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I know we spend allot of time with our penis in Penis Enlargement but I am wondering how much you guys are using it. I personally struggle with my libido quite a bit while I have a very sexually healthy partner. There are many reasons for low libido that I know of like poor body issues, stress, fatigue, performance anxiety and medications. I have also read the low testosterone may be a big contributor to loss of libido. Don't get me wrong, I love sex, I think about it allot but when it comes down to the actual act my libido is just not there. I understand that a large part of my problem is the medications I take (major side effect is loss of libido) I also question my testosterone level now that I have learned about this as a cause.

I am not happy this way and I want to do something about it. I have a beautiful woman that is crazy about me and my package and I want to become more sexual. I would love to hear your opinions and possible steps to beating this.

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Have you tried any herbal supplements like Horny Goat Weed or Tribulus? Both can raise testosterone levels. I know I was a horn dog when I was using Tribulus. I seem to recal there being a warning against taking it if you are on MOA inhibitors though....or maybe that warning was on the Rip-Fuel or something else I was taking back then lol dont quote me on it man. I can semi-relate to your issues DLD. I have a high sex drive and my current girlfriend (you know who) has a low sex drive. Very frustrating. You would think with her being 19 Y.O., she would be a little cock eating nympho but she's not. We have sex twice a month on average.
 
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My problem:
when I'm sexually active I don't Penis Enlargement. When I don't make sex I Penis Enlargement. I just cannot combine both. So my Penis Enlargement suffers since there is so many nice chicks around.

DLD are you still on Atkins? If so it can generate some problems. Try to eat carbs periodically (carb-ups) to boost your test levels. Some people need it to have their hormones right.
 
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DLD,
A little story. Last time I was in Norfolk, one of the other boaters at the marina complained of similar difficulties. He went to a doctor and returned with a supply of testosterone patches.

After a week, he was such a believer that he convinced about 4 other guys to get them too. Those 5 guys were the horniest bastards I have ever seen. They were chasing and bedding more chicks than a barnyard rooster. The original guy's wife actually complained about having to have sex all the damn time. And what's more, they all started going to the gym and working out like crazy too. Their entire energy levels went way up.

Now I'm already a horny bastard, so I didn't join their experiment for fear of being completely uncontrollable. However, let me assure you, if I ever lose even the slightest bit of my libido -I will get the patch!
 
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I struggle with my libido also, not because of a lack of willingness. I believe as a man gets older the testoserone level does go down thus having an effect on physical part of the drive. The body isn't as willing as the mind so too speak plus and being on MOA inhibitors does't help matters My ex wife suffers from depression and was on them, and it all but killed any desire. The frustration with her lack of drive and inability to orgasm, and even when desire was there, most times it would it just shut down during sex, giving no gratification for the act. killing the mood.... thus setting both of us up for long periods of sexless times. The what's the sense attitude, i'm not getting anything out of it....why should I bother took over. This took it's toll on both of us. I can't feel that this situation also effected me, why bother trying, i'm not going to get anything anyway... This only worsened as time went by. I'm not telling you this because you may obsese on these possibilities, I'm telling you that you need to get some help to offset the MOA effects. Don't let the doc's tell you there is nothing that can be done.... try herbals, ask for the testosterone patch, most of all, do whatever it takes to keep things going... To give in means to give up. Don't take that road. It only leads to disaster.
 

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Thanks guys for your help so far I feel as though I'm in good hands. I am really leaning toward to testosterone replacement and with what you said about your friends Steve I am even more determined. I think I also need to talk with my doctor about possibly switching my SSRI medication from PROZAC to something else. Currently I am on the highest legal dose of PROZAC and I am also taking a another medication called SEROQUEL. The major side effect of both these medications is loss of libido. I have heard that other SSRI medications may be easier on the libido so I think a re-evaluation is in order. The reason I am having issues more so now is because the problem have had a marked change over the past couple months. I have lost almost all desires to have sex in any capacity. This is why I question my testosterone. Something is different.

I spent most of my teens into my early thirties as the horniest mother fucker. I fucked every girl I could, I masturbated constantly, I was ready to fuck at the drop of a hat. This is obviously different now and I am not willing to take it. I agree with mowinman that this is of utmost importance.

I am looking forward to a better sex life. Any other help is greatly appreciated.

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DLD,
I didn't know you were on Prozac. It is great at what it does, but it is an absolute libido killer! Complete loss of sex drive is a known side effect. Can you substitute a non-SSRI like Wellbutrin? It has the least effect as far as killing sex drive...
 

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DLD,
I didn't know you were on Prozac. It is great at what it does, but it is an absolute libido killer! Complete loss of sex drive is a known side effect. Can you substitute a non-SSRI like Wellbutrin? It has the least effect as far as killing sex drive...
Yeah I know what you mean Steve but my problem is my sex drive has decreased to almost nothing over the past 2 months and I have been on this dose for 2 years??? Maybe it gets worse the longer you have been on it, who knows...reading side effects on meds is really just a huge mess of legal bullshit. I will talk to my doctor about Wellbutrin but I am also leaning heavily toward testosterone replacment. I should add that in addition to my sex drive being nil I have absolutely no motivation to do much of anything. Anything that takes effort I usually don't have the energy to do it. It is very frustrating but your comments about your buddies increase in energy really got me thinking. I think the first step is accomplished by coming to you guys with this now I need to get some help.

Sidenote: I just had sex. I was not into it until we started but after that it was great. Everything is working I just am lacking the desire:confused:


I made Jen squirt like a fucking gallon though, I guess she needed the cock pretty bad:) and I feel real happy that I was able to rise to the occasion. Plus in the end the sex rocked.

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In my unfortunate wide experience with medications, I found that with most drugs as the dose was increased, the side effects got worse. This really sucked, as all drugs become less effective with time, and so the dose is upped to get the benefits. A nasty cycle ensues.

I found in many cases that the drugs no longer worked at all, but I was still taking them thinking they were - or for comfort. In fact, I can't remember a single medication that was still really working after about 18 months. Sounds to me that might be the case with your Prozac. Your side effects are getting worse, and you are exhibiting classic depression signs - something you should not have while taking high Prozac dosages if it was working.

I'm guessing it's time to rotate medications. I know you are the worlds best expert on your own difficulties, and I resist making any observations as I know how much well meaning advice from friends about my medical difficulties pisses me off, I merely state that if it were me - I would get my testosterone level checked, but would discuss with my doctor rotating to another OCD medication before starting the testosterone therapy just to be sure...

BTW, glad you had a successful evening!
 
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I can confirm that a low calorie weight loss diet can temporarily reduce your sexual drive and function.
 
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DLD, I don't know how you'd feel about working out, or how your knees would hold up, but if you're really interested I'll you what worked for me....intense barbell squats, 2 days per week.
During the periods of my life when I squatted the most intensely, my libido was unbearable - literally :( (especially if I was a "Hans Solo" at the time).
My cock kept swelling at the slightest movement in my pants, or when any woman entered my field of vision. I would blast a tidal wave of mansnot when I came (which was about 3-4 times per day). It made me really disgusted - but it does wonders for your physique & energy level.
Barbell Squats have been known as the "King of Exercises" in the weight world for years. They pound the largest muscles of the body, and literally increase testosterone output, burn bodyfat & increase lean tissue mass throughout the entire body.
And if you really want to be pushed over the edge, take Vitamin E with it - but especially the supplement DHEA, made legal OTC in the early 1980's. It's classified as a "steroidal hormone," and is a precursor to testosterone production....
But be warned, you might go on a fuck rampage & ransack Jenn's box.
 

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DLD I am also on anti depressents [dont wonna name them] and I get some low libido at times....I sometimes think that my size could be alot bigger...kay not alot but some as I find it hard to get really turned on these days.

I would suggest for Testos''' enhancement > Tribules, Muira Puima [A brazillian herb], Bovine Sperm [Yep Bulls sperm...very high in testos''' its a supplement], Sasparilla also helps increase it.

I would say go for the Muira Puima....I dont think its against anti depressents either.
 
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DLD, Sorry to hear about your libido issues. I have no idea how the medication that you are taking can effect you, but I agree that implementing an exercise regiment could potentially help you. Training a few times a week with weights as well as some form of cardiovascular training may help get all the juices really flowing in your body :)

Start slow with some jogging, biking, or swimming, and be consistent...then maybe you can buy some weights for your home or join a gym...Good Luck and keep us posted...Now that you are focused on this issue, you will have it beat in no time :)

And WaxN is right about weight training...the heaviest exercises like squats, deadlifts, and all types of presses really have been shown to jack up your testosterone levels...just remember that if you decide to weight train, train smart to avoid injuries or overtraining...
 
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I am going to my doctors tomorrow. I am going to get my testosterone checked and see about switching up my anti-depress. to something less abrasive to my sex life. I am hoping this will do something about my energy level and I will be able to start working out my body again. I will let you know.

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I had to reschedule until the 28th.:mad:

i fuckin hate it when doctors do that. they piss me off to NO END when they say that they're "too busy"..........eh well.

i'm taking lamictal for my epilepsy, and come to find that lamictal is also an anti-depresent. SO........i just had my medication upped by another 800 millagrams Penis EnlargementR DAY. so that's about a total of......ummmmmm....well i can't do math i'm too fuckin tired.

that's the other thing.....since i started taking the new dosage i've been losing sleep. like last night i was tired as hell because the NIGHT BEFORE i stayed up til 330 in the campus art building working on a project, and i wasn't tired until four. and i got only about 4.5 hours sleep that day.

and i am suffering from a loss of labido too. my girl and i are very sexual people and there was a time when she would just LOOK at me and i would get a hard on the size of texas and i would practically throw her into the room and screw her til she was sore for days. there was a point where we banged for almost 5 straight hours and i had the intrest the whole time. now it's practically 20 mins and i'm just doing it for her to cum, and when I cum.....it's like no big deal to me, kindda like i'm happy she came but the fact that i did was irrelivant. and she usually gets horny again after that and she has to suck me off to get started, but she would have to be the one to initiate it. she would have to be the one to get on top and take charge. it's almost like times liek that my energy is COMPLETELY drained. i'm supprized that she still thinks of me as a "sex god"....yeah she did call me that before

i read somewhere on here that exercises helps get the Testorone level up???? sounds good to me. i was just wanting to get the book that bruce lee wrote about his style jeet kune do. it tells the reader the WHOLE philosophy and i even saw pictures in there telling about take downs and so forth, and it also tells you and shows you how to be physically fit like him!!! we're talkin the six pack and jacked up chest and the whole nine. mix that in with the Penis Enlargement membership that hopefully my lazy ass would fuckin send out (maybe a lack of motivation from the meds, i think i'm depressed)....then i'll be a sexual dinomo. at least i hope.

i love this thread. anyone who has any suggestions PLEASE say them, because i'm learning alot here.

thanks
 
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doublelongdaddy;16562 said:
I know we spend allot of time with our penis in Penis Enlargement but I am wondering how much you guys are using it. I personally struggle with my libido quite a bit while I have a very sexually healthy partner. There are many reasons for low libido that I know of like poor body issues, stress, fatigue, performance anxiety and medications. I have also read the low testosterone may be a big contributor to loss of libido. Don't get me wrong, I love sex, I think about it allot but when it comes down to the actual act my libido is just not there. I understand that a large part of my problem is the medications I take (major side effect is loss of libido) I also question my testosterone level now that I have learned about this as a cause.

I am not happy this way and I want to do something about it. I have a beautiful woman that is crazy about me and my package and I want to become more sexual. I would love to hear your opinions and possible steps to beating this.

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I'm not using my penis for sex until September 2018. And if care is not taken, I might even opt out of sex until 14th of January 2019 when I'm done with my length journey.
 
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