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Avglen61

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Long time ago.... I stared a thread in which I mentioned how I was afraid of cheating in general.......
Now.... those fears are comming back.....

Right now, it's 12:35am. Everybody is asleep except me. I just couldn't sleep with this thought in my mind......

I don't know why I really want a hug from somebody and tell me there is nothing to worry about......??
 
Avglen61 said:
Long time ago.... I stared a thread in which I mentioned how I was afraid of cheating in general.......
Now.... those fears are comming back.....

Right now, it's 12:35am. Everybody is asleep except me. I just couldn't sleep with this thought in my mind......

I don't know why I really want a hug from somebody and tell me there is nothing to worry about......??
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Here is a HUGE virtual hug from me! ❤️ If these fears are coming back again you’re doing the right thing by talking about it with the brotherhood. Keep in close contact with us during your moments of weakness and we will give you the strength needed to win the fight
 
Is that your partner cheating on you your scared of? If so been there especially when I am so worried about size, you always thi k they want better.

Chin up I'm sure you are OK and there's nothing to worry about, virtual hugs all around lol
 
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It is not that......
Infact, I do not even have a partner..... Nor did I had any.......

The thing is that I do not like people who takes advantage of other peoples trust........
I have heard numerous rumors about cheating and I kinda feels like I might get cheated on........

It is not the sex or penis size that I am worried about. Infact, I know techniques in which I do not even need to use a penis to make the woman cum........

The thing I really worry about these relationship is that if you want to be in a loving relationship, you have to risk being hurt.........
More precisely, I know techniques (plural) in which someone can cheat on their partner and their partner won't even know that they are being cheated on........... And I just cannot find anyone way to beat my own theory..........
If I can think of ways to cheat on someone, there is a chance that they can think of these techniques too........

This is why I am scared......
I do not have any contingency plan for my own evil.........
 
Yes this is all true however its one of life's things unfortunately, don't let it eat you up, the chances are it may never happen in particularly to you
 
I like to keep myself prepared for every outcome.......
Lets just say it is one of my necessary evils.......?
 
DLD said:
Here is a HUGE virtual hug from me! ❤ If these fears are coming back again you’re doing the right thing by talking about it with the brotherhood. Keep in close contact with us during your moments of weakness and we will give you the strength needed to win the fight
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Thanx man.....
Appreciate it.......
Now I need to get a physical one from someone........
 
How old are you?
It seems like you have little experience with women. Its called life. Yes, you will go through all those experiences in which you will feel like if its the end of the world. But over time you develop a steel core and your brain changes.

I was like that when I was a kid. Now, i open myself to a relationship. If she cheat, or I suspect, or she starts with game "fuck you, get out of here, have a nice life" and move on to the next one until finally one will click in the same chemistry, mindset etc. Thats how life is and is the same for everybody.

However most men are jealous, and in order to avoid these things they become controlling, demanding, machista, possessive, some even aggressive, but all those characteristics are directly related to insecurity and low self esteem.
 
Jackxxx said:
How old are you?
It seems like you have little experience with women. Its called life. Yes, you will go through all those experiences in which you will feel like if its the end of the world. But over time you develop a steel core and your brain changes.

I was like that when I was a kid. Now, i open myself to a relationship. If she cheat, or I suspect, or she starts with game "fuck you, get out of here, have a nice life" and move on to the next one until finally one will click in the same chemistry, mindset etc. Thats how life is and is the same for everybody.

However most men are jealous, and in order to avoid these things they become controlling, demanding, machista, possessive, some even aggressive, but all those characteristics are directly related to insecurity and low self esteem.
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I'm 21.....
And I agree with you.....
Life is all about trial and error.......

Seems like you have a lot of experience with these situations......
How am I supposed to deal with situations like these.....?

You also said that "if you suspect her". But what if you do not? What if she is just very smart and a good liar?
 
Avglen61 said:
I'm 21.....
And I agree with you.....
Life is all about trial and error.......

Seems like you have a lot of experience with these situations......
How am I supposed to deal with situations like these.....?

You also said that "if you suspect her". But what if you do not? What if she is just very smart and a good liar?
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How to deal with it? you grow some balls and suck it up, find another one.

If you do not suspect, no worries. You do your duty as a man. Be good, be loyal, give your 100%. If she fuck up, terminate the relationship and ignore her 100% for the rest of her life. You did your part, she didn't. She will have to live with it, not you.
 
We have one hell of a family here! I’m so proud of my brothers and how hard they work to help out their fellow brothers! ❤️
 
Thanks everyone.....
Especially you, @Jackxxx

What I gained from this thread is that relationship is something that requires the effort of both the parties.......

All this time I was trying to "save" a hypothetical relationship using logic and reasoning.....
That is why I did not find any solution as I was also thinking on her behalf........
 
Exacty it takes 2 to tango.
Just go with the flow and enjoy the ride. If you over think you will never find the answers.
Aren't you spring breaking?
 
Spring Break.
down here in FL Michigan state was here last week, this week is ohio, indiana, eastern michigan, SC, NC, and others. Absolutely gorgeous girls all over the place. Makes me wanna join adult entertainment again to hit all those 20 year old.
 
Nice!!!
This is a test. Just imagine if one day a new virus comes out, but a lethal one that makes humans drop dead like flies on the streets. It will be a complete civilization collapse.

In fact, the second part of the movie World War Z was being filmed last year and it was conveniently stopped.
 
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I’m the most conservative Republican you’ll ever meet so I am very very prepared for when a liberal policies bring nightmares. I have two fallout shelter’s fully prepped just in case. And everything in my shelters is non-perishable and can be sold for many times the amount I bought it for when all the shelves go empty. I literally have hundreds of gallons of water, compost and up flush toilet, medication for every Possible scenario, enough food for three meals a day for six people for six months, thousands of batteries, inverters, white gas cooking, Silver and gold and all the things I need to protect it
 
DLD said:
I’m the most conservative Republican you’ll ever meet so I am very very prepared for when a liberal policies bring nightmares. I have two fallout shelter’s fully prepped just in case. And everything in my shelters is non-perishable and can be sold for many times the amount I bought it for when all the shelves go empty. I literally have hundreds of gallons of water, compost and up flush toilet, medication for every Possible scenario, enough food for three meals a day for six people for six months, thousands of batteries, inverters, white gas cooking, Silver and gold and all the things I need to protect it
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Jackxxx said:
Spring Break.
down here in FL Michigan state was here last week, this week is ohio, indiana, eastern michigan, SC, NC, and others. Absolutely gorgeous girls all over the place. Makes me wanna join adult entertainment again to hit all those 20 year old.
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Stuck in UK :(
 
Hey everyone......
I am back in this post......

Man....
I am really scared......
I just realized how badly adult entertainment has affected me.......

After self evaluation, I realized that I do not have any emotional training what so ever.........
My ideas about relationships comes from adult entertainment and I don't think I need to tell you anything more........
Please Help......?
 
You're not alone. adult entertainment has destroyed our society in ways beyond any repair and completely out of control. I was lucky to have grown in a world without easy access to adult entertainment, but I cant imagine the things new generations have to deal with. Complete desensitization from relationships, feelings, love, etc. Which in my opinion, has been allowed to happen on purpose by the deep state.
 
The funny thing is that I have never been in a relationship. My entire idea of a relationship/marriage came from adult entertainment. Now every time I see that a married women is going to stay alone in the house, the first reaction came to my mind is that she is going to cheat.

The same can be said for unmarried women or men.

I need to talk to some real life couples who could tell me what exactly happens in a relationship.
 
Pornography will destroy your life. I don’t care who you are or what you say but viewing pornography will destroy you, your perspectives and your expectations. I know it’s a tough struggle because it’s so easy to find today but avoiding it is the best thing possible. When I was watching it constantly it fucked my head up. I looked at women like they were objects. I felt disgusted with myself with the crap I was watching. And if I ever got into a relationship at that point I would’ve expected the woman to do the things I saw in these videos. God lives inside of you and you should have a great deal of love and respect for that.

I wish you the best and if you want to get involved I have a anti-porno forum with some really good support. Please join in on one of those threads and lets make a positive change. ❤️

I am very proud of you for reaching out for help.
 
Avglen61 said:
The funny thing is that I have never been in a relationship. My entire idea of a relationship/marriage came from adult entertainment. Now every time I see that a married women is going to stay alone in the house, the first reaction came to my mind is that she is going to cheat.

The same can be said for unmarried women or men.

I need to talk to some real life couples who could tell me what exactly happens in a relationship.
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What about discovering yourself what happens in a relationship? Each couple is a unique world.
 
Jackxxx said:
What about discovering yourself what happens in a relationship? Each couple is a unique world.
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I don't know.....
I have a lot to do before getting into any relationship.......
I am not going to be in a relationship just because I want to experiment what happens in a relationship........

But I am going to think about it.....
Thanks
 
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Avglen61 said:
I don't know.....
I have a lot to do before getting into any relationship.......
I am not going to be in a relationship just because I want to experiment what happens in a relationship........

But I am going to think about it.....
Thanks
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❤️?? with you brother and praying for you!
 
I might need help in one more thing.....
I started noticing that I have nothing in my head beside adult entertainment or sex......

All I am thinking about is adult entertainment and sex.....
Any advice?
 
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Avglen61 said:
I might need help in one more thing.....
I started noticing that I have nothing in my head beside adult entertainment or sex......

All I am thinking about is adult entertainment and sex.....
Any advice?
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you can do something called DBT and it’s some thing that helps me so much. When the thoughts come on it’s important to change them but that’s not always easy so DBT gives you a way that makes it possible. In the most basic description DBT occupies your hands and your ears at the same time. You can think of something like coloring in a coloring book while you’re listening to a podcast. When we occupy ourselves in this way it makes It impossible to think of anything else. I do this for maybe one hour a day sometimes more if I need it. But you’ll find yourself in the driver seat with your thoughts by getting them under control through DBT.

 
Have you guys seen these people on social media........
These people who look absolutely stunning and have their entire life sorted out.........
Influencers and other people......
It kinda makes me insecure.......

I know that there life is not that good as they have posted on the internet........
However, I still cannot shake this feeling........
Any tips?
 
Avglen61 said:
Have you guys seen these people on social media........
These people who look absolutely stunning and have their entire life sorted out.........
Influencers and other people......
It kinda makes me insecure.......

I know that there life is not that good as they have posted on the internet........
However, I still cannot shake this feeling........
Any tips?
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It’s all fake, filters, phony and false! Never judge yourself against what you see on social media because what you see on social media he’s like a pig with fucking lipstick. Look at the real world, look at your brothers, you’re in a good place and you’re a good man.
 
Avglen61 said:
Long time ago.... I stared a thread in which I mentioned how I was afraid of cheating in general.......
Now.... those fears are comming back.....

Right now, it's 12:35am. Everybody is asleep except me. I just couldn't sleep with this thought in my mind......

I don't know why I really want a hug from somebody and tell me there is nothing to worry about......??
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LOL don't know where this guy is is an old thread though,but I've been alone for years just had a friend he left he was cool but he left for good o haven't seen him in years.And i don't think I'd ever see him again lol anyway life goes on.Hope lonelinessgoes away soon..
 
DLD said:
It’s all fake, filters, phony and false! Never judge yourself against what you see on social media because what you see on social media he’s like a pig with fucking lipstick. Look at the real world, look at your brothers, you’re in a good place and you’re a good man.
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True just pigs whit lipsticks LOL ? everything seems to be great on Instacrap n Fakebook is just another mirror you can see through n everything looks beautiful but there's no way to pass through n live the beautiful life portrayed in those pictures ?
 
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LONGERDICK7+ said:
True just pigs whit lipsticks LOL ? everything seems to be great on Instacrap n Fakebook is just another mirror you can see through n everything looks beautiful but there's no way to pass through n live the beautiful life portrayed in those pictures ?
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I have seen before and after, this shit is getting creepier. Filters for everything but reality
 
DLD said:
I have seen before and after, this shit is getting creepier. Filters for everything but reality
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That's right some pics are so creepy who the fuck cares anyway we are not supposed to care about their pics are we? Fucking pigs whit lipsticks lol
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LOL

There's some pics that are honest n they look great ...imho
 
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LONGERDICK7+ said:
That's right some pics are so creepy who the fuck cares anyway we are not supposed to care about their pics are we? Fucking pigs whit lipsticks LOL
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LOL

There's some pics that are honest n they look great ...imho
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I spent like two hours on TickTock yesterday and it just made me sick to my stomach how vain and boastful these people are. But what did God say,
“Vanity of vanities, saith the Preacher, vanity of vanities; all is vanity. What profit hath a man of all his labour which he taketh under the sun? One generation passeth away, and another generation cometh: but the earth abideth for ever. The sun also ariseth, and the sun goeth down, and hasteth to his place where he arose. The wind goeth toward the south, and turneth about unto the north; it whirleth about continually, and the wind returneth again according to his circuits.”
‭‭Ecclesiastes‬ ‭1:2-6‬ ‭KJV‬‬
 
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