Ah help

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Alright here is the deal. I really like this girl and i mean REALLY like her hehe. She has just come out of a relationship so she is single again. I speak to her quite a lot but never have it in me to tell her how much i like her or flirt with her. I suppose im scared of getting turned down, so what would you suggest? I think if i was to ever get her my life would be complete, haha that may sound a bit overtop but i just like her so much. She's 18 and im 19.

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wannabe10

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Hey bro, I don't have a whole lot of game myself, but I'm just gonna throw in my .02, especially cause no one's replied yet.

The first thing that comes to mind, I know what it's like to be REALLY into a chick, but you can't act like you're THAT into her. I don't know if you have to play the whole "I have other girls interested" kind of thing, just try not to act TOO desperate.

With that said, you have to start flirting with her a little bit. You say you talk a lot, whenever something comes up that gives you an excuse to touch her (non-assault-like), go for it. Slowly start joking around, touching her arm, etc.

I'm sure guys with better ideas will chime in, but just remember this... If you never do anything but talk to her, she's gonna end up in another relationship with someone else, and then you're REALLY gonna kick yourself!!
 
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"I have other girls interested" generally works. I don't really agree with the whole establishing rapport thing, if you get a woman interested enough in you they generally start giving you rapport themselves, as in randomly toch your elbow or knee during a conversation. Which you simply must point out in a way that they are hitting on you in the most cocky and funny way possible. For example one of my favorites is when she starts repetidly touching my knee when we sit down to talk, i would ussually say something like " If you must insist on touching me, i would prefer that you do it a bit higher". Try being a challenge and when you do talk to her, never talk about anything serious and logical. Try talking about night clubs and the atmosphere in them or talk about celebrities and etc.
 

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