Apology to all of MOS

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I know seeing a thread by my name raises red flags now since all that has went on...but please, this is no drama, I swear. Please read.

I owe MOS an apology, certain people in particular, but also to the entire forum and all of the members. As many of you know, I have posted some threads over at Thunder's that caused much disruption, and I'm sure a lot of hard feelings as well. I didn't think before posting. Instead of looking into situations more thoroughly, I took the words of two people, and posted a very negative thread in which I made MOS seem to be a sexist, arrogant forum and made all members and moderators seem as if they were this way as well. I wasn't thinking, although I didn't mean for the thread to come ou that way, I should've looked into the situation and posted differently, or more than likely never posted it at all. I also posted a thread about a Penis Enlargement device developed by a member from MOS, I again had no idea it was a device promoted on here by a member, but definitely should've checked before I posted, receiving many negative comments making the device, member, and MOS seem like the target of the thread and making the forums again look bad, especially the member with the device. To you, I'm sorry, I never should've posted any thread on the subject until I had looked into it further.

I'm beginning to put my foot in my mouth a lot now. I never had any grudges or hurtful intentions towards MOS when posting these things, just was dumb, new, and obviously not a good influence on forums containing these types of subject matter. I was very wrong in doing what I did, being very inconsiderate to everyone on both forums, as well as I guess I could say arrogant because I thought I knew how to post about topics and that I didn't need to take the time to think things through first. I was warned a few times from various people about my posts and threads, telling me it could be taken the wrong way or stir up trouble cause upset, but again, I wouldn't listen and thought I knew it all and that I was right in my posts and threads. I never stopped to acknowledge or admit the fact that I was being warned by other members far more experienced than I was, that knew better about these things than I. My stubbornness gets the best of me sometimes.

Many of you know, I'm no longer a member of �other forum� anymore, due to the disruption I've caused over there as well as the negative disrupting comments and issues concerning MOS. I didn't seem to fit in anyways and it's for the best. I do not plan on being a member or posting here either, so no worries. I've messed up way too much now, and my posts no matter what content or subject, will always raise red flags. I already feel badly about what has happened, and I don't want to risk causing anymore drama or disruption to any of you.

I really felt that you guys deserved this apology a long time ago, which I should've had enough nerve to give to you, but was too stubborn. I never posted with the intentions of causing MOS or its members any negativity, vengience, slander, or harm, but I did all because I rushed into my posts without feeling it out first.

I am also especially sorry to Stillwantmore and his friends. I made it seem like I was "invading his territory", as well as trying to make swm look bad to his friends and make them turn against him or as another person put it, "bannish" him. I never meant to make it look this way, but my posts had many negative comments concerning him that weren't thought through and came out that way. It seemed as if I was posting to get some type of revenge on swm, which I never intended for it to seem. Swm is a great guy, and I never meant to depict him in a negative way, hurt him, or anger and upset his friends by seeming this way.

DLD, I'm sorry for disrespecting you and your site and being so inconsiderate to your members. I promise to never do it again. I've learned my lesson on this and wish it didn't have to go this far for this long for me to learn it.

Thank you all for taking the time to read this apology even though I've really messed up and caused so much trouble. I just wanted you guys to know I never meant for any of this mess to happen, and that I really do feel bad and realize what my rushing has done to so many of you. So, I'm ending my posting on Penis Enlargement forums career with this apology, hoping that you can at least understand, if not accept. Thanks again.

Love,
Jenny
 
I personally accept the apology, even though she doesnt plan on posting here again. Was still a good move on her part.
 
Not bad.
At least you can see what trouble ya caused.
I personally have never even heard of you before....but like you say if your posts cause so much red flags its best you dont come back.
Thanks for making this post and going thru ya actions.
 
everyone has opinions,its what you do with those opinions thats important...im happy she was able to realize her mistake and apologize..
 
ummm, I don't know what happened, so I'll try to stay out of it, but could someone help me out here?
 
I would also like to know exactly what that was all about...reguardless though it takes a big man (or in this case woman) to realize that he or she is wrong and fess up to it. For that I commend you...Now someone please tell me what the hell went on...
 
I wanted to answer you guys, but I didn't want to post again so my apologies for this being my 2nd post.


Basically, as I've said in my post, I posted a few threads on the other forums that came out way wrong and caused a huge disruption. Specific people werethe ones that were caused such drama, but the MOS forums was also made out to seem like a sexist piggish forum, and made Penis Enlargement lovers seem to be obsessive compulsive men with a swelled head, and horrible attitudes. I as I've said before, didn't mean it this way, but it still sounded like it. That's the purpose of my posting this apology thread. Sorry I wasn't more clear on the post. The main thing that happened was me. I was inconsiderate and wanted to be a "miss-know-it-all", by posting before researching first, or giving any thought to my posts or the feelings of others before I posted them. I posted posts referring to MOS, as well as a few specific members, which made it out to seem as if well...not sure how to say this... but....

"you guys sucked"? I guess that's how it came out, which wasn't the object of the post. I just didn't think first. Anyways, I wanted to answer you guys the best I could without posting too much, or posting again without thinking and giving the wrong idea. So, a retraction to my first post....I will only make these 2 posts.

I see no need in posting links to the drama causing posts, as they are almost completely dropped off the boards, and I am really just ashamed of my actions and carelessness. I don't want the re-posting of these posts to cause anymore disruption to MOS, which probably would happen since those posts have already done enough damage and would only cause more if brought up again on MOS. I just want you guys to know that is what happened, and that I am sorry, and I wish you all the best of luck with your Penis Enlargement. I've met some pretty cool people around here, and your replies to this post made me feel a little better, and know that you guys aren't bothered anymore by my stupidity. I hope this has answered all questions without stirring anymore drama. I can't post anymore, or else I wouldn't be keeping my word when I promised not to come back. If I kept replying to questions on this thread, then I would be posting here, and I've already seen what both posting on these types of forums as well as breaking my promises to people can do to a whole community. Thanks again guys for being so forgiving and/or understanding. Best wishes all!!
 
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