A Little Too Quickly...

Godsize

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That's how I felt this weekend when I was having sex with my ex, or at least that was what I was trying to do. I kept busting off way too quick. Quicker than I ever have before.

I'm not sure if it has anything to do with not having jerked off for a week, but every time I put it in her, I would feel the urge to cum after like, 3 or 4 strokes. I've never had this problem before. It kinda sucked.

I think sex is starting to feel a lot better since I have a bit more size now... maybe that could be why I'm cumming so quick. It was exciting to see what her pussy would feel like with my added size, and it feels a little too fuckin' good, I think.

I know how my ex felt to me before, and I think it's definitely more "snug" in there for sure. Even visually, I couldn't look down because it was too stimulating to look at.

I know a lot of guys turn to Penis Enlargement to help overcome premature ejaculation, but has Penis Enlargement ever turned someone into a premature ejaculator?
 

jim555555555

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Nah dude, i have found it has done the oppisite for me, from all the streching etc. i think my glands has been desencitised to an extent....last longer
 

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I was a long laster before by many standards but now even more so, A quickie takes at least 30-40 or more minutes now. Quite a workout....... Some days I wish I could go faster. It's frustrating on the other end of the scale too.
 

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I used to have so much stamina.... sometimes I didn't even cum at all. Lately I've been such a rabbit. I guess it's because I haven't been getting as much sex as I used to, and I hardly jerk off anymore. Plus, my ex and I have great sexual chemistry and she is hot

It also has to do with my dick growing. Sex is better now because my dick is bigger. It's more visually stimulating as well. It's harder to hold back now that I can see and feel the difference.

Hopefully I can get this under control.
 

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Damn, it happened again.

My ex-girlfriend dropped by unexpectedly on Christmas Eve.

One thing led to another and I had my head between her legs.

After she came, I tried to put my dick in her, and I felt the urge to cum almost immediately. And I mean immediately.

So I just said fuck it and went for a few strokes, pulled out and came all over the place. There was no way I would've been able to hold out.

What the fuck, man?
 

fallen_one23

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LOL you're obviously really excited about your new gains, and really excited abouy sex, although sadly its not going in your favor in how long you last. work that pc muscle, and maybe over time it'll get better, good luck.
 

Jason_Els

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See my reply to shonen in his "Feeling Shitty" thread....

If you haven't jacked in a week?? Dude, even at my age that's just asking for it.

Tell her why it's happening first off. If it's not obvious to you it is to me. As you said, she's HOT. That can do a lot to stimulate you just in itself. You also said she feels tight and that's even MORE stimulating. You're bigger and more confident and can't wait to take the boy out for a spin to see what he can do plus you've been building a load for a week!

I'm amazed you made it 3 or 4 strokes. :p

If you've read my reply in the other thread I can't emphasize how important it is that you take time to enjoy the situation. Going down on her first is a great start but let her do some of the work too. Get comfortable with the fact that you don't have to start riding after a little foreplay. Have her go down on you or give you some handplay. Let her explore your body and you hers. Take a break during the session to talk about sex, what you like, what she likes, and then go back to it. There is no reason that sex has to be over once you've shot a load. I know we lose interest very quickly after a shot, that's a biological thing, but within a minute or two there's no reason you can't get back in the saddle again. If you're horny you'll get hard again. After the first shot let her do some work on you while you relax and realize this isn't a race or a competition to prove yourself. No one is going to be scoring you.
 

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The jacking off thing could very well be what caused it, try jacking at least once or twice a day and see if that gives you your stamina back. I know that when I was 17 I jacked 4 times daily on average and for the first 6 months of me being sexually active, I could not cum inside or girlfriend with oral or vaginal sex. So, in short, BLOW YOUR LOAD!
 
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Originally posted by Gandolf
The jacking off thing could very well be what caused it, try jacking at least once or twice a day and see if that gives you your stamina back. I know that when I was 17 I jacked 4 times daily on average and for the first 6 months of me being sexually active, I could not cum inside or girlfriend with oral or vaginal sex. So, in short, BLOW YOUR LOAD!
I second this one. Another thing, try to practice while you masturbate. Take it close, then lay off. The whole 'edging' thing. You really learn some control tactics.
 

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Try that Fern leaf experiment.
I eate half a male fern leaf few days ago [fresh] and no matter how much wanking, sex I had , just couldn't cum....I had orgasm after orgasm but I never cummed.

The thread is in the Diet/health/pills section at the top as a sticky, named summut like ''blah blah blah caused spectaculer enlargment of the penis''

read about it and perhaps take part.
 
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If all else fails, take paxil. I've spoken about it before on the forum. It gives you a 3 hour impossi-boner. I call it that because its impossible to cum, but stays incredibley hard.
 

Jason1

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I'm about to start taking paxil for anxiety but the problem with the ejaculation part is you can only take it for six months to a year for anxiety but than you'll be back to ejaculating at the regular time.
 

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Letting her ride you will let you last longer but I think that if I'm with a new girl I need to be on top or I'm being suBathmateissive. I don't like that and I feel like that is not what she expects.
 

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Question on the paxil, I have access to some, how much should I take and when? If I'm not taking it regularly can I take one like a half hour before or something? Thanks in advance.
 
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I would honestly steer clear of any prescription anti depressants that you are not already prescribed. Taking them just because you have access to them ...to help you with something like premature ejaculation can be very dangerous even when not taking them often. Patients usually have to be 'weened off' of Paxil ...if they are not, there can be serious side effects. I'd rather see you guys who are having problems with this type of stuff use something like Viagra. It's MUCh safer...little if any side effects (these wont kill you). Generic Viagra can be had very cheaply. I'm talking $8 for 4 100mg pills . Split em in half into 50 mg pills (more is NOT better) 50mg works for most men...many men report excellent results with only 25mg.

I can ejaculate and then stay rock hard for as long as I want to with 50mg of viagra. Doesnt matter when I cum. Taking it about 30 minutes before sexual activity. Where to get it?

Generic Viagra

Order the "free" sample that I told you about above for $8. If you like the stuff after using the 8 50mg doses...order more. It's not addictive. You can get 34 100mg pills for around $40 after shipping. Split em in halves like you should and you will end up with 64 50mg pills for $40! Pfizer ( the maker of viagra in america) cannot beat that! That could last you several months.
 

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I have been on PROZAC for a very long time and even though one of the side effects are ejaculation is more difficult I also have a slew of other side effects that I don't want. Some of the more prominent things I experience are erectile dysfunction, loss of libido, weight gain and sometimes it is impossible to ejaculate. Anti-depressants help me through many of the problems I have with OCD and ADHD but I would not take it if I did not need it and I would not recommend anyone to do this. The negative side effects really outweigh the positive if you are only taking it for pre-mature ejaculation.
 

fender646

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yeah dude, dont just start takin paxil. you have to blood tested to make sure it wont fuck up your liver and etc. Plus if you take if for a while, and then all the sudden stop, you can black out for like half a day and even have serious health problems.

I usually just get head first, shoot one, eat tha pussy, then insert. Getting the first one out of the way, is the best thing to do.

I've kinda had the same situation, I think the extra blood in my dick, plus the anticipation had something to do with it.

I've learned to cum more than once during a sexual encounter. Because if she gets to, then why not me?
 

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Thanks for the suggestions.

I could blow my load more, of course. That's one way.

Edging could help... if I wanted to last longer during masturbation.

I wouldn't even try to edge while inside a pussy. Imagine being on the edge of cumming while your dick is buried in this tight, hot, wet pussy?? No fuckin' way. Trying to slide my cock out of a hot lil' bitch who can't stop wriggling is like trying to defuse a ticking time bomb. If I try to pull it out, I'll cum on the out stroke. If I try to leave it in till the urge subsides, it just feels too fucking good being buried like that or the girl will wriggle or moan like a whore and that'll make me start to bust my nut. I tried it, it doesn't work. It's definitely FUN, but it doesn't work every time.

I don't think this setback is psycological, but physical. I don't have as much sex as I used to, nor do I jerk off as much as I used to because nowadays the time I spend playing with my dick is the time I do Penis Enlargement... so I just don't "get around" to jerking off that often due to my program.

Plus...pussy feels tighter to me now than it did a year ago. Intercourse feels way better, and if things keep going the way they should, then it will continue to get better.

The pre-mature ejaculation all started back when I gave up jelqing for extreme ulies. I switched back to jelqing to see if that will help, and I plan to cycle my routines so that if jelqing will help me with this, I won't drop it from my program completely.


As far as drugs go... I've got no problem with popping pills , but I've tried Paxil (for depression, not pre-mature ejaculation) and that shit doesn't agree with me. Besides, I want to cum EVENTUALLY, you know?

If I'm baked on painkillers I can last a real long time, but it wouldn't seem too smart to build up a habit like that just to last longer in bed. Not that it wouldn't be fun... for while.

Hopefully jelqing will give me back my mojo. I used to be able to cum whenever I wanted. Maybe I just need to fuck more.
 
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