ive never had problems with drugs and alcohol but dld the best advice i can give you is remember that you have alot of friends on here who will always support you and you got a girl that is a million times hotter than the average girl walking this earth and you can always look in your pants and...
i can understand why people want to give their partners pleasure but wouldnt the best thing to do is just ask her what she likes? every girl i have been with masterbates so they should know what works and what doesnt.