3 Tips to Get Phone Numbers w/out Rejection



Jun 3, 2003

3 Tips to Get Phone Numbers w/out Rejection


It sounds obvious, but if you don't get off
your butt and approach women you aren't going
to have any numbers to call at the end of the

Many men procrastinate approaching women
because they are scared of rejection.

There are many things you can do to
significantly reduce your chances of being
rejected when asking woman's phone number.
Here are several...

>>> TIP # 1 - Make rejecting you hard...

This one secret alone will dramatically boost
your chances of getting a woman's phone
number... make it difficult to say no.

Instead of saying, "Hey, can I get your phone
number?" say, "Hey, is there a phone number I
can reach you at?"

Notice why the latter is better than the

Of course there is a number you can reach her
at so she will have to say, "Umm, yes, there
is a phone number you can reach me at but I
don't really want to talk to you again so,
no, you can't have it." in order for her to
reject you.

She's not likely to want to go through all
that explanation... her laziness works to
your advantage. :)

>>> TIP # 2 - Ask with authority...

Asking a question leaves you wide open for a
rejection. Salesmen have known this for a
long time and that is why they will often
tell a prospect to "order now" rather than
say something like "we would really
appreciate it if you would consider ordering
our product... please???"

By not asking in question form you reduce the
likelihood that she will view it as a yes or
no question.

A friendly "Hey, let me get your number"
demonstrates much more confidence and
charisma than "Can I get your number???"
which places you slightly below her on a
psycho-social level (because she has all the
power in that situation - you are in a
slightly needy/begging position).

>>> TIP # 3 - Have a reason to contact her...

While you are talking to her pinpoint one of
her interests. Then, when it's time to leave
say something like, "I had a great time
tonight, hey, let me get your number so that
we can [her interest here] sometime."

For instance, if you are one of the luckiest
men alive and her interest turns out to be
football you would say, "Hey, let me get your
number so that we can go to a football game

Now in order for her to say "no" she will
also have to turn down an invitation to an
activity that she already said that she
really enjoys.

The great part about using this tip is that
you also have the first date set up...

So now you know how to get a woman's phone
number but there is a lot more to the dating
game than that. If a woman isn't attracted to
you then having her number won't matter
because the relationship isn't going anywhere

Creating attraction is EVERYTHING. Without
it you have nothing

Best wishes,




Aug 23, 2003
The first two seem like you're being forceful, this scares some women. Of course, women like a man that goes after what he wants. I just think if you have enough confidence and be yourself, the woman will be waiting to give her your number.


Oct 25, 2003
it's all about confidence, questions just dn't show confidence, those are some great tips there that everyone should do, I especially like the last one
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