Who ever said gaining anything in PE was easy? For that matter who ever said anything in life worth having was easy? If you can't get something right the first time try again. If you can't get it the 100th time, try again. People today give up far too quickly. Everything thing in life takes work: relationships, business, school, fitness, you name it. Some things might be harder for some than other but doesn't mean that they are impossible. Saying "I can't" or "I'm not flexible enough", well right there you have defeated yourself. Speak positive, think positive and things will happen. Maybe not right away, but but with some effort there are few things within reason that are impossible.