A little help here guys

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I won't bore you with the details, so:

I'm in a relationship that has its ups and downs and has broken up a few times but has always reformed. Anyway sometimes I feel like breaking up with her, and at those times sometimes I think that the only reason I'm staying with her is because I don't want her to go away and find a guy with a bigger dick because although she is too shy to say she likes size.

I know this because I've grown a little and I know get just past a 'ridge' quite deep in her that she absolutely loves. So, I am definately pleasing her, but I really need to get my whole dick in there to make it.

For the record I started at 6.25" NBPenis EnlargementL (Was 6.5" a couple years ago but maybe I got fatter) and 4.5"EG.
I'm now about 6.5-6.75" NBPenis EnlargementL and 4.75" EGMS with 5" EGB.

Am I being ridiculous with my visions of this girl with another guy, who could probably please her better not because he is more skilled but because he is longer or thicker.

Also, I've been experiencing fairly weak erections which I think might be to do with my lack of confidence in my size sometimes. Can negative mental thought like that really ruin erections all the time?

I hope that wasn't too messy, I just think you are the best people to consult with this problem. What do you think? I know you can't decide what I do in terms of the relationship but I need help to get over this horrible image of this mystery guy who is big, maybe huge.... got to stop.

Thanks for your time
 

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Ii think your being some paranoid.

Maybe tell us more on like her opinions and what she says if anything????

But if shes liking it I wouldnt worry....u can get all the dick in, just try new positions, the sitting doggy style or summut like that.

And yes the loss of confidence does lack the erection also STRESS effects it ALOT I know this myself still now.....I cant get to my maximum erection period unless really and I mean REALLY turned on....the pix ya all see of me could IMHO be slighly bigger, length -wise mainly.

But anyways....you keep at it...keep doing this shit, ya'll be their dude.

I would also talk to her about size or what she thinks about it?

But to be honest I think your being a little too worried.
 

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Cheers Red, that helped a bit. When I get to my goal I'll be happy size wise at least
 

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ICM, Just to ease your mind and let you know you are normal, we all go through this. Being involved with Penis Enlargement has its benefits but with anything good there is going to be some bad. Usually for us Penis Enlargement'ers it's the mental shit that hurts and nags at us. Add in the on and off relationship and you have some major confusion.

You need to first be really honest with yourself and understand your feelings for this girl. This is tough to see, especially when all the other mental crap is going on, but if you really concentrate I'm sure you can come clean with your motives. Making a pros and cons list helped me when I was in a similar situation. I wrote down what I loved about this girl and I also wrote down what I did not like. When I compared the two columns it made it easier to see my real feelings. If you can be honest with yourself on this then you should have no problems going to her and either moving on alone or moving forward with her.

If you decision is to stay with this girl the next important thing to do is to have a heart to heart. Sit down and discuss all of your fears and have her do the same. Sometimes telling on ourselves is the best therapy. When I told Jen all of my insecurities and fears I felt venerable but at the same time I felt free. She thought most of them were absurd and when I heard hers I felt the same way.

Jen has been with many men. I wanted to know everything, every detail. This was so hard to take at first but it set me free from my "not knowing" fears. I found out that I was 1 of the biggest she was with (this was pre-pe when I was 6.5") She told me she was with 2 other guys that were just about the same size. I also found out that she thought 6.5" was huge:) She asked me all the same type questions about my past and I was very frank. When this was out of the way we were able to grow together. Now it is the best relationship I have ever had because we are able to be honest and this really eliminates most insecurities.

As far as ED is concerned don't make a big deal of it. The strange thing about this type of anxiety is that the more we think about it, the more it happens. Try to take the focus off the actual intercourse and concentrate on the touching, talking and foreplay. This will help you both relax and your mind will be on sex not ED. It takes some practice but I believe in you:)
 

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Originally posted by doublelongdaddy
It takes some practice but I believe in you:)
Thank you DLD, that's cheered me up quite considerably :)
 
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I believe in you:)
What wonderful, sage advice for ICM, DLD. It is because of your obvious caring for those who touch your life that I too, believe in you.
 

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