Any pick up artist here?

I could use some help
I'm a senior in high school
I use to be so confident but this year I really am confused about who I am and my confidence level
I use to feel like a ladies man now I get so nervous and don't know what to say or how to talk to girls. Any tips please?

I know if I went to a high school all the kids would tremble so much they'd start twerking, and the security would get clapped for trying to say something. You're very young bra, in time you'll learn that everything means nothing to anybody. I know x is about to comment on how to pick up girls but remember that guy has had the girl of his dreams only to cheat, and has been cheated/ given stds numerous times. The key is not to pick up chicks, that will only hurt your conscience even more than what it is.

Alot of times people act very grandiose like they know exactly how to fix your life by just giving you some awesome 'pointers', but the only way to help somebody like you is not to tell you what you are, and what you'd rather be. We need to listen first, and only then can we give you real critical advice. First question: What are you confused about or better what are you afraid of?

To be honest... I'm unconfident cause my height
I'm only 5'6. I'm even considering getting height surgery one day. My height really bothers me.
I know where I live I can still get chicks even though I'm short still though it has ruined my confidence.
I don't wanna actually pic girls up I just want casual sex. I don't want dates or love or anything just sex.

If you just want sex there's nothing to stop you just find a horny slut. There's sluts at every corner bra they don't even care if you're tall or not just as long as you can fuck them. You will likely get an std when dealing with these types of whore that don't give emotion, because their emotions are all over the place.

On about your height: Girls Like tall guys there's no doubt about that I'm five eleven, and all the bitches want me. Its important to know that genetically women want a protector, that's why they say "tall dark and handsome". A person that's tall dark and hands some would perfectly fit a black guy right? In the future we fight using guns, and the taller you are the tougher it is to take cover ya dig? So blacks would have a tougher time defending against knives/guns because of their size. That's what it boils down to, survival.

For me reading The Game was a big helper.
and a little advice about women don't make a big deal with them, they are persons just like you and they have their insecuritys just like you.

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You need to sort yourself out my friend.

And find balance within yourself (which really haven't anything to do with pickup)

And then you need to accept your emotions instead of fighting them.

Being nervous or insecure isn't fun. But accept that you are experiencing them and don't fight it.

And try and be honest. If you see a girl who you like walk up to her and talk with her and just be honest tell her that you are nervous to talk with her. That you think she looks cute. And if she wants to have a pillow fight someday (or whatever you wanna do)

Just be congruent with yourself. We all feel anxiety and nervousness in our life. And we all make mistakes. All we can do is to accept this and do our best anyway.

And stay true and honest with yourself and the girls if you choose to go the way of the pick up artist.

Seen alot of guys becoming very social awkward when they got those tools. And instead of increasing their successrate with woman. They just end up being extremely negative and have this bossy attitude and behaviour that people turns off from.

theman6;680261 said:

I use(d) to be so confident but this year I really am confused about who I am and my confidence level

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What changed?

templnite;680274 said:

If you just want sex there's nothing to stop you just find a horny slut. There's sluts at every corner bra they don't even care if you're tall or not just as long as you can fuck them. You will likely get an std when dealing with these types of whore that don't give emotion, because their emotions are all over the place.

On about your height: Girls Like tall guys there's no doubt about that I'm five eleven, and all the bitches want me. Its important to know that genetically women want a protector, that's why they say "tall dark and handsome". A person that's tall dark and hands some would perfectly fit a black guy right? In the future we fight using guns, and the taller you are the tougher it is to take cover ya dig? So blacks would have a tougher time defending against knives/guns because of their size. That's what it boils down to, survival.

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I usually respect your comments, but your last paragraph made me chuckle a bit.

Please don't listen to this advice. Women, just like men, have a varying range of traits they find desirable. Know that most women you meet are usually bombarded by hundreds of dudes all the time trying to have sex with them. So they need a good way to filter the jerks from the 'decent' ones. When we stand back from this, and ask ourselves. What would I prefer? Well shoot! I'd tell you I want a super hot blonde with real huge tits, a tight pussy, a lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets, and a perfect personality. In reality, you only get 1 or 2 of those things. Most realistic men have come to realize that you won't get everything you want in life. Truth is when you get old enough you'll realize the things that matter most to you, and you'll go look for those qualities in a woman. Everything else just doesn't fit in the requirements anymore because they're superficial, and doesn't really equate to happyness. Similarly, women have a similar quality analysis going on. If all you want is sex then I don't know what to tell you bro. Most women want a relationship and sex that comes with that as well. Maybe instead of looking for the end result (sex), maybe you should work on finding a girlfriend to help round you out mentally. Sex will always come. Learning to be a human being takes time.

theman6To be honest... I'm unconfident cause my height
I'm only 5'6. I'm even considering getting height surgery one day. My height really bothers me.
I know where I live I can still get chicks even though I'm short still though it has ruined my confidence.
I don't wanna actually pic girls up I just want casual sex. I don't want dates or love or anything just sex.

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Being shorter than average makes it tougher, no doubt. But you may still grow, I was barely 5'5" when I graduated high school, I grew four inches between age 18 and 20. That still leaves me at 5'9" which often makes me feel short. But what can you do? The leg lengthening surgery is expensive, painful, and dangerous.
You can get sex if you're shorter than average. BUT you need tight game. If you really want sex you gotta develop your "game". google "ya really" and "rational male".

theman6;680271 said:

To be honest... I'm unconfident cause my height
I'm only 5'6. I'm even considering getting height surgery one day. My height really bothers me.
I know where I live I can still get chicks even though I'm short still though it has ruined my confidence.
I don't wanna actually pic girls up I just want casual sex. I don't want dates or love or anything just sex.

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In my experience:

You have to own it mate! Whatever weakness you feel you have (we all have some weakness)
If a woman can comment on your height and you are the one laughing most about it. Then your chances of getting a girl is higher.

I used to stutter. What would happen if i walked up to a bunch of girls was that someone gave me a bitchy comment on it. And i started to talk like forest gump. And i would call her captain dan the rest of the evening.

Every body has something they feel insecure about. You need to get over that! And you need to embrace it.

Some of my friends who seems to have it easiest with woman are not very tall guys.

Confidence is attractive above everything else when it comes to the ladies.

Aimingforthetop;680378 said:

In my experience:

You have to own it mate! Whatever weakness you feel you have (we all have some weakness)
If a woman can comment on your height and you are the one laughing most about it. Then your chances of getting a girl is higher.

I used to stutter. What would happen if i walked up to a bunch of girls was that someone gave me a bitchy comment on it. And i started to talk like forest gump. And i would call her captain dan the rest of the evening.

Every body has something they feel insecure about. You need to get over that! And you need to embrace it.

Some of my friends who seems to have it easiest with woman are not very tall guys.

Confidence is attractive above everything else when it comes to the ladies.

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Longest time bro. I did like to see you around and hear what your gains are. I remember you were doing the phallogenetics.

Aimingforthetop;680378 said:

In my experience:

You have to own it mate! Whatever weakness you feel you have (we all have some weakness)
If a woman can comment on your height and you are the one laughing most about it. Then your chances of getting a girl is higher.

I used to stutter. What would happen if i walked up to a bunch of girls was that someone gave me a bitchy comment on it. And i started to talk like forest gump. And i would call her captain dan the rest of the evening.

Every body has something they feel insecure about. You need to get over that! And you need to embrace it.

Some of my friends who seems to have it easiest with woman are not very tall guys.

Confidence is attractive above everything else when it comes to the ladies.

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Aimingforthetop, We miss you!