," jpenis, nor do I judge someone by the size of their posts....however, I don't like my statements being misrepresented either, "young fella." :)
>>". I also find your claim that __________ is some sort of mainstream celebrity a bit far-fetched."
Never said that at all. I just disputed your account that he was some "social outcast" - images of a guy slinking down sidestreets to avoid people, head slumped down, hurrying along.
Lex Steele could indeed walk into a club and have about 20 b'yotches around him in an instant - while you stood in the corner trying to convince yourself that he's an outcast.

>>"(And NO - ���� generally isn't considered mainstream-successful... face it.)"
I didn't say it was, but it's hardly "under the radar." A good friend of mine owns a video rental shop. He at first did not want to carry ���� - unfortunately, he either had to or close down. He's told me that ���� rentals are a runaway smash at his store - far more than "mainstream" rentals. And the industry periodicals he receives reinforces that it's that way - worldwide.
I'll repeat: ���� is the NUMBER 1 genre of video/DVD rentals - worldwide.

And your statements about "upper middle class," "...most women with some breeding..."....sheesh, are you in "Merry Olde England"? Women are women. And a cock is hardly "...just a stupid bodypart." It's one of the most powerful socio-psychological symbols in human history (people like Jung wrote volumes about it).
I never said penis size was the most important, I never claimed that women look for men with a ruler in their hands, etc., etc. These were your frantic overreactions to my post.
Women thrilling over a big cock has nothing to do with size queens. And I've known guys with big tools who could pick up "high society chicks" at the yacht club north of me. A guy I know with a 10-incher (I went to h.s. with him) has even made a "career" of it - balling rich women & having them support him (almost like SlamInTheLamb's post).
I believe that most women want $$$, then looks - to hang onto for security/social standing. But I also believe that most women could become mesmerized by a big dong - and would certainly take a ride on one (even if married). A big dick can give a man confidence, and a foot in the door, so to speak. Word spreads like wildfire. The li'l-dicked fellows get teased by the women - even if in hushed tones - while word of the hung studs also spread, and women admire & desire them.
Now don't get all riled up! LOL
 
Originally posted by j-penis

And finally, women who are older like your wife probably have looser pussies (sorry that came out kinda crass, but you know what I mean ;) . No disrespect intended.). This is probably from having babies and also a greater number of lovers than young girls. So I think it makes sense that they might feel more satisfied by a larger dick, but generally only as time goes on, as they age.

Just for the record, women do not become loose because of sex. It doesn't matter if they have 100 partners or 10. Unless the woman engaged in wierd, bizarre insertions, she'll usually remain the same.

Age does play a little factor, but thats because the skin will loose its elasticity. This doesnt happen until late 30's though and even then, they don't lose that much tightness because of it.

Childbirth DOES make a woman looser temporarily. It takes 7 years without having a child for it to go back to normal.
 
Waxn,

Is this why you're so obssessed about penis size? To not lose out to Harry next door who's got a 10 inch penis? Damn dude - I dunno about you, but I have bigger fish to fry. MUCH bigger ones.

I am however, not against Penis Enlargement. I'm working extremely hard to make gains thru Penis Enlargement as of late. In less than 2 weeks I've gained an inch on my flaccid size, and I'm working on my erect gains still.

And I honestly don't care much for your psychoanalysis of penis size, as its obvious that I find your preoccupation extremely sili and you think I'm insecure or something. Let's just leave it at that - you keep tugging at that thing, and I'll keep tugging mine. Like I said, it ain't that deep. ;)
 
k, so while you guys all type and have your little cat fights... I'm getting a bigger dick.. LOL
 
I can't Penis Enlargement right now - I'm on injured reserve. :(
 
Originally posted by j-penis
Is this why you're so obssessed about penis size? To not lose out to Harry next door who's got a 10 inch penis? Damn dude - I dunno about you, but I have bigger fish to fry. MUCH bigger ones.

I am however, not against Penis Enlargement. I'm working extremely hard to make gains thru Penis Enlargement as of late. In less than 2 weeks I've gained an inch on my flaccid size, and I'm working on my erect gains still.

And I honestly don't care much for your psychoanalysis of penis size, as its obvious that I find your preoccupation extremely sili and you think I'm insecure or something. Let's just leave it at that - you keep tugging at that thing, and I'll keep tugging mine. Like I said, it ain't that deep. ;)
j-penis,
Two points:
(1) You seem to dismiss the importance of penis size (yet you're at a Penis Enlargement site).
(2) You also dismiss the popularity of ���� or ����� stars with big tools - calling them "social outcasts," etc.
I merely responded to some ridiculous points you've made. That's all. I'm not afraid of some guy with a bigger tool taking my wife, I just get annoyed when people come here & spout hypocritical nonsense.
If you thought your looks, clothes, car, etc. were enough, you wouldn't be here. Just don't pretend that you're simply here killing time or just to amuse yourself.
You want a big cock.
Period.
Does that make you "obsessed"?
 
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